bodybuildd
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My problem is that i am too "safe" i have always used condom when haveing sex! i am just so afraid of catching something! But now this problem is disturbing my life! I am living together with my girlfriend... we have been together for 8 months and we both know we end up growing old together and we have talked about haveing a family one day! We have always had protected sex! But she has given me hints that she kinda wants to have sex without condom.... she also went on a pill! She is extremely sweet and nice! with very healthy lifestyle! gym everyday! and visible abs and clean diet no alcohol or smokeing and very trustworthy person in every other aspect of life! I know that everyone of us have had previous sexual partners before we find/found the ONE! I think all the sex ed from school and college and the fact that i have always been a very calm person with no desire to party and so.. i quess all that have kinda damaged me! Last week we actually had sex with no condom for like 30 seconds and then i kinda freaked and stopped it! Any advice for me? Its not like we have a one night stand here... we both know we will marry one day! I have talked about my trust issue with her and she understand me and well she says i have nothing to worry about and so on.... still why is it so hard for me to trust someone?? Its been like that my entire life! any advice??