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Please, elaborate young one, btw, she's cheating on you bra
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What can I say, today was day and half in its length.
Basically, I've been into this girl for a while now, and she's been interested in me, though I kinda suspected not nearly as much as I felt for her. But I wasnt certain, coulda been more coulda been less. A little background on how I met her...one of my best buddies who I've known for 8 years knew her through his sister, somehow I got in the loop and I started talking with her within the past year. Our interests got really deep and there was a definite care for one another...or so I thought. Well, within the past month, I was an idiot. Why? Because I made myself vulnerable and told her what I felt and thought, but I figured it was long overdue. But things started to change up after that, and I was catching on to different things. Patterns and what not. To give you an idea of how much I actually liked this girl...she almost made me defunctional at times because the emotion was so intense. Bad, I know. Ceasar is still young, so forgive him. Anyways, last weekened (not this one that just passed, the one before) I told my buddy who introduced her to me during our blazing expedition, "Man, I really like this girl...so on" and he didnt have much to say on the offer despite how well he knew her. I found it weird because he has an opinion on everything, especially something dealing with a fellow bro's interest in a woman. I caught onto that in an instant but couldn't make anything relevant out of it. So I passed it out of my head like it was nothing. But then what do I notice? A trend that following week. The girl I like starts talking on the phone and online abit different while we talked (im busy with school, cant check her out). She stopped dressing the way she normally did for a week, she said she was lazy and didnt feel like it. I was definitely making something of this. Then, I talk to my buddy, the one whom I met the girl through, his name is B, and B said that he just broke up with his girl. WTF? He didnt really say why though. So, I go to talk to him yesterday and ask for some advice about what I should do with this girl I'm interested in, do I cut it because she might not feel me like I do her or do I stay and wait how shit turns out (I should note that she does live a little bit aways). Then he says, just dont bother man, it's not worth it and I know her best, you will only become friends with her at best "I trust her". When he said I trust her, I asked what relevance that had to anything. He didnt answer right away, but I basically told him that I'm persistent and was gonna get this girl...at this point, I go to another world. He tells me that he loves her and she loves him and they have all these plans together. He also attacks me verbally to the point that we are no longer friends even though I said shit to him and never even said shit back once all was done. Now, to give you a little info on this dude, he is fucked up. Rough childhood, but not horrible. He definitely has some mental problems. Like we are talking one of those borderline pathological liars. Seriously, this guy creates worlds for himself so he can be different. He is one of those dudes that gets in soooooooo deep with every girl he's with and treats her like a soulmate. But my friends and I think he does it just so he can crash and feel the hardship of a broken heart because he's had alot of that. It gives him a high or purpose, almost. It's wierd, he's weird. He started saying how he's always envied me and that I am what he strives to be. He said, "why do you have to have her, huh, you want to steal away my dream and my life like everyone else has. You selfish fuck." I basically maintain my composure and didnt even attack him back. I thought, I'm not stoopin to his level. I said, I'm gonna find out the truth tomorrow (today) and if all is what you say, then I will drop dead and you two can be. He said that I "lit a match over our bridge" lol. Whatever guy, you are a loser. The guy doesnt go to school, just places warcraft 3 and smokes pot. That's it. Why am I still his friend, I guess I just have sympathy because he's had alot of fucked up shit happen to him.
Next day, I talk to the girl and ask her if all is true and she said yes. I wasnt so shocked nor upset as wierd as it sounds. Why? Because someone up above just saved me a fuck load of time in giving me clearity and seeing that she must be off her fuckin rocker if she wants to be with him and that I dont need a woman like this anyways. But, I knew she didnt know the entire story of this guy, he's very...emotional, he lives for this shit, to get in your head and everyone knows this but her because she's never with him in person so she never catches on to his bullshit. So, she starts defending him and attacking me. I told her, "I care for you. I now know that I cant be with you. If you love somebody else and not me, I'm fine with that because I accept that you will do as you will. But to love this guy of all guys is killin me. Not that I am losing to him, but that you are. You dont see his true side because you believe everything he tells you." She got really pissed with me. I basically started to back off because I knew she had to figure this all out the hard way, my words werent making a damn difference on her. So she said the one thing that he isnt is a liar. I lol'd at that point because I couldn't help but laugh at the fact that she is in for such a surprise. He's a very savy man with it comes to playing with your emotions and he played this girl out perfect. I told her, you will see one day that I was right, and for that I can rest easy.
I never once exchanged bad words with them, I wanted to have that one up on them. I was the gentleman and it fuckin kills them. They couldn't tick me. I told them both they wouldnt brake me, I said the last thing I'm gonna do is mimic them.
I really liked this girl alot though, its tough. I mean, I just fear for her more than anything because she is going to be going with a guy who will drag her backwards and does even know it.
Basically, I've been into this girl for a while now, and she's been interested in me, though I kinda suspected not nearly as much as I felt for her. But I wasnt certain, coulda been more coulda been less. A little background on how I met her...one of my best buddies who I've known for 8 years knew her through his sister, somehow I got in the loop and I started talking with her within the past year. Our interests got really deep and there was a definite care for one another...or so I thought. Well, within the past month, I was an idiot. Why? Because I made myself vulnerable and told her what I felt and thought, but I figured it was long overdue. But things started to change up after that, and I was catching on to different things. Patterns and what not. To give you an idea of how much I actually liked this girl...she almost made me defunctional at times because the emotion was so intense. Bad, I know. Ceasar is still young, so forgive him. Anyways, last weekened (not this one that just passed, the one before) I told my buddy who introduced her to me during our blazing expedition, "Man, I really like this girl...so on" and he didnt have much to say on the offer despite how well he knew her. I found it weird because he has an opinion on everything, especially something dealing with a fellow bro's interest in a woman. I caught onto that in an instant but couldn't make anything relevant out of it. So I passed it out of my head like it was nothing. But then what do I notice? A trend that following week. The girl I like starts talking on the phone and online abit different while we talked (im busy with school, cant check her out). She stopped dressing the way she normally did for a week, she said she was lazy and didnt feel like it. I was definitely making something of this. Then, I talk to my buddy, the one whom I met the girl through, his name is B, and B said that he just broke up with his girl. WTF? He didnt really say why though. So, I go to talk to him yesterday and ask for some advice about what I should do with this girl I'm interested in, do I cut it because she might not feel me like I do her or do I stay and wait how shit turns out (I should note that she does live a little bit aways). Then he says, just dont bother man, it's not worth it and I know her best, you will only become friends with her at best "I trust her". When he said I trust her, I asked what relevance that had to anything. He didnt answer right away, but I basically told him that I'm persistent and was gonna get this girl...at this point, I go to another world. He tells me that he loves her and she loves him and they have all these plans together. He also attacks me verbally to the point that we are no longer friends even though I said shit to him and never even said shit back once all was done. Now, to give you a little info on this dude, he is fucked up. Rough childhood, but not horrible. He definitely has some mental problems. Like we are talking one of those borderline pathological liars. Seriously, this guy creates worlds for himself so he can be different. He is one of those dudes that gets in soooooooo deep with every girl he's with and treats her like a soulmate. But my friends and I think he does it just so he can crash and feel the hardship of a broken heart because he's had alot of that. It gives him a high or purpose, almost. It's wierd, he's weird. He started saying how he's always envied me and that I am what he strives to be. He said, "why do you have to have her, huh, you want to steal away my dream and my life like everyone else has. You selfish fuck." I basically maintain my composure and didnt even attack him back. I thought, I'm not stoopin to his level. I said, I'm gonna find out the truth tomorrow (today) and if all is what you say, then I will drop dead and you two can be. He said that I "lit a match over our bridge" lol. Whatever guy, you are a loser. The guy doesnt go to school, just places warcraft 3 and smokes pot. That's it. Why am I still his friend, I guess I just have sympathy because he's had alot of fucked up shit happen to him.
Next day, I talk to the girl and ask her if all is true and she said yes. I wasnt so shocked nor upset as wierd as it sounds. Why? Because someone up above just saved me a fuck load of time in giving me clearity and seeing that she must be off her fuckin rocker if she wants to be with him and that I dont need a woman like this anyways. But, I knew she didnt know the entire story of this guy, he's very...emotional, he lives for this shit, to get in your head and everyone knows this but her because she's never with him in person so she never catches on to his bullshit. So, she starts defending him and attacking me. I told her, "I care for you. I now know that I cant be with you. If you love somebody else and not me, I'm fine with that because I accept that you will do as you will. But to love this guy of all guys is killin me. Not that I am losing to him, but that you are. You dont see his true side because you believe everything he tells you." She got really pissed with me. I basically started to back off because I knew she had to figure this all out the hard way, my words werent making a damn difference on her. So she said the one thing that he isnt is a liar. I lol'd at that point because I couldn't help but laugh at the fact that she is in for such a surprise. He's a very savy man with it comes to playing with your emotions and he played this girl out perfect. I told her, you will see one day that I was right, and for that I can rest easy.
I never once exchanged bad words with them, I wanted to have that one up on them. I was the gentleman and it fuckin kills them. They couldn't tick me. I told them both they wouldnt brake me, I said the last thing I'm gonna do is mimic them.
I really liked this girl alot though, its tough. I mean, I just fear for her more than anything because she is going to be going with a guy who will drag her backwards and does even know it.
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hotzie said:
-one of my best boys turns out to be having a secret love relationship with the girl I've been after for a long time.
-I no longer have those two people in my life
-I succeed because it's time to stop fuckin around and live up to my potential. Time to avoid nonsensical bullshit and stupid people. See them before them come.
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ceasar989 said:
Go eat a chili dog with mustard and onions (Best to be a footlong, but if not make it two, good ones, no homemade specials, go to the BEst chilidog restaurant in town and treat yourself). Itll make you forget about all of your woman problems. Always worked, the sinful pleasure of chili and hotdog.mmmmmm
Washes away all the grief. Dont know why that is, but all my friends who've gone through this. IT ALWAYS WORKED FOR THEM. Trust me on this, please!!!
Always, the chili dog somehow centers a man's soul
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ceasar989 said:
You snooze you lose, this guy made a move before you. Next time to play softsoap feel you out with a girl. Move in and say wreckless stuff right away if you like her. If she gets uncomfortable, joke about it even more. You played your hand too serious.
You shouldve told her from day one you felt a funny feeling in your tummy for her, when you did. Just say it when it happens, wow, Im really into you, do it BEFORE you are REALLY into her so if she's not into you it doesnt matter. Kapisch?
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BrothaBill said:
I would normally be pissed of that I didnt get her, but now that I see their true sides, her true side, I'm glad that he did make the first move and had it all result as it did. It woulda been worse in the end because I would figured she was shit once I was even deeper.
I dunno, I'm just trying to be optimistic man. You gotta make the best of any situation when you can, especially ones like these.
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ceasar989 said:
Its the Tao, say it when you are desireless, not when you have desire then its too late.
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ceasar989 said:
Yeah, thats the Ego, Id, and superego fighting in your mind.
The wisest advice ever told to me by a old Italian man:
"A thousand angels singing wont change the fact that the chick dont like you!"
Just eat a chili dog and move on, get a nice frothy rootbeer with it too
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Lestat said:
lmao, depends on how good the chili dog is I spose, btw, did you happen to eat a chili dog after a bad breakup?? Perhaps you missed out on the amazing chili dog healing powers by not having one
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ceasar989 said:
We need a chili dog forum!!! talk of chili dogs, heartbreak and A&W Rootbeer
this is brothabill's idea of a good chili dog.
http://chili-dog.urbanup.com/624555
http://chili-dog.urbanup.com/624555
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hotzie said:
Go for the rootbeer vanilla icecream float instead, mmmmmm
The chili dog is Americana at its finest, world peace could be achieved over a feast of chili dogs
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hotzie said:your makin me hungry.....im goin to get a chillidog tomorrow
Th Origin of all things.
There is a thing, formless yet complete.
Before heaven and earth it existed.
Without sound, without substance,
it stands alone and unchanging.
It is all-pervading and unfailing.
One may think of it as the mother of all beneath Heaven.
We do not know its name, but we call it the Chili Dog.
Deep and still, it seems to have existed forever.
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Hiatussin said:
I bet your a vegetarian or vegan, you have never eaten a chili dog in your life have you???
sorry to hear ceasar...
best advice I ever got was when I was 12...
"always bring your own condoms cause you can't trust those broads..."
so post up her number and name so we can hit it and give him some payback for you already...
btw chilidogs rock. yesterdog in east GR michigan....
best advice I ever got was when I was 12...
"always bring your own condoms cause you can't trust those broads..."
so post up her number and name so we can hit it and give him some payback for you already...
btw chilidogs rock. yesterdog in east GR michigan....
