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how many times you been married?

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you know what to do.
 
Twice...which were both learning phases I feel like I needed to become the person I am today. The 1st time I was just to damn young but no one could tell me that at the time. I was 19 and had my only child at 21. I ended up meeting a great guy that worked offshore alot! In the beginning though he didn't work but maybe half a year, if that. Always had his bills paid and all was good. After the marriage he ended up working more and more. I know he meant well, but I told him I got married to be married. I am by far a needed little bitch, I would rather him work enough to pay bills and all but give some up to be with me!! :) But anyway, I tried to get him to back off from work some but he didn't want to hear it. So I left. I didn't like the fact that he would leave me for 3 months at a time with no way of communication or nothing! Why get married then?
Now I am just shacked up and have been with this one for over 6 years!
 
Married One time for 11 years, two kids later divorced. I'm not all crazy about marriage but my beau does infact want a child and I refuse to have one out of wedlock, soo.... looks like i'll be getting hitched, so to speak.

btw... AAP, would you please leave JH1 alone, I've been working on him for some time now, and suddenly you are having him make google eyes at you. WTF?
 
Twice - the first time I was barely 22 and didnt have a clue that marriage did NOT = servitude.

This time (at 39) I made a much wiser choice. I married not based on model taught me by my parents (what a disaster THAT was) but based on what I had learned on own: I wanted a life partner who truly like me for me and whom I liked equally. Sex is very very important but not what drives either one of us. Yes, we desire each other but we respect and care for one another as well. His only directive in life is to make me happy and I would never EVER forsake this kindness.

Neither one of us wanted to EVER remarry at the onset of our relationship, but as we got further in we realized that we wanted very much to commit to one another this way. He always says how proud he is to have me as his wife and I am equally honored that he has afforded me this privilige.

And for the record, I have never cheated on anyone that I have been committed to and neither has my husband.
 
Frisky said:
Married One time for 11 years, two kids later divorced. I'm not all crazy about marriage but my beau does infact want a child and I refuse to have one out of wedlock, soo.... looks like i'll be getting hitched, so to speak.

btw... AAP, would you please leave JH1 alone, I've been working on him for some time now, and suddenly you are having him make google eyes at you. WTF?
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Damn you :qt:

Never been married; not sure if i ever will. I wouldn't want to be a cheater, and there's so many sexy women out there. How do you guys settle for the same one for the rest of your lives?
 
krishna said:
Damn you :qt:

Never been married; not sure if i ever will. I wouldn't want to be a cheater, and there's so many sexy women out there. How do you guys settle for the same one for the rest of your lives?
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you know, I thought the same thing when I was single. So many damn hot guys and how the hell do I just pick one... but it happens and it happens faster than you can blink your eye.

Once you find that ONE then you won't eve bother looking.
 
Frisky said:
you know, I thought the same thing when I was single. So many damn hot guys and how the hell do I just pick one... but it happens and it happens faster than you can blink your eye.

Once you find that ONE then you won't eve bother looking.
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Ya that's what they say. Well I'm 28 so we'll see. Is that what they call love or something :p
 
krishna said:
Ya that's what they say. Well I'm 28 so we'll see. Is that what they call love or something :p
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If I ever had to classify love I doubt that I could. Love is not just physical attraction nor mental attraction, finacial attraction or emotional attraction. Actually I wouldn't even put love in any of those catagories. I believe Love has its own. And when you find someone that excel's in that special catagory then I promise you that you will know it.
 
none, despite receiving numerous & constant proposals over the years from women.
 
alien amp pharm said:
none, despite receiving numerous & constant proposals over the years from women.
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oh shup... we all know blow up dolls don't actually talk. :rolleyes:
 
Frisky said:
If I ever had to classify love I doubt that I could. Love is not just physical attraction nor mental attraction, finacial attraction or emotional attraction. Actually I wouldn't even put love in any of those catagories. I believe Love has its own. And when you find someone that excel's in that special catagory then I promise you that you will know it.
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:yawn: :nighty: i fell asleep, sorry.
 
Twice, married 10, one daughter, next marriage, one year and counting.
Swore never would get married again, but when it's sooo good, you have to do what you have to do. Guys, I tried to get rid of her, golfed five days a week, played hockey four or five nights a week in the winter, marriage is a death sentence, I'm no good, etc...she kept coming back for more, I don't know why. One kid going to college, I'm 39, current wife is 29, and wants a kid...ooooooooooohhhh what did I do??!!!! Kidding, should be interesting...
Much better the second time around if you don't give up who you are and she accepts that.

"If you don't like it, get an attorney!!!"
 
I rate the divorce right under my Dad passing away two years ago unexpectedly. I swore I never wanted to feel like that ever again. I know it's not a divorce thread, but to overcome the disappointment, feeling of failure, etc. and then get remarried, you know it better be spectacular.

Did you mean lots of love or lots of luck? I always can use both.


"It's not the pants that make me look fat, It's the fat that makes me look fat!!! (ladies can sub a dress where applicable)
 
CO B-man said:
One starter practice marriage. She is now married to her fourth husband. What was I thinking!
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Apparently you were actally thinking, beings you are not still married to her. LOL
 
goaler said:
Much better the second time around if you don't give up who you are and she accepts that.
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I was going to change my first husband. He was "broken" and my love was going to fix him. Yea... I fucked up bigtime. I was barely 21 when I met him and was soooooooooooooooo naive. My intentions were good but I was too immature to understand that one person can never change another and they should never try, especially not a life partner.

My current husband is a man amongst men. I love him exactly the way he is. He isnt perfect but his flaws are such that I can live with them. His strengths continually blow me away on a daily basis. What could be better than that?
 
CaliGirl said:
nah, now you're just right.... you know better than to ever get married again... no real need for it. :)
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you can never "possess" anyone...a marraige cert is nothing more than a paper contract. "choice" is what keeps SO's together...love is truely freedom in and of itself, peace abides there. it is choice if one wishes to remain there.
 
PBR said:
you can never "possess" anyone...a marraige cert is nothing more than a paper contract. "choice" is what keeps SO's together...love is truely freedom in and of itself, peace abides there. it is choice if one wishes to remain there.
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That was perfectly said.... I totally agree..
why would you ever want to have someone you truely love, enter into a binding agreement to promise their love, faithfulness ect. etc.??? I really believe if you really DO love someone you would not ask of them or even agree together upon a marriage. My opinion on this subject is not average/normal according to our society. I really believe marriage itself is constricting, controling... the real love is simply wanting to be there with that person... I think it's more meaningful to NOT be married.
 
Frisky said:
If I ever had to classify love I doubt that I could. Love is not just physical attraction nor mental attraction, finacial attraction or emotional attraction. Actually I wouldn't even put love in any of those catagories. I believe Love has its own. And when you find someone that excel's in that special catagory then I promise you that you will know it.
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I can tell you this.... You are 100% correct! Kinda screws up the dating thing, but it is sure worth it!
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