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smallmovesal

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i really don't have much to say... i think i have a room at the res to move to because it looks like i have to go back there eventually. :(

i refused to quit school even though there was an offer of a full reimbursement.

and whoever gave me bad karma for responding to one of those really kind threads can go fuck themselves.

thank you all for all the pm's... they really do mean a lot. i'm totally in a weird headspace i cannot understand right now... but your words are really helpful.

thanks again.

i really don't know what i came on here to talk about. we can talk about anything. i just feel like chatting a bit.
 
lol thanks... i really don't care about karma generally but this one was a bit perplexing.

i think i need to see ssme in a thong interpretive dancing to "with arms wide open"... yep, that would be great right about now.
 
WHAT IF I WERE TO WEAR A THONG AND DRESS UP IN THE TOP HALF OF A BUNNY COSTUME ALL THE WHILE SKIPPING TO THE BEAT OF AN ALIC IN WONDERLAND RECORD,HOLDING TWO UNOPENED MOONPIES THAT I WILL PROCEED TO STICK ON MY GENETALIA?
 
smallmovesal said:


i was assaulted by my roommate's friend while i lay in my own puke, passed out in my bed on friday. apparently that's a turn-on.

Sorry that shit happened smalls... Where was your roommate? And why were you laying in a pile of your own puke?

Did you press charges?
 
that would be lovely but i really ain't big on genitalia at the moment so let's say... you just slap your ass a lot or something.

what are moonpies?
 
INVICTUS said:
WHAT IF I WERE TO WEAR A THONG AND DRESS UP IN THE TOP HALF OF A BUNNY COSTUME ALL THE WHILE SKIPPING TO THE BEAT OF AN ALIC IN WONDERLAND RECORD,HOLDING TWO UNOPENED MOONPIES THAT I WILL PROCEED TO STICK ON MY GENETALIA?

Moonpies... Lol
 
addickt said:


Sorry that shit happened smalls... Where was your roommate? And why were you laying in a pile of your own puke?

Did you press charges?

my roommate was home i think... i was puking in my bed apparently and they "helped me" according to my roommate. where that progressed to me alone with his friend in my room i don't know...





lol big4 that's cute. is it sad that i know the michelin man is named bibbendum (sp?)?
 
INVICTUS said:
HERES WHAT ID DO:


CALL HIM UP AND TELL HIM YOU ARE PREGNANT.

he probably lives in a van down by the river because he's such a loser.

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smallmovesal said:


my roommate was home i think... i was puking in my bed apparently and they "helped me" according to my roommate. where that progressed to me alone with his friend in my room i don't know...





lol big4 that's cute. is it sad that i know the michelin man is named bibbendum (sp?)?

So why were you laying in a pile of puke and are you pressing charges?

You should.... Were you drugged/ or did you drug yourself?
 
i was passed out drunk. they apparently came home and somehow knew i was puking in my bed and "helped me".

there is not enough evidence to press charges.
 
smallmovesal said:


lol big4 that's cute. is it sad that i know the michelin man is named bibbendum (sp?)?


I know that too.

But I work for them.:(


Girl hang in there.:)

Keep thinking about your goal, to finish school, and make a better life for yourself. You will be ok, even if I have to come up there end kick this jerks ass.
 
smallmovesal said:
i was passed out drunk. they apparently came home and somehow knew i was puking in my bed and "helped me".

there is not enough evidence to press charges.

What the fuck do you mean? If he fucked you and you were passed out, there is enough evidence....

Is there more to this story?
 
essentially it would be his word against mine because i had blacked out and i saw him with his hand in me briefly before i passed out again. the rape kit didn't show any evidence of sperm... so he could easily say that he had a conversation with me and i was consenting... and i can't say i didn't because i don't remember (although i probably wasn't conscious in actuality).


i'm trying big4... i'm good for a while and then i just cry out of the blue. today i have been ok so far..
 
smallmovesal said:
essentially it would be his word against mine because i had blacked out and i saw him with his hand in me briefly before i passed out again. the rape kit didn't show any evidence of sperm... so he could easily say that he had a conversation with me and i was consenting... and i can't say i didn't because i don't remember (although i probably wasn't conscious in actuality).



hmmmmmmmmmmm.... I see. So you know this guy?
So you are saying that you dont remember if you consented but he assaulted you? Help me understand.
 
smallmovesal said:

i'm trying big4... i'm good for a while and then i just cry out of the blue. today i have been ok so far..


Just don't try to hold it in. Get it out and talk about your feelings.
Get mad, cry, get angry, but let it out.

Have you talked to a councellor?
 
al i'm sorry that happened to you this weekend. :( it sounds like a nasty situation and i hopefully all deserving parties will get theirs. keep your head up!!
 
addickt said:


hmmmmmmmmmmm.... I see. So you know this guy?
So you are saying that you dont remember if you consented but he assaulted you? Help me understand.

sorry i had to eat something.

no i am saying he can say i consented because i do not remember a lot...

i spoke briefly with the school counsellor big4... not long though.
 
You said before that you dont remeber anything, therefore you cannot say you did not consent..

Do you know for sure that you didnt? Just curious..

He is a dick either way, he shouldnt have taken advantage of you...

Just the facts ma'am ( Dragnet)
 
smallmovesal said:

i spoke briefly with the school counsellor big4... not long though.


Sweetie, do they have a rape crisis center up there?
Those are the councellors you need to talk to. They are trained to deal with women that have been assaulted. They can help you deal with all the different emotions you're feeling.
 
look, yes that case can be made... that's what i'm saying. that said, i woke up with a start and saw some guy with his hand in me... and thought, "what the fuck is going on?" but was too drunk to say anything and passed out again.

but if someone is fucking lying in their puke that's a pretty good hint that they are not "with it" enough to make any decisions.

i didn't ask anyone to come into my room.. i was "happily" puking in my own little bed, minding my god damn business.
 
big4life said:



Sweetie, do they have a rape crisis center up there?
Those are the councellors you need to talk to. They are trained to deal with women that have been assaulted. They can help you deal with all the different emotions you're feeling.

yeah.. i will look into that.

my aunt said i can come over to be with her to have company any time during the day... so that's good too.
 
That will be good. Just get out of the house and go somewhere, even if it is to see her.

Here, maybe these will cheer you up.:)
 
I'm releaved to know you're doing ok. I'm in class or I'd write more...

Have confidence in yourself and stay determined -- like this kitty. :)

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smallmovesal said:


i was assaulted by my roommate's friend while i lay in my own puke, passed out in my bed on friday. apparently that's a turn-on.
Sorry to hear sweetie. I hope you make the asshole pay!
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Smalls, If I'm not mistaken the way the laws work in Canada is that if the female is drunk she is not able to give consent (legaly). Meaning even if you told him to go for it, it still wouldn't hold up in a court of law.

All that aside I'm really sorry to hear about what happened and wish you the best of luck no matter what you decide.

I also have to say that you are making fantastic gains and are looking better and better every week. Keep up the fantastic work and be proud of yourself!

Peace...

Drifter
 
Smalls,

I wish you the very best, and should the need happen, you have but to ask....I have friends who will ensure he doesn't do it to anyone else...with that said....Spend time with family, and TRUE friends...

You shall do well....

Peace,

Ranger
 
The Ranger said:
Smalls,

I wish you the very best, and should the need happen, you have but to ask....I have friends who will ensure he doesn't do it to anyone else...with that said....Spend time with family, and TRUE friends...

You shall do well....

Peace,

Ranger

Ranger
Good words.
 
smalls, I am so sorry :( you must be overwhelmed with various conflicting emotions right now, I hope you have someone you trust who you can talk to about it all.

I second big4life in suggesting you find a rape crisis center near you. You can call the RAINN hotline to find out what center is nearest you: 1-800-656-4673 (RAINN is the national network for victims of rape and other sexual abuse.)

But, if you don't feel up to calling just yet, you can access a rape crisis counsellor at http://www.rapecrisis.txcyber.com online. It's not the same as seeing someone - they can take a while to reply -but at least it's safe and it's easy.

I hope you're coping okay. Take care of yourself.
:luxlove:
mini

p.s I hope you do take up Ranger's offer...
 
dont let this ruin the last part of your uni course

you've gone this far in your life, dont let it be ruined by this guy.

focus on your work, and your friends and most of all your family. finish up the year and do the best that you can. dont worry about your roomate now, you;ll hopefully neer have to see him again.

the fact that people will now know he's been questioned by police should hopefully get him crawling under the biggest rock imaginable. i dont hink anyone paying him a visit is a particularly good idea but then again i said that elsewhere too

peace to you
 
al...how much longer do you have in school?

Aren't you trying to move to Boston next year? Sounds like there are some crappy people around you. Come to New England so we can make you feel better.

Just watch out for Sully.....
 
thanks... i am going to be in counselling for this.

the guy in question doesn't live there but his family does. i really don't know how the police will contact him but i imagine they will somehow.

i'm moving into residence at school in two weeks. my phone number will be the same, for those of you who know it.

thanks for the info mini - i really appreciate that.

it's really weird because yesterday i was crying at the drop of a hat, and today i just haven't really been able to eat much :( but i'm feeling a little better.

i'm going to get back to working out this week when i can. hopefully tomorrow... i really don't want to quit this cycle.
 
smallmovesal said:
i'm going to get back to working out this week when i can. hopefully tomorrow... i really don't want to quit this cycle.

you may value the short peace from everyone else that the gym brings, i know i do

try and eat something though. stay healthy :) not too long to the end of year too, unless you canucks run on some special igloo based calendar or something :)
 
smallmovesal said:
i just have to make it to mid-april.. i know i can do this.

i have to do it.

you'll walk it, no problems.

thats basically 2 months....you can make it :)
 
yeah... i've had a lot of curve balls thrown at me in the past year and i've dealt, so what's one more...?

honestly though... enough's enough.
 
hey on the plus side you'll be out of uni in 2 months and can move somewhere warmer ;)
 
smallmovesal said:
i like the summers here but word up to that.

i know its hard to conceptualise but in other places, when its summer, this big yellow ball of light becomes visible in the sky and warms (stop me if i get too technical btw) the ground....so you dont have ice and snow everywhere

;)
 
smallmovesal said:
haha well we have great warm summers here ;)

you must have been in a different part of canada to me then :)

whole damn country was like a big f-ing popsicle......then again my body is built for sweltering jungle heat and monsoons :) or britain....whichever :D
 
smallmovesal said:
we have very dry and hot summers out here danielson - like 30C

thats better than us dammit, we only get em like that sumtimes.

well umm....we have rain. so there :D

good night and take care of your self. people are always on here if u need to talk
:)
 
Drifter is right about the laws in Canada. Even if you gave consent when you where drunk it still means No.

Take care of yourself and keep your chin up
 
Hrmm want me to kick his ass smalls?? I am kinda bored and I could use a couple days vacation to dispose of some human trash like this dickwad.

Drizz
 
i'll let the cops sort it out and make him shit his pants. that's all i can do..

then i'm just going to focus on getting my shiznit together.
 
smallmovesal said:
i'll let the cops sort it out and make him shit his pants. that's all i can do..

then i'm just going to focus on getting my shiznit together.

Sorry i missed you smalls...I hope you're feeling better, but it's okay if you're not. We love you either way.

Wyst
 
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