Help, going thru major anxiety

[Lifter4Life]

Quit whining you pussy take some xanax! Lifter

 

[skywalker66]

I can't believe i'm hearing this. THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU.

Fuck, since when is a bit of shyness suddenly a mental disorder. Get off your PC and get out and start meeting or at least talking to women.

Get a grip on yourself. The 'problems' you're talking about such as diet, girls etc are so trivial that it's insulting to those out there who really have problems. There are people out there who don't know where their next meal is coming from or who have bombs landing within 5 metres of where they stand, and you say you need to go and see a doctor because you're anxious about diet and girls.

You need to get some perspective, and start thinking and doing more positively. LIFE IS GOOD.

if my problems are so trivial then how come i dont know the answers???
how come i sit around for hours feeling really shitty because i have no clue what to do or anything?

I'm not shy, i can talk to ppl just fine, provided i dont have a headache and am not in a really fucking confusing anxiety frenzy!

 

[creep]

I don't understand????
Just go with the flow.

When I was 18 I was so busy thinking about having fun and getting laid that the REAL problems in my life didn't matter.

Try to relax, smoke a joint, go out and have a good time.

 

[skywalker66]

I don't understand????
Just go with the flow.

When I was 18 I was so busy thinking about having fun and getting laid that the REAL problems in my life didn't matter.

Try to relax, smoke a joint, go out and have a good time.

i dont even know what my flow is!?!?!

it IS a real problem, when you cant be natural, when you have no clue what u want to do to have fun,etc.

 

[vinylgroover]

if my problems are so trivial then how come i dont know the answers???
how come i sit around for hours feeling really shitty because i have no clue what to do or anything?

You just answered your own question. Get out, keep yourself occupied. Sitting at home thinking about shit will send you nuts. It sounds like you have way too much time on your hands. Get outdoors and get some air and clear your mind, 'cause there is nothing wrong with you.

We all think about shit, but it's how you deal with shit that matters. You are not dealing with anything by sitting around moping. It's all about having a positive mindset, because i can tell you know, chicks and people in general can pick a negative, pessimistic attitude from a mile off and people don't want to be around negativity.

 

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[skywalker66]

You just answered your own question. Get out, keep yourself occupied. Sitting at home thinking about shit will send you nuts. It sounds like you have way too much time on your hands. Get outdoors and get some air and clear your mind, 'cause there is nothing wrong with you.

We all think about shit, but it's how you deal with shit that matters. You are not dealing with anything by sitting around moping. It's all about having a positive mindset, because i can tell you know, chicks and people in general can pick a negative, pessimistic attitude from a mile off and people don't want to be around negativity.

problem...

right now my job isnt giving me hardly any hours at all, so i've been around the house thinking way too much.

also it doesnt help the fact that 2 really good friends of mine and me got into a big argument and we pretty much hate each other now.
not like it really mattered tho, since those guys never really had any respect for me.

and the fact that i dont have any hobbies that really interest me.

I can get hobbies, but getting friends takes longer, and getting hours at work is something i've fought for, without success.

 

[vinylgroover]

Just hang in there, but find some interests. Surely there is something out there you can do with your time.

 

[HappyScrappy]

I'm not even gonna read all of this post.
this guy asks for help - people give him several different solutions.
he then ignores them all and does the shit anyway, then comes back here whining about it again.

all in all, he needs to just fucking deal.

I used to be more understanding - but dude, you have made no fucking effort at all in this shit.

 

[vinylgroover]

That's what frustrates me the most. I have tried, but unless he wants to help himself, there's no use me trying.