Guy HELP

[Shak]

i just asked because at 115 pounds and 12% body fat, i would imagine you are already in great shape.

if you have such a great time together, why did you break up?

 

[DepressiveJuice]

5'3, 115lbs, 12% bf and you need to get in shape? you sure you dont have a dingle dangling between your legs?

 

[fueledfox]

Cause we had been dating for so long and we just wanted to give eachother the chance to experience the world. He is 20 and (i'm 19) so i just don't want to keep him from experiencing things and other people.....but it seems like we both are just meant to be soul mates.......cause other people just piss us off cause lots of girls are dumbasses and lots of guys are chodes.......too many shallow people......i know there are good people but i am just saying.......so that is why we aren't together.

 

[fueledfox]

Yes i am not a guy i am just bery obsessive about my body.....i love building muscle and when i haven't worked out really well in a week i start to feel like crap......i love muscle

 

[Shak]

that sounds like a lame reason to me.

tell him how you feel and if he feels the same, resume your relationship. if he doesn't want to get back together, stop sleeping with him and move on with your life.

i don't understand why you need advice? it seems like you already know what you want.

 

[DepressiveJuice]

well youre only 19. you'll get over him once you've grown up some

 

[fueledfox]

Yeah but i don't wanna push it.....i want him to be ready.......i don't wanna be the one to say when it is right.....cause i feel like he is still questioning a lot of things in his life and i can't really always read him.......as for sleeping together.......i don't wanna sleep with other guys and he doesn't wanna sleep with other girls so i don't see the harm....i kinda do but i kinda don't.....i mean its like 3x a week maybe.....its not everynight......and sometimes it only 1x or not at all

 

[supersizeme]

You're 19 years old and have dated the same guy since you were 15. You should go out and experience life(i.e. experience it with other partners). Sure there's tons of shallow guys, but there's also tons of guys who you would have a blast with. Go find them.
Start thinking about settling down when you're over 25.

 

[Dougly]

he doesn't wanna sleep with other girls

Yes he does. You should do the same.

 

[fueledfox]

But i have dated other guys since we broke up......not cause i wanted to....but cause i knew that i needed the experience......and it SUCKED my heart just keeps going back to that one guy...............AHHHHHHHHHH