beefcake, what really makes me throw my hands up, and lets not even get into the issue of her ex and her son, but the crazy thing with his new one. He is a reasonably fit guy. He works out, does cardio, tries to watch what he eats. Once a few years ago he made fun of me for being drunk and trying to pickup a cut girl in a bar who needed to drop about 30-35 lbs, and still jokes about to this day how he saved me from fucking a whale.
His current girl is about 250 lbs. How, she was that heavy when he met her, she claims to always be doing some stupid ass crash diet for going an entire day without eating, but then every time I see her she is craming down regular coca-cola, cake and candybars. He bitches becuase she is overweight and wants me to help her lose about 80 lbs (I told him she needs to drop 50% of her bodyweight when he kept pestering me), then she will ask me for diet advice then say "See when someone tells me to do something it makes me want to do the opposite".
Now, why are you going to be someone who says any signifigant bodyfat on women turns you off, but let a girl who is 250+ lbs move in with you, and become your girlfriend, and then spend time trying to change her when she really has no desire to be thin. I just want to slap the shit out of him sometimes.
Even my wife bitches about it. Once in front of her he joked about saving me from the fat chick that night in a bar, and when he left the room a second later she goes, "At least my baby isn't fucking Jabba the Hut..."