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The Angry Mule

The Angry Mule

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I was sexually abused at the age of 13 while in foster care and have only recently had the courage to tell my friends and family.I feel so guilty that I haven't gone to the authorities because the sick fuck could still be doing it to other children.I didnt want to go through court and be called a fag or have to relive that shit.I have 2 kids of my own now and have seriously thought about crushing this sicko but if I get caught I will do a hefty jail sentence and wont be around to ptotect my kids from freaks like that.I know he would shit himself because I am a rather large lad so what do I do?I know he still lives at the same place.Should I stomp him and put the fear of god into him or go to the police and expose this perve?Any advice would be appreciated.I know if I confront him there is so much hate in me I will probably kill him but I have to think of whats best for my children.
 
sorry to hear that
 
Go to the police! If he did it to u he will do it to others. U could be protecting some young kids. Wouldn't it be nice if they could be spared what u have been through?
Think about it and then get this guy off the streets.
 
You think the police can do anything after all this time? Will you go though a whole trial?

If not just go threaten his ass...tell him your watching him and you'll fuckin kill him if you get the inkling he's doing this shit to more children
 
I never got a chance to confront any of the assholes who did vile shit to me and I dont think it would do any good. It isn't like they would apologize, besides a few of them are dead anyhow.

Go to the authorities and if you can still press charges and are prepared to follow through do that. Nothing will ever erase the scars, but perhaps if he is brought to justice and exposed then you might have some sense of closure.

At least I was able to protect my little sister, but I couldn't protect anyone else.

My children haven't clue one what it feels like, makes me very very happy indeed.

Get some counseling. No matter how much YOU THINK you have dealt with it and are "OK" with it, it isn't. Will fucking rear it's ugly head and hurt you in ways that you never thought it could.

I dont think that I will ever get over a lot of it, though I have been fighting real hard this last year. I am now coming up on 40... was barely 9 y/o when that shit started. 30 years of suffering is far too long.
 
Seriously I wouldnt go and threaten him or anything. If you want this guy stopped I would go to the police, you would probably need some sort of evidence tho. Good luck and I am really sorry to hear about all of that. Good luck with your decision... Just think it long and through before you do anything drastic
 
ChewYxRage said:
You think the police can do anything after all this time? Will you go though a whole trial?

If not just go threaten his ass...tell him your watching him and you'll fuckin kill him if you get the inkling he's doing this shit to more children
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I dont know if I could go through trail,but then again its not really about me any more its about preventing this from happening to someone else.At the very least I will make some anonymous calls and alert the authorities and maybe even drop some letters in his neighbours letter boxes so people are aware while I decide if its worth the risk of knocking the bastard.Trust me he deserves to die,but I dont like the idea about life behind bars.
 
Police.

Bring as much attention to it as possible so his friends and family all know about this scum. Even if you don't "get him" by the cops, at least you'd scare him enough with all the attention and hopefully his friends and family will hold their kids away from him after finding out.

Do it for the other kids... at least. I have a 3 yo girl and I'd definately appreciate something like that. Good luck man.
 
Beached Whale said:
I never got a chance to confront any of the assholes who did vile shit to me and I dont think it would do any good. It isn't like they would apologize, besides a few of them are dead anyhow.

Go to the authorities and if you can still press charges and are prepared to follow through do that. Nothing will ever erase the scars, but perhaps if he is brought to justice and exposed then you might have some sense of closure.

At least I was able to protect my little sister, but I couldn't protect anyone else.

My children haven't clue one what it feels like, makes me very very happy indeed.

Get some counseling. No matter how much YOU THINK you have dealt with it and are "OK" with it, it isn't. Will fucking rear it's ugly head and hurt you in ways that you never thought it could.

I dont think that I will ever get over a lot of it, though I have been fighting real hard this last year. I am now coming up on 40... was barely 9 y/o when that shit started. 30 years of suffering is far too long.
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Jesus,here I am wingeing about what I've been through and didnt even think how it would make other people feel in the same situation by bringing this up.Sorry for what you have been through I am such an ass and dont think sometimes.
 
I would torture him, and I wouldnt kill him. I would tell him I am watching him and if he goes to the police I will go to town on his ass with a torch. I would also make sure to wear gloves and have an air tight alabi.
 
You may want to check on the statute of limitations if we are talking a significant amount of time between now and when you were abused. Not trying to be a downer but if you get all worked up and go to the cops and they tell you theres nothing they can do about it because too much time has passed then that would add insult to injury.
 
The Angry Mule said:
I dont know if I could go through trail,but then again its not really about me any more its about preventing this from happening to someone else.At the very least I will make some anonymous calls and alert the authorities and maybe even drop some letters in his neighbours letter boxes so people are aware while I decide if its worth the risk of knocking the bastard.Trust me he deserves to die,but I dont like the idea about life behind bars.
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Dude. You cant be paying this guy for a visit. You just have to do like you said, contact people and let them have there eye open and watch him closely. If you were to go and do that... the wrong guy would be behind bars and then really you couldnt do anything at all. Ya know.
 
superdave said:
You may want to check on the statute of limitations if we are talking a significant amount of time between now and when you were abused. Not trying to be a downer but if you get all worked up and go to the cops and they tell you theres nothing they can do about it because too much time has passed then that would add insult to injury.
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Good call,I better do some research coz I dont want to go to the cops and find out they cant do shit and also make my self a suspect for thrashing this guy.
 
The Angry Mule said:
Jesus,here I am wingeing about what I've been through and didnt even think how it would make other people feel in the same situation by bringing this up.Sorry for what you have been through I am such an ass and dont think sometimes.
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OH no darlin'.... it's ok for me. Been in therapy for a year now and finally making some truly positive changes. I still have all the troubles and life stresses I had before, but have a brighter outlook on my future and the futures of my children. I think we have a real shot at happiness at last.

I only told you a bit about me so you can see that you are not alone. Sadly, there are far too many of us.

I want you to think about YOU and HOW YOU CAN HELP YOURSELF. Lashing out and proliferating hate will not make you feel better. Me, I would turn my anger inwards and hurt me... but in the end, the result is the same, is it not?

Do what you feel is right. But please go talk to competent professionals... I am sure that you are a loving dad, but think about how much your children will benefit by YOU working ON YOU!

You didnt ask for the shit that happened but still you are left to deal with it just the same.

Be well mon ami.... be well and happy. :)
 
Beached Whale said:
OH no darlin'.... it's ok for me. Been in therapy for a year now and finally making some truly positive changes. I still have all the troubles and life stresses I had before, but have a brighter outlook on my future and the futures of my children. I think we have a real shot at happiness at last.

I only told you a bit about me so you can see that you are not alone. Sadly, there are far too many of us.

I want you to think about YOU and HOW YOU CAN HELP YOURSELF. Lashing out and proliferating hate will not make you feel better. Me, I would turn my anger inwards and hurt me... but in the end, the result is the same, is it not?

Do what you feel is right. But please go talk to competent professionals... I am sure that you are a loving dad, but think about how much your children will benefit by YOU working ON YOU!

You didnt ask for the shit that happened but still you are left to deal with it just the same.

Be well mon ami.... be well and happy. :)
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Thanks for the kind words
 
What I have learned from observation is that child sex offenders can't change.
You have to think about your children first.
I don't know the details of your situation, but if it is going to put you in harms way, be selfish for your children's sake.
If you are not going to end up in jail, then go to Police.
He is for sure still harming other children. That's given. Save other children from him.
You would be rewarded by the thought that you saved many other children.
 
i would call the police first......and social services in the county he lives in. They would have to look into him. If that doesnt work then I'd say go for him. I have been raped b4 and ne one who does that deserves what comes to them. My mother was molested to starting at the age of 4!!
 
Jade19 said:
i would call the police first......and social services in the county he lives in. They would have to look into him. If that doesnt work then I'd say go for him. I have been raped b4 and ne one who does that deserves what comes to them. My mother was molested to starting at the age of 4!!
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Sorry to hear that I feel for you.If the legal way dosnt do me justice I'm going after the motherfucker.
 
little late for payback, Homles...You got kids now. Police.....
 
A big thankyou to everyone for their advice and support,I have decided not to go for legal action or to beat the life out of him at this point.I will concnetate my energy on making as many people aware as possible for now.That seems to be the most sensible way to go.The problem with alerting people is he will probably be more careful and resort to greater lengths to avoid getting court.Its something I should have done years ago.I dont want people to feel sorry for me but I am really fucked up from what he did to me and if I didnt have children I would have either killed him or myself.But I dont have the right to do either and there are so many people who have been through much more tragic events and have pulled themselves together.I was put in foster care to get me away from abusive pearants not to be abused some more.The welfare department needs a really big shake up and it should be mandatory to do thorough history checks on foster pearants to try and detect early sighns.
 
Mr. Black said:
If I were you I'd hire some hitman thugs to fuck him up good bicycle-chain style.
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The only hitman I could find for under 20k would be some junkie who would give his own mum up if he got caught.It would be sweet If I could get a strong case against him and he got only a couple of years even.I know a couple oldmates doing life and could certainly have a nice welcoming party waiting for him and it wouldnt cost me fuck all.A few pouches of white ox was the going rate last time I heard.A lot of the lifers have morals and despise rockspider scum and would probably do it for a laugh whats the worst that can happen to my mates anyway,loose their tv privelage?Fuck some of them are looking at 20-30years.One is that off tap he has been given the "never to be released" stamp.I should have considered this earlier.K to you mr Black for striking me a match.Every dog has his day.Even the gaurds hate kiddie fuckers,any crim that commits a serious crime against children or the elderly has it coming to them.Even if they get put in protective custody I'm sure there is a way around that.
 
Go to the police right now, no procrastinating. It would be best for you and the world. Yes, you'd feel better stomping the hell out of him, but think about your kids.

Whiskey
 
ChewYxRage said:
If not just go threaten his ass...tell him your watching him and you'll fuckin kill him if you get the inkling he's doing this shit to more children
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That's the stupidest thing I've ever heard. Are you ten? Sheesh, go to the police...
 
go to the police, the shit head needs to suffer and needs to be publically flogged and then have his pecker cut off
but do it legally, dont let ur kids be without their dad
 
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