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How do I ask this dancer out

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SDRaver

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Once in a while we check out the strip clubs on our way out for the night. There's a girl I would love to get to know but don't feel right asking her at her place of work. Don't buy any lap dances beacause I don't want to be a customer. Girls as fit as her are hard to come across here in WA state. I know she gets hit on all the time but that comes with the job. So I figure she might be callused up by the time I would ask.
I've dated strippers in the past but always met them somewhere other than their work. Should I respect the fact that it's her workplace or am I being paranoid over nothing. Would definitley like to here from the women on this
 
im sure you've heard this and don't want to hear it again, but bro, strippers are trouble for the most part, i've know tons of them, only one that i call a true decent girl, i'd find another place to meet women bro, but then again i don't know the entire situation.
 
Ok ..Not all strippers are trouble for the most part!! I fucking hate when people like you go and make stereotypes like that because you've met a few that were crazy! There are girls that are trouble regardless of what they do. People just assume they are trouble because they strip--no, they are just trouble because thats just who they are.
I dance, and in no way am i trouble. I dont drink, i dont party, i dont smoke, i have a daughter, and I have happily been with the same man for almost 5 years...I go to school.....NONE (and I have 15-20) of my good friends at work are TROUBLE!!
They are just reg girls like me, and if you met them outside of there you wouldnt even know.
Anyway, back to the ?
I know that I HATE being asked out at work. It doesnt matter how nice u are, cute, whatever,...we are there to make $$$, not to meet people! And if you never spent any $$, then she probably thinks you are...well, just a loser that goes to pick up chicks and never spends $$$............we hate those guys!!!!!
But who knows, maybe she is one of the select few who actually mixes her job with her social life..........
 
SDRaver,

I would just ask her out. I know dancers get hit on all the time and it gets old.. I danced 10 years ago HAHA!! :) :D But I will say that my closest male friend met me at the club I worked at. I may even move out to San Diego again...

We have stayed close all these years and distance. He is a really good friend.

Good Luck :)

starfish
 
didn't mean to offend you alex, i have no doubts some are good people, but 90% of them are not. Thats part of the job, even if you are a good person you have to accept the stereotype that comes with the job. I don't care what anyone says, "most" strippers are not the girls you want to marry or take home to meat your mom, i mean whats the first thing your parent think, 'where do you work?", "oh im a stripper" it just sounds bad, and thats just the way it is. like your mom will believe you when you say, "oh, but she'sone of the good ones" I commend you for being a good person and not falling for all of the bad things the others have, butyou have to live with the stereotype.
 
Damn it

Amazing when you bring up a topic all the different views you get which is great. Well I think I'll pass on this one. But if I ever saw her outside the club like out on the town then maybe. Geez now I probably look like some tighwad who never spends any money on the dancers. but I'm not gonna throwdown cash and be just anonther customer either. Think I'll stick to the Gym Bunnies. :D I guess it would be like hitting on a female bartender who's been hounded on all night by guys.
 
how to ask a stripper out?? ask her to come back to your house for a couple of lines of blow. youd be surprised how well that works lol

there are some *nice girl* strippers but they are VERY rare, so you have no way of knowing is shes a nice girl or not, i mean how many girls are gonna say *oh yeah btw im a total slut, im not a nice girl*.... well now that I think of it. a lot of strippers in NY would say that lol
 
SDRaver said:
Once in a while we check out the strip clubs on our way out for the night. There's a girl I would love to get to know but don't feel right asking her at her place of work. Don't buy any lap dances beacause I don't want to be a customer. Girls as fit as her are hard to come across here in WA state. I know she gets hit on all the time but that comes with the job. So I figure she might be callused up by the time I would ask.
I've dated strippers in the past but always met them somewhere other than their work. Should I respect the fact that it's her workplace or am I being paranoid over nothing. Would definitley like to here from the women on this
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Strippers are scum.

But, since you want it, be a fucking man and just ask her out. She will...

A. Shoot you down like a Russian Mig.

B. Play you for all you're worth.

Haven't you heard the old tale about strippers? No matter if you take them home or just give them your money, either way, you get screwed.
 
say thats a good idea

NY Muscle said:
how to ask a stripper out?? ask her to come back to your house for a couple of lines of blow. youd be surprised how well that works lol
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LMAO! :FRlol::FRlol::FRlol:

I've never done coke, but I should get some just for that, getting the "nice girls" to come back for a line and some fun....hehehe
 
That's all I need

The last thing I need is another girl that has a drug problem. Because they usually defend thereself this way; "Well you obviously do steroids so what's wrong with a little coke." Who ever does just a little coke. Fuck it I'll just ask. If she don't want any she must be a lesbian lol
 
Not all dancers have drug problems. Sheesh!!
I think the % of dancers that are strung out on drugs, is equal to the % of women on drugs overall.
People just use that as an excuse-"oh yeah, she does coke cuz she's a stripper!"
Not all dancers will play you, and not all will want to talk to you if you go in there and dont spend $$..
Its not that we are mean, or gold diggers, or whatever--it's just that when we go there, we are there for a purpose-make as much $$ as we can in 6 hours (for me) then go home. It's hard enough to put up with most of the guys that go in there, especially for free!
I am asked everyday to meet outside for extra cash, but I say "No, I only dance in here, and when I leave I am a defferent person."
Some girls do though...im not saying all dancers are not whores or druggies, but there are just as many druggies and whores who are not dancers.
 
I happen to know way too many strippers, have dated strippers, not a single one was worth a shit. Stripping is a dirty job, I dont care what kind of girl you are..
 
NYM... BRILLIANT as usual!! lol.

NOT ALL STRIPPERS ARE TROUBLE!! thats a stupid comment to make. its going to be wierd trying to approach her at work... most of the girls are going to have their defense up there b/c of all the pervs they encounter. see if u can catch her outside work somehow. either way shes probably going to think ur a "obssesed" as so many of the customers get.good luck buddy!
 
blah blah blah

not all strippers are bad no, and if you guys really want to hang out with a stripper, just hang ou till closing, bullshit with the girls all night, see where they are going after work, usually the diner, if ur lucky and they like you they will ask you to go.


too bad the *good girl* strippers dont have a name tag that separates them from the *bad girl* strippers...would make it so much easier for guys. lol
 
OK, I have to agree that the percentage of women who have an altered perception of reality in the dancing (clothing on OR off) profession is PROBABLY higher than with the women who do not. HOWEVER, to say that ALL women who earn thier money this way are trouble or sluts, etc is just plain RETARDED. That is like saying that ALL COPS UPHOLD THE LAW.

Having said that, I can honestly say that there is not one night at work that I do not hear the comment from a man, "You do NOT belong here." - NO DUH! Not all of us do, but at this given moment in time it is how I earn enough money for the LEAST amount of time, still am with my children when my ex does not have them and still have time to get back to school. I work hard for my physique and am not ashamed of it. I am VERY comfortable in my own skin. I have always liked to dance and I have a generally sunny disposition - especially at work as I am there to entertain and sell the fantasy.

To answer your question, the girl may be totally screwed up or she may be one of the decent girls, just like ANY GIRL that you would meet at the grocery store or gym, but you will never know unless you ask her out. How to do that is a difficult task though. See, once a man walks through the door at any club where I am employed I WOULD NEVER EVEN REMOTELY CONSIDER DATING HIM OR EVEN SEEING HIM SOCIALLY - PERIOD!

I am not anti-dance or strip club. Hello! It is what I do (dance, that is). But the vast majority of men who frequent these places are just not the type of guy that I would want to socialize with. I know, I know, now I sound like the person making the stereotypical generalizations. But I just can't help but feel that if a man's first impression of me was as "the fantasy" that he would not understand that there is so much more to me.....

Yes - WE ARE ALL ABOUT THE MONEY. How many of you go to work "because it is fun and you like it"?.... If you do then that is an added bonus, but for the most part aren't you there to earn a paycheck?!

Try and see if there is a way for you to meet her OUTSIDE the club without seeming like a stalker (easier said than done - LOL!). If you really didn't spend any money then perhaps she won't remember you.... unless you are a regular. Then you are pretty much sunk, that is, if she is a nice girl.

Good luck...

PS - I have had MANY offers of all kinds and I have yet to get one that would entice me to go home with a guy... or even as far as the parking lot WITHOUT the escort of a bouncer....and I am for all intensive purposes, unattached.
 
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GIrls think all guys that come to stip clubs are WANKERS. Girls that work there anyway, well actually all girls. And guess they would be right, GOtta watch nooky instead of getting any. Give up on her, she already thinks your fairly pathetic....
 
Re: Re: How do I ask this dancer out

XBiker said:


Strippers are scum.

But, since you want it, be a fucking man and just ask her out. She will...

A. Shoot you down like a Russian Mig.

B. Play you for all you're worth.

Haven't you heard the old tale about strippers? No matter if you take them home or just give them your money, either way, you get screwed.
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:FRlol: :FRlol: :FRlol: :FRlol: :FRlol: :FRlol:
 
well, not trying to stereotype, but i worked in a titty bar for 2 years, lived the scene for awhile, and MOST of them are nuts, NOT all of them. my gf in fact is a stripper, so they can be sane (some of the time) just ask her, dont be worried about all the invites she gets nightly, if she wanted to go out with all the others she would, if she says yes to you, it means something. at least you can get a little pickle tickle out of it! :)
 
Easy people

well I won't make my judgement based off stereotypes. Hell based of my profession she could judge me based on stereotypes too.
 
Damn. this thread has taken a different turn. Well I no longer have any intentions of asking this dancer. Besides I have a show in Apr and the last thing I need is someone who might not think I have time for them.
 
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