I am 35 years old and I never had a one night stand till I turned nearly 34. I had 2 and both were situations where I was the one who initiated them...
That's pretty brave and honest for you to admit that. I have had a few myself, but several times I have noticed the ladies get very worked up like I was the conquest for once. Some women are very horny which is good. However, I slowed down my evening activities as I don't have and don't want any type of diseases.
However, I agree with your words. It really doesn't fill a void for a loving relationship. Therefore, I have a wonderful girlfriend who rapes me constantly. I am on the gear and still can't keep up with her! I just love this life!