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Great, F'd up sitiation for me

PoyeBoy

PoyeBoy

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so last night I come home and my stomach is just dyin, my girl said she is going to her parents house, so I go to bed, and around 9:30pm my girl comes in and is like "My Grandmother is dying, I'm leaving for Florida tommorrow", well in case you didnt know, I am getting married in 11 days, so this just fucking blows, I mean, Im all cool with people dying and stuff, but, what horrible fucking timing, so basically she is leaving for FL, she is getting back, getting married one day after getting back, possibly going to a funeral, having a reception, and then going back to FL for our honeymoon, I mean this is fucked, completely FUCKED, good thing I got some nice RX's a few nights ago
 
Is this supposed to be funny?
 
JerseyArt said:
Is this supposed to be funny?
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um no, not this time, sorry to say, its fucking far from funny

but its cool that I can assume now since you said "is this supposed to be funny" that I usually am, so thats good
 
Ummmm....You prolly better show more sympthay than this to your future bride.

Get use to it...Shit happens- All depends on how you cope with it .Most times you have to be un-selfish if you want to stay married!

Tell your future bride I'm sorry to hear about her loss.
 
vixenbabe said:
Ummmm....You prolly better show more sympthay than this to your future bride.

Get use to it...Shit happens- All depends on how you cope with it .Most times you have to be un-selfish if you want to stay married!

Tell your future bride I'm sorry to hear about her loss.
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I know, shit happens, and shit sucks, we are both unshellfish, she thinks it horrible timing as well, I do show her sympathy, if I come away insensitive or what not its because I say things the way they are, not all sugar coated, of course I act differently around my gurl, but trust me its all good between her and I
 
Sorry for her loss bro.

Are you gona be doped up for the wedding? I know your fiancee would have to be. In fact she had to be wasted to say yes.
 
Yeah man,

I would definitely postpone the wedding. You are not going to want to have to deal with all that plus your wedding day. It's going to ruin your "special day". Seriously, just postpone it. That way, you can be there for your future wife in her time of need and when the grieving is done, then you two can focus on eachother and get married all proper and shit.
 
PoyeBoy said:
I know, shit happens, and shit sucks, we are both unshellfish, she thinks it horrible timing as well, I do show her sympathy, if I come away insensitive or what not its because I say things the way they are, not all sugar coated, of course I act differently around my gurl, but trust me its all good between her and I
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Just tryng to tell ya that stuff like this happens all the time in a marriage)or any relationshiop for that matter). Well, hopefully, not deaths happening in family all the time, but you just gotta get use to having to think about an entire new family now, and maybe, having to put yourselves on hold for un-expected issues like this.

Damn, wait til you have kids, hon! Yikes!

Anyway, congrats on the wedding too. It'll still be a beautiful day for you both.
 
Poyeboy

and shit sucks, we are both unshellfish
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Dude, you type with a lisp
 
PoyeBoy said:
so last night I come home and my stomach is just dyin,
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Why did you add that in there? If I`m not online please E-mail me or call me with the answer. I`ll PM you my number. thanks a lot.



It`s a bad situation but what exactly is she dying of? People "die" for 6 months or longer before they finally "die". If you`re having a big wedding I know it`s tough to just cancel. Her condition would dictate that more IMO. You gotta figure even if you have the wedding, there will be a lot of NO SHOWS because of this. Good luck with it. Bro.
 
GL,

Can't hit you again, so thanks bro.
 
gonelifting said:
Why did you add that in there? If I`m not online please E-mail me or call me with the answer. I`ll PM you my number. thanks a lot.
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because i wasnt feeling well, so that adds injury to insult so to speak

i doubt we will cancel the wedding,

her grandmother tried to have surgery on a cancerous cyst in her neck a few months ago, they said she would live maybe 5 years if they removed it, possibly a year or 2 if they didnt remove it, however when they put her under, her liver, blood pressure and all the jazz were failing on her, so they had to bring her out of her induced sleep and they were unable to complete the surgery, she was doing good as of late last week, she was taking walks, swimming, talking to people and the like, then she just started sleeping all the time, had her shades closed during the day, wouldnt say boo to a sheep, and she had really low life signs, now she is on an oxygen tank and her signs are really really low, so Id only give her a few days, if that

fyi, thanks for all the support from everyone
 
Sorry to hear man. Was she supposed to be at the wedding? Things like this can be very hard as they`re unscripted and unrehearsed. Remember why you`re getting married, not for the actual ceremony, but for a lifetime of happiness with the person you`re marrying. There will be a lot of bumps and tragedies going through, and this is your first... Good luck
 
GL

Damn, that was great advice. Well done bro.
 
dude she is going to FL and never coming back... mark my words....
 
I thought the Woman was supposed to be the one that gets pissed when her
wedding plans are screwed up ?

Or, are you the woman in this relationship ?

Either way that sucks as you will probably be sleeping on some aunts couch on
your big night..

I say go for it anyway, especially if its a leather one..
 
Y_Lifter said:
I thought the Woman was supposed to be the one that gets pissed when her
wedding plans are screwed up ?

Or, are you the woman in this relationship ?

Either way that sucks as you will probably be sleeping on some aunts couch on
your big night..

I say go for it anyway, especially if its a leather one..
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your leather
 
thats what you get for saying i was a cokehead in your karma message ahole.

this is a bad omen. call of the wedding unless you get a large inheritance. then it's a great reason to party.

PoyeBoy said:
so last night I come home and my stomach is just dyin, my girl said she is going to her parents house, so I go to bed, and around 9:30pm my girl comes in and is like "My Grandmother is dying, I'm leaving for Florida tommorrow", well in case you didnt know, I am getting married in 11 days, so this just fucking blows, I mean, Im all cool with people dying and stuff, but, what horrible fucking timing, so basically she is leaving for FL, she is getting back, getting married one day after getting back, possibly going to a funeral, having a reception, and then going back to FL for our honeymoon, I mean this is fucked, completely FUCKED, good thing I got some nice RX's a few nights ago
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wow, i had no idea you were getting married! What's his name?
 
PB, sorry to hear that bro, A wedding is a stressful enough without something added on. That said you should give as much support to your fiance as you can, if possible go with her to Fla. to see her Grandma. A wedding can be postponed a death in the family takes precedence. The way you handle this situation will be on her mind for as long as you are married. Cowboy up, be the man she said yes to and when the time comes enjoy your wedding. Hope everything works out for you.
 
Mountain Muscle said:
PB, sorry to hear that bro, A wedding is a stressful enough without something added on. That said you should give as much support to your fiance as you can, if possible go with her to Fla. to see her Grandma. A wedding can be postponed a death in the family takes precedence. The way you handle this situation will be on her mind for as long as you are married. Cowboy up, be the man she said yes to and when the time comes enjoy your wedding. Hope everything works out for you.
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yeah, thanks man, I cant postpone the wedding though, its a double ceremony and it would ruin everything, it will be okay though, Ive gotten over the initial shock and I am really high right now, so that helps im sure, But yeah Im giving her hella support, I actually keep trying to tell her to call her grandmother just in case, becuase you never know, she may pass before my girl gets there, then at least there is a little closure, even if grandma cant talk, she can still listen
 
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