Guys, do you ever notice that.....

[FreakMonster]

when you really like a certain girl and want a relationship with her she doesn't want to be with you but when a certain girl really likes you and wants to be with you, you are not interested in her in the least bit?

It seems like this happens to me all the freaking time.

 

[strider364]

These are the mysteries of life. I feel your pain.

 

[supersizeme]

Yeah...it can be hard to find that perfect balance where two people are totally into each other. Be wary of any chick who don't want a relationship - 99% of the time this means they have something else going on (i.e. they are being invaded by another penis or you do not have the goods to keep them entertained and they are looking). The majority of times I tell girls that I do not want a relationship generally translated means I am not attracted to them enough, be it physically or personality wise.

 

[casavant]

when you really like a certain girl and want a relationship with her she doesn't want to be with you but when a certain girl really likes you and wants to be with you, you are not interested in her in the least bit?

It seems like this happens to me all the freaking time.

I hear you man, but I usually don't let myself go crazy over a girl until I feel like there is some reciprocation of feelings. I don't even do this consciously- it's just the way I am.

 

[manny78]

Yup and if you're smart you're gonna be using other girls in order to get the one you want. Most girls are like that. They won't realize until another appears. Then she will most likely realize her mistake.

 

[Citruscide]

My whole life I've only known girls who either I was interested in or they were interested in me... but never both. It seems funny now that the way to actually get those girls is to make yourself unavailable... but then... do you really want those girls? It's alot of work... trying to play games all the time. After about 999 mishaps with women, I"ve found ONE. If you have to play cloak and dagger with a chick... just move on... unless you like the drama and suspense... then by all means, play the game... but know that it is most likely not going anywhere.

C

 

[PlateheadJim]

Ahhhh Yesssss...

For example I was dating this really hot chick but she kind of regarded me as "low priority". Of course I had other chicks as well and one in particular, "old reliable" was ALWAYS available. Physically she was hot but she was dumb as shit and could single handedly make me limp by opening her mouth (that is for talking).

Anyway, this odd arrangement went on for a couple of years (college days), she would come over at the crack of a whip and blow me on the spot.. Eventually I got so tired of her I started having "headaches" when she visited and didn't even want to fuck her anymore..

Well, years later I had another hottie that I just got tired of - she was a doctors wife and would gladly come to my office, pick me up and blow/fuck me or whatever I liked. I treated her like shit overall and really got bored with this quickly...

 

[raft]

The ones you like only seem to hate you and the ones you hate only seem to date you.

 

[3Vandoo]

The Story of me life!

 

[Crazier]

Yup. Exactly Freak.

Evaluate for a moment.

A. When you don't like a chic, you treat her like shit.... and that's exactly how you act.

B. When you like a chic... you treat her well, and try to do what you think she wants.

No chic wants a boyfriend that act's like option B.

That's why it seems that all the assholes have girlfriend's and the nice guys don't. The nice guy's get rejected for boyfriend A.

Anytime I treat a chic like option A... they'll blow me on demand... they'll eat my cum... whatever.

No one wants option B... aka Bitch Boy.

It's a hard fucking balance.
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