Girlfriend might be pregnant, need abortion options

[spongebob]

this conversation has now turned ugly.

 

[bigguns7]

ALSO I challenge each one of you meatheads to find one sentence where I EVER said to KILL a child, fetus, or anything else.

Star wrote:
TO think different is selfish and to bring a child into the world before you are capable of providing those things is also selfish and WRONG. Adoption is an option, true but do you ever know they will give all that is needed for that child either? Sometimes yes and I believe whole heartedly in adoption but the damage it does to the mother losing the child and eventually the abandonment issues it gives the the adopted child are always a problem. Even though the love it takes to let yourself go through the pain of giving your child away is great it doesn't matter.......the baby always later in life wonders inside why you didn't love them enough to try. Stop being to onsided Men.....and I say men because everyone of you spouting that BS have been men, the ones that DO NOT take care of the kids, DO NOT end up being the single parents, and DO NOT give birth.



What you've written above sounds like a pretty strong case for abortion. Since this is a thread about abortion, and the comments made before you posted the above were against abortion, I assumed that you were arguing that it is better to abort a baby if you're not ready to have one. In reading your statement, that is the only assumption that a rationale human being could make.

Did I misunderstand or am I just too big of a "meathead" to comprehend your ramblings? You should reread what you wrote earlier before you sling any more insults. I'll accept your apology when you make it.

 

[dballer]

YOU again prove your ignorance................I HAVE A LIVING CHILD.....................Read what people write you fools. Secondly, No man EVER deserted my child and I to become a dead beat dad. THe Assumations I hear are amazing...........IF ONE of you had read what I had written you would of seen that my childs father was taken away by FATE. That is a nice term to use when you are saying he is DEAD. A drunk driver killed him.........so sometimes fate gives a raw deal but that sure as hell doesn't mean to give the fucking raw deal before fate can. ALSO I challenge each one of you meatheads to find one sentence where I EVER said to KILL a child, fetus, or anything else. Really unfuckin believable!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Paradox: I will stick with my statement of unexperienced opinions with you...........because it meant is you have yet to experience enough about life to form concrete opinions. You have showed your young age with every one of your posts. I bet you are barely out of your mommy's house let alone her womb.

I wish I could be the one to make you happy.

 

[paradox]

If you are not capable of giving that and that includes 2 parents and a happy home then I think a lot of times abortion is the right thing.

This is from page 3.

And for the record Star, I live on my own & support myself & I ask nothing of my parants.

 

[bigguns7]

For the record star, you made a statement in this discussion about how if a child cant be given the best, sometimes abortion is the best choice. It looks however that you edited your post?
Also, I live on my own & support myself & ask of nothing from my parants.

And you can apologize to paradox as well.

 

[-SD-]

First, i'd like to say taht i'd prefer a baby to be aborted than live a life in poverty and filth that only careless youths having babies will likely provide. Hell, If my mom wasn't as responsible as she was, I would have preferred her to abort me. Sometimes, life is just not worth living.

Maybe i'm evil or whatever, but i put very little value on human life--especially my own. If I die tomorrow, a few people cry, I maybe get a small part in the paper and life goes on.

In the whole scheme of things, it matters very little. Do we weep evertime a tree is cut down? No? Well, that's a life too! That's why i remain religious. I know i'm insignifigant but I seek god's grace so he can make my shitty life more bearable. So far, it isn't so but I'll try to make the best of the short term I have here on earth.

Maybe some of us are better off aborted. Why live only to suffer?

Then do us all a favor and kill yourself now, so we dont have to read nonsensical crap like that anymore.

 

[Star]

You won't get a fuckin thing close to an apology........that statement you quoted was in regards to a woman saying she would be putting her life, plus the quality of life of the fetus in danger.....IE: the doctor said the meds she was on was going to cause INTENSE deformity and could put her own health in danger so damn straight in that instance I recommended it.

BIG GUNS: Mr. know it all you used the word ASSUMED 2 x referring to my posts.........You assumed what I meant, you assumed what I thought..........Stop assuming and start reading because if you got all that god damn assumation out of your noggin you could of also read that to mean DO NOT GET PREGNANT IF YOU CAN NOT PROVIDE THE LIFE DESERVED BY THE CHILD..........but that again would be an assumation wouldn't it? Just like the ones ya'll made when you thought I was a bitter woman that some man left to raise his kid, right? I have not attacked any one of your opinions? HAVE I? NO. But continually you have made assumptions, called me an idiot, disgusting and so on for mine.......and what is hysterical it's for opinions you are assuming I am having. With maturity comes the realization that everyone has a right to their own beliefs and actions without persecution for them. That is what I have given you ........the right to your own opinions without jumpin on your ass for it but you are damn straight I jumped down your throat when you started insulting me. GROW UP!

 

[68GT350]

Then do us all a favor and kill yourself now, so we dont have to read nonsensical crap like that anymore.

Just because your poor excuse for a brain can't comprehend what point i'm trying to get across, doesn't make it nonsensical. I don't knock anyone elses's views on this thread--I appreciate if everyone returns the favor.

 

[paradox]

If you are not capable of giving that and that includes 2 parents and a happy home then I think a lot of times abortion is the right thing.

Here this meathead answered your challange of finding a sentence where you said to kill a child, fetus or anything else.

 

[-SD-]

Just because your poor excuse for a brain can't comprehend what point i'm trying to get across, doesn't make it nonsensical. I don't knock anyone elses's views on this thread--I appreciate if everyone returns the favor.

You said you put very little value on human life and especially your own, and I can see how maybe something in your life has warped your mentality towards this pessimistic point of view, so I was saying that if it doesnt make a difference then just end it now. You just sound as if you dont want to really live so it would be a good idea if you werent alive to be able to spread misery around with what you are saying. Some of us actually do enjoy life and being alive.