How accomodating are you?

[PinK233]

How accomodating are you of others?? I'm way too accomodating...I notice that I'm too nice sometimes, and people love to take advantage of that. Today I had an experience where I was talking to someone....well more like she was talking AT me about herself for hours....well I listened patiently and when I brought something up about myself she abruptly cut me off and kept talking about herself. I tend to listen to everyone's problems, I find myself even listening to stranger's problems that come into my job...but usually when I talk about my problems I tend to get cut off alot....I usually end up doing favors for people that I don't want to do, but I'll smile and say yes....damn it how can I grow some balls and tell people to F*CK OFF!

 

[huntmaster]

Doesn't sound like a bad thing to me.

 

[naturally anabolic]

a couple shots of testosterone and you may grow balls

 

[LiLady11]

I WUV YOU SANDRA!!


Now, back to me...

 

[big4life]

I tend to be too nice also. I just have a hard time saying no to people.

Like someone told me, "it's time to start worrying about yourself and let the others take care of themselves." That may sound harsh, but it's true.

 

[pushing_fe]

Please don't grow any balls. They are way overrated.

 

[PinK233]

Doesn't sound like a bad thing to me.

Hey hun I sent u a pm back....


and yeah I guess I'll try some test

 

[huntmaster]

 

[Taps]

Read "How to Win Friends and Influence People" by Dale Carnage. You're headed in the right direction, you just need a few pointers for dealing with people.

Believe it or not, your behaviour is likely much more productive than you realize.

 

[Boach]

*raises hand*

Same problem here. I'm a walking talking doormat sometimes.

 

[PinK233]

I don't mind helping people...I've always liked it....thats why I was considering psychology at one point...it just boggles my mind how blatant some people are in their disregard for others.

 

[Burning_Inside]

How accomodating are you of others?? I'm way too accomodating...I notice that I'm too nice sometimes, and people love to take advantage of that. Today I had an experience where I was talking to someone....well more like she was talking AT me about herself for hours....well I listened patiently and when I brought something up about myself she abruptly cut me off and kept talking about herself. I tend to listen to everyone's problems, I find myself even listening to stranger's problems that come into my job...but usually when I talk about my problems I tend to get cut off alot....I usually end up doing favors for people that I don't want to do, but I'll smile and say yes....damn it how can I grow some balls and tell people to F*CK OFF!

:tosses you on a bed and asks if he could strip you down and have his way with you:

 

[smallmovesal]

*raises hand*

Same problem here. I'm a walking talking doormat sometimes.

*steps on boach*

worship me.... NOW!!

 

[OMEGA]

PINK you don't strike me as someone that takes shit...just be you and if people do not like it then the hell with them....


"too seek the approval of others is to be there slave"

 

[Paulos]

Wow we're like the opposite. I don't do jack shit for anyone unless they are my friend or I want to have sex with them.

 

[VicTusDeuS]

For some reason I have the book in my collection...I havnt read it but i dont think it will change the fact that I do not have a girlfriend....

I think I may need a couple of shots of test.

Read "How to Win Friends and Influence People" by Dale Carnage. You're headed in the right direction, you just need a few pointers for dealing with people.

Believe it or not, your behaviour is likely much more productive than you realize.

 

[Austin316]

Welllll u can always drag me around with ya and I can tell people various mean fuck off type things cuz it can be fun..otherwise I dunno

 

[MaGilicuti]

 

[solidspine]

Pink people love to talk, hear them self’s talk and talk about themselves.

You are obviously more mature and are also an attentive, good listener, and I bet your friends who you listen to perceive you to be a brilliant conservationist, because you simply are giving them the attention they grave.

 

[Raina]

I care about people a lot and will bend over backwards to help people who are special to me. There are definitely people who have exploited how forgiving I am.

Ultimately though, I will only let someone walk all over me for so long. I think I give some people too many chances, but there's certainly a point at which enough is enough.

 

[smallmovesal]

I care about people a lot and will bend over backwards to help people who are special to me. There are definitely people who have exploited how forgiving I am.

Ultimately though, I will only let someone walk all over me for so long. I think I give some people too many chances, but there's certainly a point at which enough is enough.

i can relate