youve got some size under there, time to cut up and see the definition. i think you would be happier (based on the tone of your post) if you were lighter/leaner. get down to 10% and you will probably feel better.
can't really tell anything by the pics...but def not 14% bf bro.more like just under 20%...concentrate on diet and lay off the dairy prod's.making you look thick-skinned and you don't want that...since you're not happy w/ the way you look.