first of all, as dr.dre said, bitches ain't shit but hoes and tricks. there's a million girls out there, one doesn't matter. me and my friends have a saying. girls are like buses, they come around every hour on the hour. dime a dozen homie. secondly, in my opinion, not getting a serious relationship in high school was one of my best moves ever. i had the freedom to go out with my homies and do whatever i want. like it or not, no matter how cool the chick is, she will try to control you to some extent. you won't be able to go to a club with your boys even if you're not going for girls. you can't go to a strip club with your boys just for fun. you can't go out and drink or do whatever. 98 percent of high school relations don't last anyway. high school is only a small part of your life. don't waste it. as a result of me not getting a serious chick, i got to focus on my training and maximizing my results. i had a friend that came back to school from summer jacked as fuck. he got a girl, lost everything now he's small. don't let this girl get to you bro.