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Help me and my roomate that has BIG problems

freeze2000

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It all started about 3 weeks ago when a guy by the name of "Jeff" moved into our college dorm. Jeff is currently on the last year of school of his degree when he just so happened to have a incident evolving his sister. Jeffs sister died a couple months ago and he is having trouble coping. When I met Jeff 3 weeks ago he was into Oxy Cotton. He spent over 400 dollars just in 2 days getting messed up. He has been up ODD hours, non sleeping for the last 3 weeks, doesn't eat. He hasn't been going to school at all. 3 days ago He got a WHOLE bottle of liquor and FINISHED the whole thing in 1 night.

Just last night, it all started. This is at its worst. After finishing the liquor he woke me up at 1 in the morning telling me to take me to the gas station. He wanted dip, and could barely walk. He said either take me or Ill drive myself. Granted I took him and he got his "chew". After we got back, I went back to sleep. Fast forward 5 hours I wake up, and he has a ENTIRE 30 pack by his side, sitting on the couch depressed. 11 Hours later the thing is gone. He asked me to take him to the gas station AGAIN so he could get ANOTHER 30 PACK. I told him to wait a hour and ill take him and tried to have him sit down and talk about his problem. 5 minutes later hes gone and DROVE HIMSELF. Hes back and crying about his problems and I don't konw what to do. My roomates are just telling me to "chill" and calling me dr.phill and shit for trying to help.

I don't know what to do, and soon if this shit gets outa hand im going to obtain his parents info and call them. I think he needs family time and to sit down for a while and talk about his problems due to his sisters death. What should I do because im in need of help for this kid, hes really cool and hes endangering his life. I feel this isnt going to go long for a little while until he is permantly effected.
 
Well if he is in his last year of school he is most likely no longer a minor, parents cannot due shit..You calling parents may fuck him up more..My advice is to let him do his thing, just be there for him and try talking to him, mostly try listening..It sucks so back to lose someone, and sometimes it takes a person a long time to get over it. And being all up in their face telling them that they are doing the wrong thing is the last thing they want to deal with..I know it sucks to see someone suffer, but really there is nothing that you can do they will not allow anyone to help them until they want the help!!!!
 
There is not much you can do but be there for him. You can call him Parents but what kind of shape are they in? Will they be much help? It can't hurt to call. I would hate too see it back fire in your face for being a great guy.
 
jh1 said:
Your roommates with Pick3?

Get the fuck out!
Is not possible. If he were roomates with Pick3 he would have mentioned that his roommate brings home male fuck buddies at all hours of the night, and walks around talking to a male blow up doll all day long!
 
covergrl80 said:
There is not much you can do but be there for him. You can call him Parents but what kind of shape are they in? Will they be much help? It can't hurt to call. I would hate too see it back fire in your face for being a great guy.


Eh... not sure how that can back fire.

He may not be your 'friend' if he tattles, but that's worth it. I'd rather lose a friend to animosity than death.

Problem with druggies is that they are good at deceiving their families.
 
jh1 said:
Eh... not sure how that can back fire.

He may not be your 'friend' if he tattles, but that's worth it. I'd rather lose a friend to animosity than death.

Problem with druggies is that they are good at deceiving their families.
Very true...Either that or the family can be in severe denial!
 
Angel said:
Well if he is in his last year of school he is most likely no longer a minor, parents cannot due shit..You calling parents may fuck him up more..My advice is to let him do his thing, just be there for him and try talking to him, mostly try listening..It sucks so back to lose someone, and sometimes it takes a person a long time to get over it. And being all up in their face telling them that they are doing the wrong thing is the last thing they want to deal with..I know it sucks to see someone suffer, but really there is nothing that you can do they will not allow anyone to help them until they want the help!!!!


Your right, but when it gets to the point were HE GOES out and DRIVES to the gas station HAMMERED effecting someones LIFE not only his, it is my problem. I don't want to hurt him and trying to talk to him, but as me being a guy it is a little harder then girl to girl. The reason I wanted to call his parents is so he can talk to them and get help as they know what hes going through.
 
Call his parents and talk to him. He will resist any efforts to help him if he isn't ready/willing to get help, but at least you will have done the most possible to help him.
 
Can you resquest to be moved to a different dorm since his behaviours are going to affect your grades...
 
Ppl on drugs have a tendency to self-destruct, most of them anyway.....Get away from that situation. If that person wants help he will ask for it
 
he should talk to a professional before it gets too out of hand

and its oxycontin.. not oxy cotton
 
seperate yourself from this guy immediately, don't be an enabler, he needs professional help far from what you can even come close to providing or imagining.
 
the_clockwork said:
did I miss the drug part? alcohol and drug are way different



Wait. Why?

Alcohol is a drug. Just a legal one. The only real difference is the legal consequences and the stigma of 'DRUGZZZ' ....

IMHOOO0
 
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