Girls Are So Confusing :/

[Spunky]

Heres my situation....

I have been good friends with the first girl I ever fell in love with for a long time. We talk everyday. But it never goes past friendship. She asked me to come to her college and visit her so on Thursday I did just that. One thing led to another, we ended up having sex and I stayed the night with her. Which was great, but she told me she loved me.. all of these old feelings came back and I told her I loved her also. But the next day, everything went back to normal....... its like it never happened.... did I just get played? I keep telling myself I didn't...... but i think a girl used me for sex.. holy shit..

 

[Stan O'Zolol]

As long as you didn't spend any money on her I have no problem with it.

 

[cure]

Heres my situation....

I have been good friends with the first girl I ever fell in love with for a long time. We talk everyday. But it never goes past friendship. She asked me to come to her college and visit her so on Thursday I did just that. One thing led to another, we ended up having sex and I stayed the night with her. Which was great, but she told me she loved me.. all of these old feelings came back and I told her I loved her also. But the next day, everything went back to normal....... its like it never happened.... did I just get played? I keep telling myself I didn't...... but i think a girl used me for sex.. holy shit..

I love being used!

 

[Spunky]

i see no problem with it either as long as their are no feelings.. but i think I still love this girl... that is what sucks. the sex was no problem.......

 

[alexiarenee]

Well, if she was being honest then why don't you ask her or talk to her about what is going to happen now.
Maybe she feels awkward and doesn't know what to do/say.
Is her college out of town?
I dont know of any girls that tell guys they love them just to get sex.
I mean, sure girls use guys for a lil booty now and then, but I don't see her going as far as to say I love you.

 

[Spunky]

Well she told me a week ago that she has been wanting to get back together with me......... only thing i can figure is that my dick is small and i couldn't please her.. so thats why everything went back to normal after we had sex..

 

[Spunky]

and yes her college is about an hour away from me.. not too far..

 

[alexiarenee]

Well she told me a week ago that she has been wanting to get back together with me......... only thing i can figure is that my dick is small and i couldn't please her.. so thats why everything went back to normal after we had sex..

Are you serious??
If she LOVES you, then a "small" dick shouldnt matter that mcuh..is it thick though? LOL...j/k.......
Well, if she said she wanted to get back together shouldn't that mean that she does want to be with you, wasn't using you, and is satisfied with your humble penis?

 

[doc_pup]

*scratches head* If a girl decides she doesn't like you because your dick is too small, then she certainly doesn't love you and is a shallow bitch.

 

[Spunky]

hehe u would think so.. but why did things get so weird after the sex??? we hung out last night w/ her friends and its like everything went back to normal... like nothing ever happened....... confusing to say the least..

 

[naturally anabolic]

dont try to figure it out! just go with the flow!

 

[Spunky]

i get too stressed and jump to conclusions sometimes. but i really care about this girl.. its hard to just go with the flow..

 

[SAGAT]

just ASK her what the deal is. trust me on this one

 

[MrMuscle]

so what did you expect would change? you talk togheter, have a good time togheter. isnt that what people on love are supposed to do? just be subtile about it, the next time you see her, stroke her cheek with 2 fingers. then later just touch her hair gently. some girls need you to be a little more agressive i think. and such small signs of affection always makes them melt.

 

[Spunky]

ok heres the deal.. i was used for a piece of ass.... she doesn't have feelings for me anymore and she said it took sex to find that out..

 

[Stan O'Zolol]

Sorry to hear that Spunky. Sounds like a mixed up chick to me. You're better off without her.

 

[Taps]

Well, that sucks. Sorry man.

Better you find out now than later.

 

[addickt]

ok heres the deal.. i was used for a piece of ass.... she doesn't have feelings for me anymore and she said it took sex to find that out..

Thats fucked up. If you ever fuck her again, stick it in her ass and see how small your dick is then!

What a bitch. Maybe you should tell her you "think" you hate her, but it might take you beating the shit out of her to "find that out."

 

[danielson]

ok heres the deal.. i was used for a piece of ass.... she doesn't have feelings for me anymore and she said it took sex to find that out..

bitch

is she really that out of tune with her own feelings that she needs to have sex with you, FINISH the job, go to sleep next to you and ONLY then reflect she just wants to be friends

dudes get called out on springer for this shit!

dont be needy....in fact act like you aren't even slightly phased by it, be totally nonchalant (yesi know i spelt it wrong )

1-2 weeks she'll be so pissed off by the fact it meant 'nothing' to you she will either try and come onto you like crazy or end up 'loving' you