None, Im a very confident person and I made the decision a long time ago not to get embarassed, just one day I said, self, just do what you want to do and dont let yourself feel embarassed. I dont care.
When I talked to people, thats all I want to do, talk. No trying to have sex or phone numbers, no thinking about hooking up b/c women can smell that agenda like shit on a shoe. Just sit, hangout and chat and that completely confuses them, there like why isnt this guy into me.
Since I want to be single right now its too easy and since I dont care about their phone number, there is an awkward pause as the conversation naturally ends where they stare at me waiting for me to ask. Then they offer them to me sometimes, its flawless.
By not wanting it, you get it. Its the tao of dating. Must just hang out and be cool to them.