How would you guys handle this

[theoak01]

I have this buddy who is really walking on egg shells with me, a while back he grabbed my girlfriends tits when he was drunk right infront of me,we sorted that out but I never really took my eye off watching him around her,and last weekend this fuck start kissing her on the cheek and shit infront of me after we dropped him off from the bar, I decided to let this go because Im very forgiving and patient.

but today me and my girl are talking about this and she is telling me oh I have nothing to worry about blah blah,whatever,and I get a call from my buddy after she left explaining that she invited him over to play pool at her place,meanwhile she knew I was going out with him and a few other friends tonight.

so I am starting to think something is seriously fucked up in this situation,how the hell would you guys go about handiling this disrespect from both of them?

 

[alien amp pharm]

If she invited him over without you knowing, then I'd be worrying.

Never believe the ole "He's harmless, you have nothing to worry about" either

 

[theoak01]

I dont believe he is harmless for a second and I told her I dont want her alone with him ever,call me a jealous prick but since he has done shit with me right there what the fuck would he do if I am not

and she tried to play the oh I dont find him attractive blah blah bullshit,which I believe because he is a ugly fuck ,but man Im worried,especially since she didnt tell me

 

[perkele]

Do you still have your Magnum44 Oakie bro?

 

[theoak01]

the glock,but no need to get that bad,Im fired up but trying to keep things civil and use as much rationale as possible

 

[bran987]

he's not a friend if he goes over to her house by himself and doesn't mention it to you, if there are other people over it's a different story

 

[hardrock]

I'd set 'em up. If shit happens, ditch 'em both.

never believe that "I don't even find him attractive" shit. My girl once said that to me and a week later we were at the dudes house drinkin and she was flirting with him right in front of me. Kissing him on the cheek and shit. I made her feel like shit afterwards and told her it would never happen again or I would be gone.

 

[alien amp pharm]

You're not a jealous prick....I'd be the same way you are.

Something I'm not proud of is that I was "that guy" years back. I found one of my friends GF's attractive. I would've never acted on my own, but when she started to coming onto me behind his back, I couldn't resist.

She gave him the "he's not my type" "he's harmless" etc., all while sneaking around.

Again, I'm not proud of that and I learned my lesson and said I was sorry, but the end result is that the girl is married to someone else now, and I lost my best friend. Stupid stupid stupid.

 

[theoak01]

ya thats the thing apparently he and another friend were there last night and I didnt find out until my girl told me,but this shit is just getting way out of hand

I may try the set up as I really have to solve this problem,if not I have wasted 3 years of my fucking life

 

[SoreArms]

It doesn't sound right that
1. She is inviting him over without telling you, specially when she knows the current issues
2. He is supposedly your friend, but then does all that shit, not to mention in front of you, and it sounds like he accepted to go over to your GF's house.

hmmmmmm.......

It doesn't sound like its only your friend that is up to no good

I've been attracted to some of my friends GF's before and i have felt that some of my friends GF's have been attracted to me, but if the guys are really my friends ,then no way do I go there. If they are some one that I really don't consider that close or just an acquaintance, then it's a different story