Phaded said:
cause that has to happen when you dont have fun going out with your SO?
You know Phaded, I have to say this thread is full of people who I am shaking my head at.
If a woman goes out for "girl's night out" then she is seeking male attention.
If a man goes out for a "guy's night out" then he "just wants to be himself."
WTF
Lot's of insecure peeps...
I have no issue with where my husband goes, what he does when he gets there or who he does it with. If he cheats - we are done. period. He has never cheated on anyone and neither have I so why on earth would we spend our time fearfull that it will happen. (By the way, we have BOTH been cheated on.)
As for the dood who brought his lady along for what (I assume) he knew was a guy's night out. If I had been his lady, I would have felt awkward.... unless maybe this guy was so happy to be hooked up with this girl that he GENUINELY wanted to "show her off" a bit. I mean, the way Mr Pharm made it sound this guy is no big lady's man. If the situation was reversed and my girl brought her new man along and he was cool, we would kick it and have a great night regardless of what the original plan is. See me and my people are grown like that. We don't get our panties in a wad over DUMB SHIT.
My husband and I are not attached at the hip by any means but we GENUINELY ENJOY EACH OTHER'S COMPANY. We are friends, lovers and business partners so nearly all of our hours are together. Seeing as how it took us so long to find one another, I think we can hardly be called *desperate*. But my family love my husband and to him, I am his world so I honestly don't see the trouble. We put each other first and this works for us.
If the "friend" in question is annoying and or socially disrespectfull and/or his lady falls under either one of those categories, then just stop inviting him.
Simple..... shmimple.