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Here we go again. I suck at relationships

biteme

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Really. I just need to retire.
 
let me assure you biteme. relationships are by mighty far easy.............maybe retire for a while the right gal will pop up
 
awittyusername said:
lol

Beat me to it!

What in the bejesus are ya'll talking about?
 
I feel really bad about this one. She's already bought a valentine's day present for me and my daughter. I really hate myself. But, if love's not there, you can't force it. I'm really down about this.
 
biteme said:
I feel really bad about this one. She's already bought a valentine's day present for me and my daughter. I really hate myself. But, if love's not there, you can't force it. I'm really down about this.

that really sucks bro. try to keep looking up man, things will work out some day.
 
biteme said:
I feel really bad about this one. She's already bought a valentine's day present for me and my daughter. I really hate myself. But, if love's not there, you can't force it. I'm really down about this.
keep your chin up bro
 
StickFigure said:
that really sucks bro. try to keep looking up man, things will work out some day.

SHe's got a 6 year old son. I've got to bail now before he gets too close. He has an absent father. It all sounds good. Just have fun, but it rarely works out that way. It too often gets complicated.
 
Its time for you to swap sides Biteme.
 
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Love doesn't happen overnight. How do you know that in a week things won't change? Giving up truly is easier though.
 
biteme said:
SHe's got a 6 year old son. I've got to bail now before he gets too close. He has an absent father. It all sounds good. Just have fun, but it rarely works out that way. It too often gets complicated.

I could totally see that. If you are just out to have some fun, stay away from the ones with kids!
 
You need to sit down and really think about what you want in a woman besides physical attraction. That's where my gf went wrong. She was getting with all these pretty boys who had zippo personality. If you're only in it to "have fun" then in the end, you're gonna be a very lonely guy. It seems that some guys want to fall in absolute love too fast, and when it doesn't happen instantly, they bail. Or the kids spook em because they don't want a pre-fabbed family. Stop trying to control, and just let it flow.............
 
BUBBLES said:
Its time for you to move to swap sides Biteme.

I can't do that. I love women too much. It's no fun when people get hurt though.
 
biteme i'd like to have a beer with you sometime...i think we would have fun laughing at ignorance
 
dirty~d~ said:
Love doesn't happen overnight. How do you know that in a week things won't change? Giving up truly is easier though.

Because I know me. I like her, she's nice and all. I just know that I don't want to spend the rest of my life with her.
 
Gambino said:
biteme i'd like to have a beer with you sometime...i think we would have fun laughing at ignorance

I'll buy.
 
victoria978 said:
You need to sit down and really think about what you want in a woman besides physical attraction. That's where my gf went wrong. She was getting with all these pretty boys who had zippo personality. If you're only in it to "have fun" then in the end, you're gonna be a very lonely guy. It seems that some guys want to fall in absolute love too fast, and when it doesn't happen instantly, they bail. Or the kids spook em because they don't want a pre-fabbed family. Stop trying to control, and just let it flow.............

Thanks. I haven't told her yet, but I sense that she knows it's coming and right around valentine's day too. This really sucks.
 
victoria978 said:
You need to sit down and really think about what you want in a woman besides physical attraction. That's where my gf went wrong. She was getting with all these pretty boys who had zippo personality. If you're only in it to "have fun" then in the end, you're gonna be a very lonely guy. It seems that some guys want to fall in absolute love too fast, and when it doesn't happen instantly, they bail. Or the kids spook em because they don't want a pre-fabbed family. Stop trying to control, and just let it flow.............

I think it's better for me to be lonely than to keep getting into mini relationships that disrupt people's lives.
 
biteme said:
I think it's better for me to be lonely than to keep getting into mini relationships that disrupt people's lives.

I agree. Stop looking and being in something for the sake of being in something. If all you want is companionship, then be honest and tell them immediately. End it as soon as possible and stop wasting that woman's time.
 
biteme said:
I think it's better for me to be lonely than to keep getting into mini relationships that disrupt people's lives.
Just take a break for a while. Don't give up on it all together. When you're NOT looking is when you find the right one. :heart:
 
nycgirl said:
I agree. Stop looking and being in something for the sake of being in something. If all you want is companionship, then be honest and tell them immediately. End it as soon as possible and stop wasting that woman's time.

I've never said anything. Because I wasn't sure. People assume things on their own, but I guess if you don't tell them, they hope for what they want. I'm gonna end it. I owe it to her.
 
victoria978 said:
Just take a break for a while. Don't give up on it all together. When you're NOT looking is when you find the right one. :heart:

We'll I've been divorced now for 7 years and it hasn't happened. It's complicated when you're raising a child. And I don't want to disrespect anyone, some of those women are right for someone, just not for me. That's the most important committment you'll ever make in your life.
 
biteme said:
I've never said anything. Because I wasn't sure. People assume things on their own, but I guess if you don't tell them, they hope for what they want. I'm gonna end it. I owe it to her.
You owe it to her to be honest and not drag it out any longer than it needs to be. If you must end it, then you must. Use this as a learning experience. Like I said, When you're not looking is when you find the woman of your dreams. :verygood:
 
biteme said:
I feel really bad about this one. She's already bought a valentine's day present for me and my daughter. I really hate myself. But, if love's not there, you can't force it. I'm really down about this.
Sometimes it doesn't have to be about love. Intimacy & friendship can be satisfactory, as long as you are both on the same page. Don't try to force it & it may just appear.
 
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