Help me out guys!

[Silverback316]

Allright here is the deal. There is this girl in my biology class and I really want to talk to her and go out with her, etc. I am 20 years old and never have had a girlfriend although I have gone out with several girls. I have not wanted a gf the last couple of years because I have been completely focused on myself and getting as big as possible so that I can get into the WWE eventually, but this girl just does something for me even though I haven't even talked to her yet. I think I have something wrong with me as I am 6'1'', 260 lbs and at about 8% bf and I get a lot of girls who hit on me but I never do anything about it(No I am not gay either). I don't know how to approach her and talk to her and am afraid she might think I am some roided up freak as she is a bit smaller. I don't sit by her and can't as it would be to noticeable as to what I'm up to. I have a confidence problem when it comes to this and I shouldn't as girls I talk to always tell me how good looking I am and how I am going to make someone very lucky, etc but I just don't know how to handle these situations and that's probably why I have never had a serious gf. This girl has me hooked already just by her actions and how she talks and I need to talk to her or else I am going to regret this for a long time. Please any ladies or guys can you give me some advice and be serious please as I really need some help because I don't want to screw this up at all, thanks.

 

[Finaject2001]

Just act natural. Let her talk, stay in control and shell fall in line.

 

[theoak01]

just be yourself,dont put on a show,she needs to like you,not someone you are trying to be,i know its hard getting confidence,it took me alot to,but i figure that one yes is worth the 100 no's

 

[Silverback316]

Moving back up for the morning crowd.

 

[ZenMachine]

Next time you are near her. Say hello. See what happens.

Zen

 

[Longhorn85]

Does she like to workout? Take her to the gym with you so you will be in an environment that you are entirely comfortable and you guys can workout together to get to know each other.

 

[Racer-X99]

Silver:

I just posted yesterday some of my info on dating and picking up. I think the thread was something like "How do you guys pick up?"

How big is the biology class? Are you in a lecture hall or classroom.

First of all relax and when you start to talk with her be calm like you do this thing all the time. In college, when I picked up in this type of situation, I would catch the girl walking out the door and just start small talk especially something funny. I would just walk up and say something like, "I heard that you ruined the curve on the last test. What do I need to do to study with you?" If she just laughs and plays along then you have the opening.

When you say it make sure you look her straight in the eyes to show confidence, but don't burn a hole in head like a stalker. Then always say it with a smile. Smiles are deadly to women. Some of my friends will say the most outlandish things to women they don't know and they get away with it all because of the smile.

Humor has helped me do a lot of damage with the ladies. Don't be a stumbling goofball like Steve Martin in the Jerk, but just simple, goofy and entertaining. Humor and charm will go much farther than you realize.

Start small talk with her on the way out. You don't have to close the deal right away. The better wines will take some work so be patient. See each meeting or class time as a chance to lay some ground work.

However, you need to show interest, but if she doesn't reciprocate the interest like smile back or continue the conversation, you will need to reconsider and regroup.

It is like fishing. You throw a line in and if they bite, you set the hook and reel them in good. Dam I have always loved the sport of picking up. Hopefully, my ranting will help somewhat.

 

[CYBERNIGG]

Next time you are near her. Say hello. See what happens.

Zen

That sounds like the best bet to me. Just say hi, and see how she acts from there. Move in slow, don't try to rush anything.

 

[JDarty6173]

Try something simple like ask her for a pen or something... No pressure on ya, its just a pen... Then see what you can work in....

 

[satanic goatslayer]

Tie streamers around your arms, wear a cape with no shirt, and approach her slowly. Then stare at her. For a long time. She'll become uncomfortable, which is when you should initiate the courting process by asking her if she's ever seen "Hole in the Head", and if not, if she'd like to.

She'll say yes, they always do to a man wearing streamers, then you reach into your toolbelt, don your gauntlet of freedom, and punch a large hole through the back of her skull. Tear her brain out, then throw it at the professor and run down the hallway howling like a coyote.

 

[Silverback316]

Silver:

I just posted yesterday some of my info on dating and picking up. I think the thread was something like "How do you guys pick up?"

How big is the biology class? Are you in a lecture hall or classroom.

First of all relax and when you start to talk with her be calm like you do this thing all the time. In college, when I picked up in this type of situation, I would catch the girl walking out the door and just start small talk especially something funny. I would just walk up and say something like, "I heard that you ruined the curve on the last test. What do I need to do to study with you?" If she just laughs and plays along then you have the opening.

When you say it make sure you look her straight in the eyes to show confidence, but don't burn a hole in head like a stalker. Then always say it with a smile. Smiles are deadly to women. Some of my friends will say the most outlandish things to women they don't know and they get away with it all because of the smile.

Humor has helped me do a lot of damage with the ladies. Don't be a stumbling goofball like Steve Martin in the Jerk, but just simple, goofy and entertaining. Humor and charm will go much farther than you realize.

Start small talk with her on the way out. You don't have to close the deal right away. The better wines will take some work so be patient. See each meeting or class time as a chance to lay some ground work.I like your idea thanks. I would be more comfortable taking my time with it and slowly building up each class to asking her out ,etc. It would be a hell of a lot easier if I sat by her and yes it is a classroom, but like I said by me moving to the other side of the classroom would be way to obvious. On a positive note though about 2 weeks ago I held the door open for her because she was behind me and she said thanks, but who doesn't say that. My class with her is tomorrow and Thursday so hopefully I nut up by then and get something going.

However, you need to show interest, but if she doesn't reciprocate the interest like smile back or continue the conversation, you will need to reconsider and regroup.

It is like fishing. You throw a line in and if they bite, you set the hook and reel them in good. Dam I have always loved the sport of picking up. Hopefully, my ranting will help somewhat.