How would you feel if your girlfriend posed for playboy?

[Fonz]

I dont really see what peoples problem with it is at all.

playboy pictures look good. they are well done and i think they are respectful.

I would have absolutely no problem with anybody posing for playboy. not if she was my daughter, or my sister, or my mother (if i had one that young) or a friend or whatever. this shit is so prude.

if it would be a hardcore porn shoot with double and triple penetrations and slapping hardcore anal sex by a fat hairy guy with a moustache well then i could think its a problem.

but cmon... playboy.

May be a cultural difference between holland and the us tho. dunno.

My thoughts exactly.

Europeans are much less prudish about nudity than americans.

Fonz

 

[slickdadd]

I dated a "Girls of the SEC" chick once - no biggie

I was pretty good friends with the most recent Girls of the SEC. Tennessee girls. Kinda funny.

 

[PolishHammer1977]

I would be supportive. I would also lie if I said I wouldn't be jealous that everyone would be able to see what I love to see everynight.

All in all, if it was important for her, I would support her.

 

[Warik]

Lol... that insecurity shit is the biggest copout.

If anything the guys who aren't happy with their girlfriends posing in Playboy are the REAL men who command respect from their partners.

Want to pose in Playboy? Fine. I have no right to tell you not to. Just don't expect to have a boyfriend tomorrow.

That's not insecurity. That's being a man.

-Warik

 

[FLASHMAN1]

Lol... that insecurity shit is the biggest copout.

If anything the guys who aren't happy with their girlfriends posing in Playboy are the REAL men who command respect from their partners.

Want to pose in Playboy? Fine. I have no right to tell you not to. Just don't expect to have a boyfriend tomorrow.

That's not insecurity. That's being a man.

-Warik

Why is it that you consider controlling your partners' actions "being a man"??? I just don't see what the big deal with Playboy is. It's not like she's posing for a fuck magazine. If you truly believe it's morally wrong, then fine, but I just don't think it's very mature to think someone is trashy for posing nude. The female form is beautiful, and to be admired. I think that if a man is secure in his relationship, and trusts his s/o, then it shouldn't be a problem. Is it because you don't want other people seeing her naked??? why???

I'm sure you're a good church-going boy who never does anything remotely off color, right???

I know for a fact that if I told my woman that I was uncomfortable with her doing something, she wouldn't do it, but if it's something that she really wanted to do (within reason of course), then I'd support and cheer her on.

 

[HG Pennypacker]

Lol... that insecurity shit is the biggest copout.

If anything the guys who aren't happy with their girlfriends posing in Playboy are the REAL men who command respect from their partners.

Want to pose in Playboy? Fine. I have no right to tell you not to. Just don't expect to have a boyfriend tomorrow.

That's not insecurity. That's being a man.

-Warik

Ok.....whew.....I just got off the floor after passing out.

Warik should have a disclaimer in his sig that says: "WARNING!! Agreeing with Warik can cause blood to flow quickly away from the brain. It may also cause a rash on your scrotum."

 

[Warik]

Why is it that you consider controlling your partners' actions "being a man"???

So if your partner wants to get assfucked by a 300lb ex-con while deepthroating your best friend, you wouldn't have any problem with that? You wouldn't try to "control your partner's actions?"

Of course you would, because you likely do not believe that being assfucked by a 300lb ex-con while deepthroating your best friend is the proper behavior for one's girlfriend.

knight69, however, may find that quite acceptable. As such, are you being an insecure, immature little kid just because your concept of properness differs from his, or are you being a real man by commanding respect from your girlfriend because you do not wish for her to perpetrate an act that you personally find disrespectful to you?

If you truly believe it's morally wrong, then fine, but I just don't think it's very mature to think someone is trashy for posing nude.

I made two posts on this thread, neither of which said that a woman is trashy for posing nude. Whether I believe that or not isn't the issue, the issue is that you are upset about me speaking out against your opinion while you are speaking out against mine.

The female form is beautiful, and to be admired. I think that if a man is secure in his relationship, and trusts his s/o, then it shouldn't be a problem. Is it because you don't want other people seeing her naked??? why???

Yawn.

The female vagina is beautiful, and to be poked with penises. I think that if a man is secure in his relationship, and trusts his s/o, then it shouldn't be a problem. Is it because you don't want other people poking her with their penises? Why???

I'm sure you're a good church-going boy who never does anything remotely off color, right???

I don't attend church regularly, but I don't see how this is relevant. If my hobby is killing people, does that make killing OK? duh.

I know for a fact that if I told my woman that I was uncomfortable with her doing something, she wouldn't do it, but if it's something that she really wanted to do (within reason of course), then I'd support and cheer her on.

Just be careful you don't support her too much, else you'll probably find somebody else cheering her on some day.

-Warik

 

[FLASHMAN1]

So if your partner wants to get assfucked by a 300lb ex-con while deepthroating your best friend, you wouldn't have any problem with that? You wouldn't try to "control your partner's actions?"

Of course you would, because you likely do not believe that being assfucked by a 300lb ex-con while deepthroating your best friend is the proper behavior for one's girlfriend.

knight69, however, may find that quite acceptable. As such, are you being an insecure, immature little kid just because your concept of properness differs from his, or are you being a real man by commanding respect from your girlfriend because you do not wish for her to perpetrate an act that you personally find disrespectful to you?

Like I said later in my post, "within reason" I think you're taking it to an extreme that doesn't even compare. Posing nude for a magazine like Playboy is far and away different than actually having sexual relations outside your relationship.


I made two posts on this thread, neither of which said that a woman is trashy for posing nude. Whether I believe that or not isn't the issue, the issue is that you are upset about me speaking out against your opinion while you are speaking out against mine.

I'm not upset at all. I'm just not trying to compare apples and oranges, you are. What you're trying to elude to is that posing for Playboy can be likened to getting "assfucked by a 300lb ex-con" as you put it. They are not even close, that's all I'm trying to point out.

The female vagina is beautiful, and to be poked with penises. I think that if a man is secure in his relationship, and trusts his s/o, then it shouldn't be a problem. Is it because you don't want other people poking her with their penises? Why???

Once again, apples and oranges. A guy looking at pictures and fantasizing is WAY different than that same guy actually fucking your girl. I understand what you're saying, but your comparisons are way beyond the scope of what we're actually talking about.

I don't attend church regularly, but I don't see how this is relevant. If my hobby is killing people, does that make killing OK? duh.

Of course not. I don't even know where you came up with that one. All I was saying was if you wanted to do something that was LEGAL, and not truly damaging to your relationship, wouldn't you want your s/o to support you?

Just be careful you don't support her too much, else you'll probably find somebody else cheering her on some day.

LOL, thanks for your concern, but I don't have that to worry about. I don't see how you'd equate posing in a magazine to your s/o leaving you for someone else, but to each his own.

-Warik

 

[Warik]

Like I said later in my post, "within reason" I think you're taking it to an extreme that doesn't even compare. Posing nude for a magazine like Playboy is far and away different than actually having sexual relations outside your relationship.

I'm not taking anything to an extreme.

I say that posing nude is a magazine isn't something I'd want my girl to do, you say it's no problem, therefore I'm wrong.

You say that having your girl assfucked isn't something you'd want her to do, someone else says it's no problem, therefore you should be wrong as well by your logic, no?

I'm not upset at all. I'm just not trying to compare apples and oranges, you are. What you're trying to elude to is that posing for Playboy can be likened to getting "assfucked by a 300lb ex-con" as you put it. They are not even close, that's all I'm trying to point out.

No, I'm trying to point out that my girl posing for Playboy against my wishes is very disrespectful to me, whereas you claim I'm insecure/immature for it.

Once again, apples and oranges. A guy looking at pictures and fantasizing is WAY different than that same guy actually fucking your girl. I understand what you're saying, but your comparisons are way beyond the scope of what we're actually talking about.

So the lesser of two evils is OK? I'd prefer not to have naked pictures of my girl circulating across the world. I suppose I'm just insecure then.

Of course not. I don't even know where you came up with that one. All I was saying was if you wanted to do something that was LEGAL, and not truly damaging to your relationship, wouldn't you want your s/o to support you?

I came up with that very easily. You implied that since I'm not the good little church boy who never does anything wrong, then I don't have a right to say what's wrong or right. So, as I said and you agreed, just because I like I like to kill people doesn't mean killing is right.

LOL, thanks for your concern, but I don't have that to worry about. I don't see how you'd equate posing in a magazine to your s/o leaving you for someone else, but to each his own.

*sigh*

I don't equate it to leaving me for someone else.

Let me once again try to break this down into the simplest logical structure possible.

Premise: My girlfriend wants to pose for Playboy.

Premise: My girlfriend posing for Playboy is an act that I find to be disrespectful to me.

Premise: I do not wish to be in a relationship with someone who does not respect me.

Conclusion 1: If my girlfriend poses in Playboy against my wishes, she does not respect me.

Conclusion 2: If my girlfriend does not respect me, she will not be my girlfriend for long.

Simple as that.

Let your girls go on and pose wherever they want. Just don't insult us guys who expect a little bit of respect.

-Warik

 

[chemist]

I'd feel great for 2 reasons:

1. I'd be having sex with a playboy model.
2. All my friends would know about it.

Couldn't have put it better myself.