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I don't get it....

myway

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I don't get it. My ex keeps sending me pics and being super nice..... NOW that I am married. When I was his girlfriend, all he EVER did was cheat and lie. Now, he sends me pics and calls a couple of times a week. Plus, just to make it all MORE strange.... my HUSBAND says that I should talk to him. My HUSBAND says that if he only wants to be friends..... I should be his friend. But my ex says he's mad at me for getting married.... but then says he can just be my friend. I'm sorry. I think this WHOLE thing is ate up.
This is the pic he sent today.
 
wow, yea that really is messed up, lol. your ex seems kind of weird. the part about "being mad that you are married" is a red flag right there. if he's your friend he should be happy for you! I would be wary of him.
 
whats not to get>? people always want what they cnt have and now that youre married, he wants to see if he still "has it" with you because if he can win the attention of a married woman, for christ's sake, he's a fucking Dynamo!!! (at least that
s what he's telling himself)

It's a self-esteem boosting technique that he's doing. It's an ego stroke.
Women do this shit too.

My ex will text me at times, but I dont get caught up in that shit. Bad news IMO. Unless it's a benign question or something, I dont let him suck me into anything I would consider inappropriate plus I dont really much care to engage him in any interaction. sends the wrong message like "hey Im married and committed for life, but Im still going to communicate with you whenever you see fit and give you attention."
 
Smurfy said:
whats not to get>? people always want what they cnt have and now that youre married, he wants to see if he still "has it" with you because if he can win the attention of a married woman, for christ's sake, he's a fucking Dynamo!!! (at least that
s what he's telling himself)

It's a self-esteem boosting technique that he's doing. It's an ego stroke.
Women do this shit too.

My ex will text me at times, but I dont get caught up in that shit. Bad news IMO. Unless it's a benign question or something, I dont let him suck me into anything I would consider inappropriate plus I dont really much care to engage him in any interaction. sends the wrong message like "hey Im married and committed for life, but Im still going to communicate with you whenever you see fit and give you attention."

Dead on. He sees you as a challenge now.
 
I am not plat so I can't enlarge that, however unlesshe is in the military, that is not exactally a hunting rifle he is carrying. What other kinds of pictures does he send?
 
juiceddreadlocks said:
Nice AR-15 in that pic

It looked more like an m-4 with a collapsable stock but it is hard to tell in the thumbnail.
 
KillahBee said:
lol at 5th gradeness

It is amazing how many "adults"... guys are probably the worst... still play at the 5th grade level. I have a hard time not beating a few of my friends over the stupid shit they do to try and win back a women. Pathetic.
 
beefcake28 said:
It is amazing how many "adults"... guys are probably the worst... still play at the 5th grade level. I have a hard time not beating a few of my friends over the stupid shit they do with women.

Yep. I have a close friend (like a brother to me) who is a 27 year old paramedic, who does the most stupid shit with women and relationships, mainly lets every girl move in with him that he has dated for more than one week, literally. Then he convinces himself he is in love with them once they move in, because they are more difficult to get rid of then. Once he is "in love" with them, he calls me constantly to ask how he can change this or that about his girl to make them into what he wants, and all they do is fight and he will call me to see if I see things from his perspective in the arguement.
 
BodyByFinaplix said:
Yep. I have a close friend (like a brother to me) who is a 27 year old paramedic, who does the most stupid shit with women and relationships, mainly lets every girl move in with him that he has dated for more than one week, literally. Then he convinces himself he is in love with them once they move in, because they are more difficult to get rid of then. Once he is "in love" with them, he calls me constantly to ask how he can change this or that about his girl to make them into what he wants, and all they do is fight and he will call me to see if I see things from his perspective in the arguement.
I may have to make a new thread about this kind of thing. It fascinates me.
 
beefcake, what really makes me throw my hands up, and lets not even get into the issue of her ex and her son, but the crazy thing with his new one. He is a reasonably fit guy. He works out, does cardio, tries to watch what he eats. Once a few years ago he made fun of me for being drunk and trying to pickup a cut girl in a bar who needed to drop about 30-35 lbs, and still jokes about to this day how he saved me from fucking a whale.

His current girl is about 250 lbs. How, she was that heavy when he met her, she claims to always be doing some stupid ass crash diet for going an entire day without eating, but then every time I see her she is craming down regular coca-cola, cake and candybars. He bitches becuase she is overweight and wants me to help her lose about 80 lbs (I told him she needs to drop 50% of her bodyweight when he kept pestering me), then she will ask me for diet advice then say "See when someone tells me to do something it makes me want to do the opposite".

Now, why are you going to be someone who says any signifigant bodyfat on women turns you off, but let a girl who is 250+ lbs move in with you, and become your girlfriend, and then spend time trying to change her when she really has no desire to be thin. I just want to slap the shit out of him sometimes.

Even my wife bitches about it. Once in front of her he joked about saving me from the fat chick that night in a bar, and when he left the room a second later she goes, "At least my baby isn't fucking Jabba the Hut..."
 
BodyByFinaplix said:
beefcake, what really makes me throw my hands up, and lets not even get into the issue of her ex and her son, but the crazy thing with his new one. He is a reasonably fit guy. He works out, does cardio, tries to watch what he eats. Once a few years ago he made fun of me for being drunk and trying to pickup a cut girl in a bar who needed to drop about 30-35 lbs, and still jokes about to this day how he saved me from fucking a whale.

His current girl is about 250 lbs. How, she was that heavy when he met her, she claims to always be doing some stupid ass crash diet for going an entire day without eating, but then every time I see her she is craming down regular coca-cola, cake and candybars. He bitches becuase she is overweight and wants me to help her lose about 80 lbs (I told him she needs to drop 50% of her bodyweight when he kept pestering me), then she will ask me for diet advice then say "See when someone tells me to do something it makes me want to do the opposite".

Now, why are you going to be someone who says any signifigant bodyfat on women turns you off, but let a girl who is 250+ lbs move in with you, and become your girlfriend, and then spend time trying to change her when she really has no desire to be thin. I just want to slap the shit out of him sometimes.

Even my wife bitches about it. Once in front of her he joked about saving me from the fat chick that night in a bar, and when he left the room a second later she goes, "At least my baby isn't fucking Jabba the Hut..."

Holy shit, that is sad. Maybe you should just go slap the shit out of him. Sounds like he deserves it.

One of the worst feelings in the world is watching close friends fuck up their lives, especially when they know better, but do it anyway... Or, even worse, settling for much less than they deserve... When all we can do is watch and try to give them some advice.
 
There is a serious lack of emotional intelligence among grown adults and it's frightening. I've been guilty of this stupidity in the past and it took me until after I was 30 to actually use my God-given brain.
 
Smurfy said:
There is a serious lack of emotional intelligence among grown adults and it's frightening. I've been guilty of this stupidity in the past and it took me until after I was 30 to actually use my God-given brain.
So - is it a bad sign that I am 34 and still have no emotional intelligence? :worried:
 
Smurfy said:
MyWay, also - Admit that you like it.
Do I like the fact that the person who broke my heart(over and over.... and over) is suddenly craving my attention but now he can't have me? Hell, yes. I tried for 3 years to be more important to this man. Now, it feels really good to know that he's no longer in control of my life.
 
BodyByFinaplix said:
I am not plat so I can't enlarge that, however unlesshe is in the military, that is not exactally a hunting rifle he is carrying. What other kinds of pictures does he send?
I don't get that, either. He always sends pics with guns... or on a motorcycle.. or something. :rolleyes:
 
BodyByFinaplix said:
Yep. I have a close friend (like a brother to me) who is a 27 year old paramedic, who does the most stupid shit with women and relationships, mainly lets every girl move in with him that he has dated for more than one week, literally. Then he convinces himself he is in love with them once they move in, because they are more difficult to get rid of then. Once he is "in love" with them, he calls me constantly to ask how he can change this or that about his girl to make them into what he wants, and all they do is fight and he will call me to see if I see things from his perspective in the arguement.

lol, a guy who constantly seeks woman advice from others, sounds like me!
except he actually sounds like he's done stuff with women.
 
BodyByFinaplix said:
It looked more like an m-4 with a collapsable stock but it is hard to tell in the thumbnail.
An m-what??? Collapsable huh? Who cares? He was a really big jerk for a really long time.
 
mountain muscle said:
Smurfy is like the EF Yoda.

You would do well to learn from her.




I'm a lover of the other
Side of the hill...
She does seem to have everything all figured out.
 
BodyByFinaplix said:
Yep. I have a close friend (like a brother to me) who is a 27 year old paramedic, who does the most stupid shit with women and relationships, mainly lets every girl move in with him that he has dated for more than one week, literally. Then he convinces himself he is in love with them once they move in, because they are more difficult to get rid of then. Once he is "in love" with them, he calls me constantly to ask how he can change this or that about his girl to make them into what he wants, and all they do is fight and he will call me to see if I see things from his perspective in the arguement.
Yea, paramedics suck. o-wait..... :rolleyes:
Most EMS men are very unstable with women. Or is that just men in general?
 
reno240 said:
OH YEAH!! - you know it's workin' ... :)
No. It's not. Maybe years ago.... but I have a gazillion pics of him with guns. It just reminds me that he is a marine. It reminds me of all of the time he spent deployed(it makes me sad) and all of the time he spent drinking and cheating on those semper fi field trips to Cali, Mexico, or North Carolina.... or Myrtle Beach. It's not a turn on to me. It only brings back bad memories.
 
healother said:
you are on here early again :) posting from work?
I work from 9:30 until 6pm. I gotta get in the shower, soon. It sux. :rolleyes: But lucky for me it's a short shift. :)
 
myway said:
I work from 9:30 until 6pm. I gotta get in the shower, soon. It sux. :rolleyes: But lucky for me it's a short shift. :)

ahhh ok. btw, thats a normal shift, not a short one, at least to most people, lol.
 
healother said:
ahhh ok. btw, thats a normal shift, not a short one, at least to most people, lol.
Damn it! I knew I was starting to get brain washed! I thought I had it good. Damn it!
 
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