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confusedmushie

confusedmushie

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Meeting up with V. (for those you know of the story) at around 12:00pm and heading out to Clearwater Beach. We will be going parasailing for approximately an hour or so and then hang out at the beach. So, that will take up approximately till 4:00pm. From there we will get changed and ready for Bahama Breeze in Tampa (one of my favorite places to eat). I have to call it an early night, so, that will end it there, we might do a night cap or something, but nothing that will lead to weeeee hours of the night.

What should I do to make it better? What to say, how to act, shit like that. Let me know.

Ian
 
Hi Ian,

Sounds awesome!! Can't say much for pointers as the date probably already happened. Just be yourself and have fun!!
 
...keep it relaxed and laid back.....if a "moment" comes up - let it happen but dont force anything.....


...sunscreen and youre good.
 
I am so bad at understanding 'moments'! What the hell is a moment? and how do you know that it is a moment? I can never get a hold of the right definition of it.

It would suck if I tried something because I thought it was a moment and it didn't happen to be a moment. Moments are hard to catch for me, I need to start taking moment classes. If I can understand moments, then I would have more confidence. HAHAHA, that's a lot of 'moments' in one paragraph.

I have been VERY lucky that almost all girls I have been with have made the first move.

Ian
 
confusedmushie said:
I am so bad at understanding 'moments'! What the hell is a moment? and how do you know that it is a moment? I can never get a hold of the right definition of it.
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Well....the technical definition is this:

A brief period of time that is characterized by a quality, such as excellence, suitability, or distinction




...my def:


...when you look into the other's eyes and see something out of the unusual...a brief flash of vunerability, or you have this feeling if Deja-Vu....its a moment that needs no words and it immediately draws the two persons closer together....
 
confusedmushie said:
Meeting up with V. (for those you know of the story) at around 12:00pm and heading out to Clearwater Beach. We will be going parasailing for approximately an hour or so and then hang out at the beach. So, that will take up approximately till 4:00pm. From there we will get changed and ready for Bahama Breeze in Tampa (one of my favorite places to eat). I have to call it an early night, so, that will end it there, we might do a night cap or something, but nothing that will lead to weeeee hours of the night.

What should I do to make it better? What to say, how to act, shit like that. Let me know.

Ian
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This doesn't sound good. Depending on us for all of the answers? Half of us aren't even real people...the other half are actually all damned Canadians.
 
Well, change of plan. Don't think we are going to the beach, she's 'overly tired' according to her. Hmmmmmm, SHUT DOWN?

Both for the past 4 days, we have been hanging around each other till like 5 in the morning and then having to work and go to school.

Women, so damn hard to understand.

I am going to turn gay.

Ian
 
...btw - I love St Petersburg beach - used to go there every year...stayed at THe Tradewinds
 
confusedmushie said:
Well, change of plan. Don't think we are going to the beach, she's 'overly tired' according to her. Hmmmmmm, SHUT DOWN?

Both for the past 4 days, we have been hanging around each other till like 5 in the morning and then having to work and go to school.

Women, so damn hard to understand.

I am going to turn gay.

Ian
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Good idea.......guys are never too tired to fuck.
 
confusedmushie said:
Both for the past 4 days, we have been hanging around each other till like 5 in the morning and then having to work and go to school.
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Thats a lot of time to be hanging around one another, especially when nothings been happening. Sounds like she´s been giving you the opportunity to make your move. I dont know whats holding you up. You´d better hope she´s not starting to get bored or give up on you already. And you can always make that "moment" happen yourself. Just be cool and try to make that connection with her, and then just let it happen. There are also some good tricks you can use to get the ball rolling. After all, you do have the upper hand seeing as though she´s really into you.
 
Hi Ian,

This reminds me of my Cosmo mag. I am a magazine addict and every month they have a diary of a single guy trying to find true love. It's great. You should continue to keep us posted. It feels like my own personal soap opera. So, I'm confused...did you guys go out?

As far as moments, just let it happen. I hate to keep talking about my husband but the first time we kissed it was great. It was our second date. We went to a movie. DayBreak with Stalone. It was so awful, there was no one in the theater. We just talked and talked, and then he put his forehead on mine and looked into my eyes and kissed me. It was magic! It was not planned, it just happened. So chill out and go with the flow!!! You'll do just fine.

J
 
OuttLaw said:


Thats a lot of time to be hanging around one another, especially when nothings been happening. Sounds like she´s been giving you the opportunity to make your move. I dont know whats holding you up. You´d better hope she´s not starting to get bored or give up on you already. And you can always make that "moment" happen yourself. Just be cool and try to make that connection with her, and then just let it happen. There are also some good tricks you can use to get the ball rolling. After all, you do have the upper hand seeing as though she´s really into you.
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Karma for ya!

That's the thing. I understand what you are saying. I am really into her, maybe more then she's into me. Don't want to blow it, that's why I am like taking it slow. We will see! We went to Steak and Shake last night at around 3am and sat there until like 5, just chatting.

I guess I am just afraid that I might be moving to fast, don't want to scary her away.

Ian
 
flexygrl said:
Hi Ian,

This reminds me of my Cosmo mag. I am a magazine addict and every month they have a diary of a single guy trying to find true love. It's great. You should continue to keep us posted. It feels like my own personal soap opera. So, I'm confused...did you guys go out?

As far as moments, just let it happen. I hate to keep talking about my husband but the first time we kissed it was great. It was our second date. We went to a movie. DayBreak with Stalone. It was so awful, there was no one in the theater. We just talked and talked, and then he put his forehead on mine and looked into my eyes and kissed me. It was magic! It was not planned, it just happened. So chill out and go with the flow!!! You'll do just fine.

J
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Hey, technically, we have not gone out on a 'date' yet. We have hung around each other just about every day this week (Starting from last Thurdsday). Other then that, we have not had a real date yet. Tonight will be the first. I will see what happens. I would love to kiss her and take it further. She's something special, so I am going to take it slow. I am listening to everyone telling me that I have had too many hints and that she might lose interest. Well, if that happens, then I guess it's not meant to be. If it happens, then it's all good.

I will keep everyone that's been reading up to date. Hopefully, the 'moment' will be tonight sometime.

Ian
 
slickdadd said:
I'd kiss her pronto Broganheimer. You are being sucked into the Friend zone real fast.
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Ok, for all you all that's telling to go ahead and act upon it. Here's the question that I am worried about.

OK, let us say that she pulls away -

#1 - How fucken awkward will this make things!

#2 - In your mind, you'd rather have her as a friend then nothing else. So, you think to yourself that you'd rather get confirmation before doing anything, so you don't screw anything up, even if it means that eventually we become friends and not more then that.

We have had this conversation before, she and I. She has been VERY reserved in regards to what she tells me. She knows exactly how I feel though. This is where I am confused. I will get to the bottom of it. If I didn't care enough for her, I think I'd have no problem making the move, but she's just so great.

Ian
 
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