How many people have you slept with?

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Damn thats straight up. Idk i jus dont like the rep of bein a dick, but then again sometimes i feel llike i try too much game and sayin sweet things rather than bein a dick about it. Anyway to change that? haha

At your age the only way to be a straight playa is to be a dick with the chicks. But if you want a middle ground then the "ball in her court" tactic is a start. Whenever you make some sort of move, i.e. call her, email, ask her out, etc. only do it once, which means she must make the next move to keep the relationship going, or "ball is in her court". So if you call her, next time she has to call you, if you text, email, message, whatever, the next move is hers, and if she doesnt than jettison her ass for someone willing to pull their weight.
Tell you what, just do a search on here for "healother" and women or dating or something and you will find an encyclopedia amount of dating info for guys looking to get laid more.

 

[JayC9]

If you’re trophy hunting holes for goals, then racking up the numbers is not difficult.
Some the older fellas here bang scores of different girls every year as well as having their regular partner or girlfriend.
They will have slept with hundreds and thousands of women in their time easily.
They’ll be mostly paying for that service but then again, you always pay in the long run anyway, in time, effort and money spent on the quest for beaver.
A pay as you go arrangement is actually cheaper and less hassle.

 

[immebz]

At your age the only way to be a straight playa is to be a dick with the chicks. But if you want a middle ground then the "ball in her court" tactic is a start. Whenever you make some sort of move, i.e. call her, email, ask her out, etc. only do it once, which means she must make the next move to keep the relationship going, or "ball is in her court". So if you call her, next time she has to call you, if you text, email, message, whatever, the next move is hers, and if she doesnt than jettison her ass for someone willing to pull their weight.
Tell you what, just do a search on here for "healother" and women or dating or something and you will find an encyclopedia amount of dating info for guys looking to get laid more.

yea, i wont try as hard. thx for that. im too picky too cuz my ex was more beautiful and smart than any other girl like her...and if i wanna get over her its either a bunch of girls or one bangin one but i jus havent found any girls that are smokin.....im gonna go that search now

 

[calveless wonder]

yea, i wont try as hard. thx for that. im too picky too cuz my ex was more beautiful and smart than any other girl like her...and if i wanna get over her its either a bunch of girls or one bangin one but i jus havent found any girls that are smokin.....im gonna go that search now

yeah bro, i been there. it's tough when you have a really pretty + smart girl that you been with for awhile. its easy to compare every girl after to her. when i broke up with my ex, that was a major problem for me. i felt like i had to be with a girl on her level again to know i still could attract girls like her. which is stupid looking back, because no matter if you can attract them, girls like that are rare to begin with. more a timing/luck thing than your own ability

There was a two month period after we broke up where i immediately hooked up with a bunch of pretty girls but a.) they were only 8's..attractive but not model gorgeous
b.) they didnt have the intelligence she did, so it was much harder to get over her. it wasnt until i hooked up with one of the hottest girls ive ever seen that the physical aspect left(about 5 months after), and then finally when i met a girl that had kinda close to both i lost that sense of attachment.

 

[immebz]

yeah bro, i been there. it's tough when you have a really pretty + smart girl that you been with for awhile. its easy to compare every girl after to her. when i broke up with my ex, that was a major problem for me. i felt like i had to be with a girl on her level again to know i still could attract girls like her. which is stupid looking back, because no matter if you can attract them, girls like that are rare to begin with. more a timing/luck thing than your own ability

There was a two month period after we broke up where i immediately hooked up with a bunch of pretty girls but a.) they were only 8's..attractive but not model gorgeous
b.) they didnt have the intelligence she did, so it was much harder to get over her. it wasnt until i hooked up with one of the hottest girls ive ever seen that the physical aspect left(about 5 months after), and then finally when i met a girl that had kinda close to both i lost that sense of attachment.

damn bro u sound like me haha, or ii sound like u used to be. im jus tryin to get with more bitcxhes now, but yea i do compare them a lot and it gives me a reASON NOT to do anything, but thats gotta change. Im fuckin 18, and i feel llike i jus went through a divorce ya know?

 

[calveless wonder]

damn bro u sound like me haha, or ii sound like u used to be. im jus tryin to get with more bitcxhes now, but yea i do compare them a lot and it gives me a reASON NOT to do anything, but thats gotta change. Im fuckin 18, and i feel llike i jus went through a divorce ya know?

yep...and that sucks. dont let yourself do that. trust me, swallow your pride and just enjoy their company. as much as i hated to believe it and resisted it for a long time, bangin a few girls that you might consider beneath you will help your confidence. or better yet having a fuck buddy or two. that way you ALWAYS know you're gonna get laid so when you meet higher quality girls, you could give two shits.
When i didn't do this, i'd hook up with cute girls but it was further between and i sometimes got too anxious because my options werent as great.

im dating like 5-6 different girls right now and that number just keeps compounding because i care less about any one girl or encounter. I'll go up to the hottest bitch at the club and say ridiculous shit and not care because i have nothing to lose.Eventually you just start replacing the mediocre ones in that circle with better ones as you go along.
rebuilding phase nigga lol

if you find a good one, then you can date her exclusively if you want

 

[immebz]

yep...and that sucks. dont let yourself do that. trust me, swallow your pride and just enjoy their company. as much as i hated to believe it and resisted it for a long time, bangin a few girls that you might consider beneath you will help your confidence. or better yet having a fuck buddy or two. that way you ALWAYS know you're gonna get laid so when you meet higher quality girls, you could give two shits.
When i didn't do this, i'd hook up with cute girls but it was further between and i sometimes got too anxious because my options werent as great.

im dating like 5-6 different girls right now and that number just keeps compounding because i care less about any one girl or encounter. I'll go up to the hottest bitch at the club and say ridiculous shit and not care because i have nothing to lose.Eventually you just start replacing the mediocre ones in that circle with better ones as you go along.
rebuilding phase nigga lol

if you find a good one, then you can date her exclusively if you want

haha exactly what im tryin to do. Jus kinda hard with no money, no job, and no car. So for now i guess i gotta focus on my life but damn im tryin to have fun too. Problem is i was with my ex all through highschoool. One thing i wanna do is improve my confidence. Which is weird because im athletic, nice, funny, caring, but at the same time it seems like im intimidated by a lot of girls. ur right, i jus gotta swallow my pride, im bout to do that and i cant WAIT to finally get more than 1 girl in bed