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Happily Married Couples

I do!! My parents. Not that they never fight, but they've been friends since they were in 1st grade and I hope that someday I'm married to someone who I can be such good friends with. ;)
 
I personally don;t know any "happily married" ones. I thought my uncle and his wife were happily married with a kid, until a few weeks ago, I was in an aol romance chatroom and guess who IM's me. His wife. She knew it was me cause of the pics I had in my profile, and she was asking if I knew who it was, and I was playing stupid (she had pics in her profile) and she said it was my "supposed aunt". So, who knows what's up there. My grandmother and her husband have been together forever but haven't been happily married in god knows how long, I don't know why they stayed together, guess for the kids.
 
Yes, me! :rainbow: Highschool sweethearts, now married 18 yrs. On our last anniversary a friend of ours gave us a card that said something about us being the youngest couple she knows, yet we've been married the longest, and happily. I think it boils down to finding a partner who you can consider your best friend to start out with, then always thinking about their wonderful qualities instead of focussing on what's irritating. Clothes on the floor, dishes left for me to clean used to drive me insane...now I just accept it as a part of his quirkiness (although I will remind him from time to time that certain things do annoy me...but it's always said kindly, not a means of pointing out a fault meanly, just a gentle venting for my own good)...if you continue to let things get to you, then anger sets in, then spite, then retalliation between the two people, then things just deteriorate to where no one is happy. No one is perfect, so focussing on the negative will just make it worse. You just gotta let some things slide. And if you do something hurtful out of vengance, appologize when you've calmed down. Let them know that you love them. Just like your kids will drive you insane at times, but you still love and cherish them...the same kind of forgiveness needs to be given to your partner.
 
Puddles, very well said. You are a superb individual! Tell the Stromboli I'm sent him a shout out too!!!


By the way Raina, I'm very available cutie! LOL ;)
 
All I can say is Pre nup! Otherwise you are an ass and deserve the chaos the will come your way! And for gods sake don't have kids unless you are able to take care of them and at least think you are in love with your spouse! I'm tired of all the Jerry Springer show guests! And after a while the whole stripper "love me daddy" Whose your daddy thing gets old!
 
PatsFan34 said:
Puddles, very well said. You are a superb individual! Tell the Stromboli I'm sent him a shout out too!!!
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Thanks...and so is he a supurb individual in so many ways I can't even begin to count them. I guess we're old school in our emotional connection and devotion to eachother. He had great role models with his family, his parents, his grandparents, aunts and uncles...not a single divorce or really awful marriage. I didn't have such an upbringing thoughl...I'm the result of an affair of a married man and his mistress...dad's still married but he's been living with my mom since he retired. What a tangled web they weaved! LOL
 
PUDDLES

ARENT YOU INTO LETTING OTHER FEMALES JOIN YOU AND YOUR MAN? NO WONDER YOU ARE HAPPILY MARRIED.






KAYNE
 
MrsPuddles -- you NEVER EVER cease to amaze me and brighten my world! MUHWAH!

VDL -- yes I am a happily married newgirl. I will say that my man was my friend first -- it was great. Then we were lovers (not not as a couple); then we were a couple...and the sex got even better, the relationship began to thrive and this divorced woman who swore she would never get married again, found herself with a guy 12 years younger than her...buying a house together and at the closing, gets on his knee on pops the question -- in front of everyone!

HAPPILY MARRIED standing in a waterfall saying our vows (all planned by him).

Happily Married..happily connected...best friends.....incredible lovers....an unbelievable life together that is more fulfilling than just about anything (except being mom to my equally incredible son).
 
SO MY SUPERIOR MATHEMATICAL SKILLS TELL ME YOUR MAN IS AROUND 30 YEARS OLD. CORRECT?

YOU 2 KNEW EACH OTHER LONG BEFORE YALL GOT TOGETHER AS A COUPLE?
 
Not too long as a matter of fact....but we were buds, he was dating someone else and we just hit it off as friends first. Not really too earthshattering to tell!
 
Hmmm...that is nosey but I don't really mind telling ya.....42 (and a half!).
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beep! beep! No jail bait alert! Calling all male handles! Beep!
 
newgirl said:
Not too long as a matter of fact....but we were buds, he was dating someone else and we just hit it off as friends first. Not really too earthshattering to tell!
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GETTING A LITTLE MORE NOSEY.

YOU SAID YALL STARTED UHH "DOING TAXES" TOGETHER BEFORE YALL GOT TOGETHER AS A COUPLE. WAS HE CHEATING ON HIS GF WITH YOU?
 
UGH...what is with your preoccupation with this. No he did not cheat on his girl....was dating her...we were friends. Stopped dating her -- he played the field ALOT....juggled a few.

Not sure what you are driving at....all on the up and up if you ask me. He is one of the most straightup guys there are......and since I rarely post in this forum, I am too honest for my own good. So no great soap opera or skeletons to report I am afraid.
 
ACTUALLY, I WASNT GETTING AT ANYTHING. I WAS SIMPLY GOING TO ASK YOU IF YOU THOUGHT HE WOULD CHEAT ON YOU IF HE WAS CHEATING ON SOMEONE ELSE.

GLAD TO HEAR THAT HE ISNT THAT TYPE. THAT SHIT GETS UNDER MY SKIN TO BE HONEST WITH YOU.
 
newgirl said:
UGH...what is with your preoccupation with this. No he did not cheat on his girl....was dating her...we were friends. Stopped dating her -- he played the field ALOT....juggled a few.

Not sure what you are driving at....all on the up and up if you ask me. He is one of the most straightup guys there are......and since I rarely post in this forum, I am too honest for my own good. So no great soap opera or skeletons to report I am afraid.
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would you love him still if he had a colostomy bag?
 
KAYNE said:


GLAD TO HEAR THAT HE ISNT THAT TYPE. THAT SHIT GETS UNDER MY SKIN TO BE HONEST WITH YOU.
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I totally agree here... my feeling is if you want to play...don't get hitched. I have seen it so many times with friends and such and it just really is a horrible thing....more about disrespect than anything else.

I am old fashioned in this regard.


Now, as for the comment on the bag: who said he did not already have one?

And it was a cruel remark...sorry my positive attitude is not to your liking.
 
newgirl said:
Now, as for the comment on the bag: who said he did not already have one?

And it was a cruel remark...sorry my positive attitude is not to your liking.
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if he does have one...make sure you squeeze it real real hard.

the whole 'till death do us part' thing is so cliche, but ask someone if their feelings would change if their spouse had a colostomy bag...then you get some honest answers.
 
p0ink said:


if he does have one...make sure you squeeze it real real hard.

the whole 'till death do us part' thing is so cliche, but ask someone if their feelings would change if their spouse had a colostomy bag...then you get some honest answers.
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Very true.
 
I don't think that the whole "til death do us part" deal is cliche. I think of my parents and their relationship-- that's how they are. my mom is only 47 and is incredibly crippled with back and nerve problems. She's on a morphine feed 24 hours a day and when she actually takes her pain meds she gets all sick/tired/screwy. My dad takes care of her and their entire life has changed due to her medical problems. They're young, their kids are out of the house, and they're quite limited in what they can do because she's constantly so crippled.

I suppose that for a lot of people, they just quit when something requires extra effort. How many people would just walk away if their partner got sick and their life had to be altered to accomodate?? I think that there are few people in each of our lives who really give a fuck to the point that they'd sacrifice almost everything to take care of us...but there are those people.

I think that in any relationship-- romantic or friendship, there comes a time when everything falls apart and most people leave. It sucks to have people who supposedly love you walk out of your life....but I'd much rather have genuine people in my life than those who are fair-weather friends.
 
My grandparents have been married for 57 years. I see stuff like that, and I think what the hell, maybe it is possible. But I won't hold my breath.
 
I've been married for....damn...a long time. 17 Years this coming July. Dear Lord!!!

We've had our ups and downs but we've always been really good friend through it all.
 
I do!

My mom and dad ...And...Me and my hubby are happily married!

We are both lucky-We have never fallen out of love with one another at the same time....Think about that comment for a second.:)
 
Myself and my parents. That's it. All of my other married friends and relatives are miserable or well on their way.
 
My wife and I have been married for a little over nine years. The first four of the nine were miserable. Drugs, alcohol, affairs, and jail tend to be pretty hard on a realtionship. The wife took our two children and moved out. Then came the divorce papers.

Fortunately we were able to stop all of that nonsense. I (actually we) quit the alcohol and recreational drugs. I got serious about bodybuilding and being a father. We were able to stop the divorce the day before it was to be finalized.

Since those changes in our lives, life has not always being happy, but our marraige has been awesome.

VR
 
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