Girl Question

[Taps]

Here's the situation. One of your best buds is interested in a girl. He doesn’t get a lot of attention from women and this girl seems to dig him a little. He takes a shot and gets turned down – but in a polite and friendly way. (ie: the girl wants to be “just friends”. )

So, is the girl fair game now? Do you have the right to go after her, or is she off limits for good? Do you ask your friend about it? What’s the protocol here? Assume your buddy in question is a little bummed after striking out.

I’m curious to hear what people think.

 

[danielson]

no....if he's a good friend

its like doing her doggy infront of him...at least thats what he'll be thinking next time he see;s you guys...

If you do ask your friend, as him with the priviso that if he is at all unhappy it won;t be a big deal at all as she doesnt mena that much to him, and personally i would wait like 2-weeks to a month depending on how into her he was and how big a friend he is

 

[HumorMe]

Just put yourself in Bill Clinton's place. WWBD?

 

[Taps]

damn it, leave bill out of this.

danielson, good call on waiting a bit. I never considered that.

 

[Pamela]

How long has the friend been interested in the girl?

 

[Taps]

Less than a week, maybe 3-4 days.

 

[the nature boy]

at least find out where you stand and ask him. if he says no, then leave her alone.

 

[Pamela]

Less than a week, maybe 3-4 days.

I liked this guy and we're all hanging around one day.

Then I went home got a call and this guy asked me out.
I said yes. So when he came to the door, it was the other guy.
I didn't even know he liked me. Cause me and the other guy was
kinda talking all day that day.

So I was stun. And I didn't go out with him.
I like the other guy. And they were good friends.

But your situation sounds different. You may loose your friend over it.

 

[Taps]

This isn't a big dramatic situation or anything. No friendships will be fucked with.

I'm mostly just curious what people here think.

 

[juiceddreadlocks]

i wouldnt. no way. then again, i really think i put too much stock into friendships.

 

[Lestat]

I wouldn't do it man. There are so many women out there, why would you have to go for the same ones that your buddy has been interested in?

 

[Taps]

It's a different situation than how right appear from this thread. I'm not really interested in her. Eh, long story.

I was really just curious what other people thought.

 

[Robert Jan]

depends how good of a bud he is. I wouldn't do this if he was my bes friend

 

[casualbb]

terrible idea. Even if he okays it he'll resent you for it later

 

[ceo]

one thing...

Bro's before Ho's

nuff said.

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

If you wax that ass after he struck out....he's prolly still buming about it.
Jealous contempt.....truck loads. He'll be sticking pins in a taps voodoo doll
for a long time. Prolly kill the friendship.
If he's any friend at all, I'd pass. Well, maybe not me,
but you should....No really.

 

[SoKlueles]

Dont do it, if ur friends with the guy and a good friend, you wont.....yeah its like a slap in the face to him...

 

[danielson]

damn it, leave bill out of this.

danielson, good call on waiting a bit. I never considered that.

yeah it seems its unlikely he;ll be unhappy about it so maybe wait till he finds a new girl to lust after

just read whati posted...im damned incoherent at 7am with barely 4hrs sleep

 

[jerseyart]

I can see everyones point. But with me and my buds, we all know it's fair game. No one takes it personally. Only current or ex's, and if he is still working it, are off limits.

We even introduce each other.

I have one prick friend, but he's funny as hell, who doesn't give a shit if you are in the middle of laying down some mojo. We were at a bar in NYC, and he went to the bathroom. I requested a song, and ablonde siting a couple of tables down looked over and says "Nice request, I love that song" So I get up to go sit on the bench next to her, and knowing he is coming back soon, I made sure we were sitting leg to leg, with no space in between. Sure enough the bitch comes back, sees us, then sits on both our legs and forces his way between us. What a bitch LOL. If she isn't dating someone else he doesn't want her.

I spent all night with him at a place. We're sitting at a table with five girls, the two of us, and one of the girls BF's. They all look the same, no real knockout. But of course the only one he wants is the one with the bf sititng right next to her. We're both big guys, and this poor shmuck sat there fuming while Eric is playing with this chicks hair and rubbing her thigh under the table in front of her guy. Finally he walks out and says "let them pay my drink bill, I'm leaving" What a bitch. His gf worked off the debt

 

[Fina Junkie]

Just fock her and get it over with. If he is a real friend I'm sure he would understand.

If he doesn't agree just say, " Yo man, I thought we were homies, I can't believe you would let a girl come between us."

 

[bran987]

I can see everyones point. But with me and my buds, we all know it's fair game. No one takes it personally. Only current or ex's, and if he is still working it, are off limits.

yes, but you are missing one point.

his friend isn't very good with the ladies, so this kind of thing will affect him more.

you were good with girls, remember that post while back where you said you were always chasing skirt instead of learning to use computers?

it's different if you can just go out and meet somebody the next day, this kid probably can't

I'd either wait a couple weeks or just ask him how he feels. He'll respect u more you'll get to keep your friend!