How do you deal with that?

[anthrax]

After your relationship ended, have you feared (and maybe thought) that you'd never be with a better partner (or even one just as "good")?

 

[Raptorex]

use the other hand bro, its just as good

 

[*MissFit*]

for a day.. but u broke up for a reason.. something wasnt workin

 

[gotmilk]

no..I dismembered my last girlfriend. It will never be as bad.

 

[theoak01]

After your relationship ended, have you feared (and maybe thought) that you'd never be with a better partner (or even one just as "good")?

yes ive thought that,but then i realize if i cant do better then the girl I broke up with id rather be single,I wouldnt settle for her and I wont settle for anyone else, id rather die old and alone then settle

 

[Mammoth2500]

Just as theres some always gonna be stronger than you, better looking and so on.. you can always find someone better. Just gotta find the one your happy with and you already did it once so go do it again!

 

[PBR]

i think its a fear of not being able to love again, or a fear of getting hurt again...when we are in deep relationships, we learn alot about ourselves and who/what we are attracted to. this enables us to make better chioces the next time around. its about finding a more "suitable" person for "us"....more so than a "better" or just as "good" a person as we once had.
if you were to try and search for an exact or close replica- youre in for a very long haul, most likely leading to nowhere.
when we come out of exisiting realtionships, we are not the same as before. this is providing the fact you are not a CO-DEPENDANT and keep seeking poor helpless/hapless mates...we all know some people in our lives, who seem to pick the same loosers time and time again...but the problem stems from themselves, not who they are picking out.

 

[stilleto]

when ever a relationship ended, there wasn't a doubt in my mind that there was someone better out there for me.
being able to find them was sometimes another story.

 

[PBR]

when ever a relationship ended, there wasn't a doubt in my mind that there was someone better out there for me.
being able to find them was sometimes another story.

NO KIDDING.

 

[Raina]

Just don't let yourself settle.

 

[stilleto]

NO KIDDING.

hush.

 

[PBR]

hush.

 

[biteme]

Yes. I don't think I'll ever have a serious relationship again. I'm beginning to think I'm not capable of it. Damned if I do, damned if I don't. I just like being alone, but not all the time.