how the female mind works...

[liftingfreak1983]

hey guys i was reading another thread on females and decided to start my own...
if you are interested in a girl you can go up to a girl and be friendly and get to know her but you NEVER, EVER, EVER, EVER, show that you are more interested than she is!!!! This is the essential rule that men need to abide by, you guys dont even know how many girls tell me about some physco ass guy that wont leave them alone! You have to appear to be "uninterested" even if you aren't. Girls are extreamly insecure and if you seem to be "uninterested" in them then they will want you even more. To tell you the truth i honestly think that females think about sex more than males, it's just the fact that males express it more often...i currently live directly next door to five girls(we share a garage) and every time i go over there all i hear out of their mouths is how they want to get laid and shit about their kinky sex toys. You know how it is always awkward and shit when you first meet a girl and you take her out on a date the first time? Humor is the answer, if you can make a girls laugh then it is that much easier to get into her panties. Any more suggestions...?

 

[avenirup]

hey guys i was reading another thread on females and decided to start my own...
if you are interested in a girl you can go up to a girl and be friendly and get to know her but you NEVER, EVER, EVER, EVER, show that you are more interested than she is!!!! This is the essential rule that men need to abide by, you guys dont even know how many girls tell me about some physco ass guy that wont leave them alone! You have to appear to be "uninterested" even if you aren't. Girls are extreamly insecure and if you seem to be "uninterested" in them then they will want you even more. To tell you the truth i honestly think that females think about sex more than males, it's just the fact that males express it more often...i currently live directly next door to five girls(we share a garage) and every time i go over there all i hear out of their mouths is how they want to get laid and shit about their kinky sex toys. You know how it is always awkward and shit when you first meet a girl and you take her out on a date the first time? Humor is the answer, if you can make a girls laugh then it is that much easier to get into her panties. Any more suggestions...?

O boy, here we go........

Why don't you buy G. Spellwin's "how to get laid" book....(little advertising for the site, should be good for some commision )

 

[liftingfreak1983]

also...make the girl you are trying to get with as jealous as possible. Women have what we like to call jealousy issues, much worse than men...the simplest things like talking to a friend of the opposite sex would make a girl jealous...

 

[javaguru]

Yes, women are VERY sexual, mature women will actually admit to it. I got naked with a woman on our first date and after a few drinks on our second she admitted to fantasizing about sucking my cock while she was at work and salivating. Apparently she has a lot of sex fantasies, she is 39 BTW.

 

[biggest_man_in_the_world]

hey guys i was reading another thread on females and decided to start my own...
if you are interested in a girl you can go up to a girl and be friendly and get to know her but you NEVER, EVER, EVER, EVER, show that you are more interested than she is!!!! This is the essential rule that men need to abide by, you guys dont even know how many girls tell me about some physco ass guy that wont leave them alone! You have to appear to be "uninterested" even if you aren't. Girls are extreamly insecure and if you seem to be "uninterested" in them then they will want you even more. To tell you the truth i honestly think that females think about sex more than males, it's just the fact that males express it more often...i currently live directly next door to five girls(we share a garage) and every time i go over there all i hear out of their mouths is how they want to get laid and shit about their kinky sex toys. You know how it is always awkward and shit when you first meet a girl and you take her out on a date the first time? Humor is the answer, if you can make a girls laugh then it is that much easier to get into her panties. Any more suggestions...?

Think you're spot on. Actually i KNOW you're spot on.

 

[javaguru]

also...make the girl you are trying to get with as jealous as possible. Women have what we like to call jealousy issues, much worse than men...the simplest things like talking to a friend of the opposite sex would make a girl jealous...

Yep, women are more attracted to you when they see other attractive women being attracted to you/liking you. I've seen it a thousand times.

 

[BileStew]

Yes, women are VERY sexual, mature women will actually admit to it. I got naked with a woman on our first date and after a few drinks on our second she admitted to fantasizing about sucking my cock while she was at work and salivating. Apparently she has a lot of sex fantasies, she is 39 BTW.

I think I saw you guys on "Blind Date Bloopers".

 

[javaguru]

I think I saw you guys on "Blind Date Bloopers".

 

[mordy]

The reason is a woman's sexuality and in turn self confidence is mostly related to how she feels about her own attractiveness. A woman who feels very attractive is a very happy chick.

Now keeping this in mind, say they interract with you, or another guy they think is attractive, or possible dating material. They will signal with typical flirting behavior like meaningless chit chat, laughing at your dumb jokes, etc. If you do not return the flirting at the same or an elevated level, you've made a blow to her sexual confidence, and to rectify it, she will firt heavier, be more forward, until she know's she's won you over.

Funny thing is they do this almost instinctively.

 

[tripleblonde]

momma always said, "we want what we can not have"....i'll admit it....girls don't like it when guys don't seem interested, the key is playing their bluff and throwing it right back at them, eventually they'll crack....works every time....lol

 

[sermon_of_mockery]

momma always said, "we want what we can not have"....i'll admit it....girls don't like it when guys don't seem interested, the key is playing their bluff and throwing it right back at them, eventually they'll crack....works every time....lol

damnit,I know!Game playing little hole having bluff callers!

 

[awittyusername]

Great thread lifting freak. You are absolutly correct. Great advice for the youngsters.

I'd like to add one thing. Since women always have the advantage. (because, guys are always hitting on them more than girls are hitting on guys). Guys need to develope the EYE. You have to be able to spot from across the room girls with a weakness. (who just got dumped, or the girl who's upset because she gained 5 lbs, or the girl who's daddy left her. etc) It's sad but true. It actually evens the playing field. Just watch the nature shows on discovery channel. The lion never goes for the fastest antelope. It goes for the weakest or slowest. (Or the one that stayed at the watering hole too long)

 

[MsBeverlyHills]

Great thread lifting freak. You are absolutly correct. Great advice for the youngsters.

I'd like to add one thing. Since women always have the advantage. (because, guys are always hitting on them more than girls are hitting on guys). Guys need to develope the EYE. You have to be able to spot from across the room girls with a weakness. (who just got dumped, or the girl who's upset because she gained 5 lbs, or the girl who's daddy left her. etc) It's sad but true. It actually evens the playing field. Just watch the nature shows on discovery channel. The lion never goes for the fastest antelope. It goes for the weakest or slowest. (Or the one that stayed at the watering hole too long)

LMAO-- good theory witty boy- just not real practical- but hey I gave ya K anyway

 

[GoldenDelicious]

i hate those "how to get laid" books

cant all the losers who dont know how to pick up all just stay home and masturbate so i have a bigger selection? selfish assholes..

 

[sigweed]

women just make your life complicated and get in the way of your success

my gf put our relationship on the rocks a few times for retarded reasons, and now that i finally want out, shes clinging to me like i was the only thing stopping her from falling off a cliff...

maybe im just not a relationship person

 

[awittyusername]

Sigweed,

I've been in your position many times. The girl does all kinds of stuff to F-up the relationship. So, you try to break up. And, she wants you more than ever. ????????? Usually, its because she doesn't want to be alone.

Dude, if she isn't the one. Break-up with her. (eventhough since you wanted to break-up she's probably not skimping on the sex.) That makes it tough.

I found that (most) girls are like monkeys. They go from boyfriend to boyfriend. Like a monkey does from branch to branch. Some girls see another branch in the distance and swing right over to it. But, some girls see a branch and will swing to it, but still keep hold of her current branch. Then she can see if the branch is good enough to swing to. If not she can just swing back to her original branch.

 

[bowling ball nutz]

hey guys i was reading another thread on females and decided to start my own...
if you are interested in a girl you can go up to a girl and be friendly and get to know her but you NEVER, EVER, EVER, EVER, show that you are more interested than she is!!!! This is the essential rule that men need to abide by, you guys dont even know how many girls tell me about some physco ass guy that wont leave them alone! You have to appear to be "uninterested" even if you aren't. Girls are extreamly insecure and if you seem to be "uninterested" in them then they will want you even more. To tell you the truth i honestly think that females think about sex more than males, it's just the fact that males express it more often...i currently live directly next door to five girls(we share a garage) and every time i go over there all i hear out of their mouths is how they want to get laid and shit about their kinky sex toys. You know how it is always awkward and shit when you first meet a girl and you take her out on a date the first time? Humor is the answer, if you can make a girls laugh then it is that much easier to get into her panties. Any more suggestions...?

seems as if u have an open invintation to hit it, take care of business and if u cant hadle em all let me know

 

[liftingfreak1983]

seems as if u have an open invintation to hit it, take care of business and if u cant hadle em all let me know

haha don't worry about that, i've been through so many different situations with girls that i've come to realize it's the same shit over and over again, if you know what you're doing you can pull any tang you want

 

[TC2]

I didn't read any responses.

Here is some advice , live by it.

Stop giving a shit and the women will flock to you.

 

[casualbb]

Okay dude... how can you waltz up to a hottie, risk your ego to start hitting on her, and then pretend you're not interested?

Girls get it. They know when they're being hit on.

It's possible to show that you're interested without being weak and submissive.

 

[sigweed]

I'm only 20 so I'm not really concerned whether she's the one or not... today's her birthday so I'm at least going to hang around for a little longer though
this is just a rough time in my life right now and i don't want her to think im taking it out on her or anything

Sigweed,

I've been in your position many times. The girl does all kinds of stuff to F-up the relationship. So, you try to break up. And, she wants you more than ever. ????????? Usually, its because she doesn't want to be alone.

Dude, if she isn't the one. Break-up with her. (eventhough since you wanted to break-up she's probably not skimping on the sex.) That makes it tough.

I found that (most) girls are like monkeys. They go from boyfriend to boyfriend. Like a monkey does from branch to branch. Some girls see another branch in the distance and swing right over to it. But, some girls see a branch and will swing to it, but still keep hold of her current branch. Then she can see if the branch is good enough to swing to. If not she can just swing back to her original branch.

 

[strongsmartsexy]

Just remember this guys. You spend 9 months trying to get OUT, and the rest of your lives trying to get back IN!

 

[Robert Jan]

I find the key to succes with girls is looking really good

 

[RottenWillow]

Okay dude... how can you waltz up to a hottie, risk your ego to start hitting on her, and then pretend you're not interested?

Girls get it. They know when they're being hit on.

It's possible to show that you're interested without being weak and submissive.

BB is right of course, seeming desperate is extremely unsexy. You have ZERO chance if you come across like that. Guys that are confident, but not arrogant have a high success rate with me.

And I hate having to reject really sweet guys who are scamming on me. I used to give them my 555-1234 phone number just to avoid directly saying no thanks.


And there does appear to be something possibly hardwired in a woman's brain that makes her more likely to pick a man who is successful in competition, whether that competition be business, sports, or with other women (ie. for a man). This is an enduring pattern that is replicated across all cultures. I've heard this before and read about again just last night on The Infinite Mind.

 

[wtlftr]

Fuck it.. Go for the alright lookers instead of the babaes. Tell them their hot and your in. Works every time. If it starts to fail mention they are hot and good lookin. Do em and send them home.

 

[casualbb]

BB is right of course, seeming desperate is extremely unsexy. You have ZERO chance if you come across like that. Guys that are confident, but not arrogant have a high success rate with me.

And I hate having to reject really sweet guys who are scamming on me. I used to give them my 555-1234 phone number just to avoid directly saying no thanks.


And there does appear to be something possibly hardwired in a woman's brain that makes her more likely to pick a man who is successful in competition, whether that competition be business, sports, or with other women (ie. for a man). This is an enduring pattern that is replicated across all cultures. I've heard this before and read about again just last night on The Infinite Mind.

Women are programmed to find the alpha male attractive. That's how you can have objectively ugly celebrities that women still find hot. They have the alpha male "I do whatever the fuck I want" aura.

 

[wtlftr]

I am an alpha male. Ladies, hook up with me.