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- Thread starter Lao Tzu
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polarpixie
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Just ask her to do something that doesn't sound like a date. Like, ask her to go to the bookstore or get some sandwiches with you or something.
Good luck.
Good luck.
polarpixie
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Just make sure the tractor doesn't have herpes! (Seinfeld....anyone anyone?Jimsbbc said:
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nordstrom said:
Tough call.
There's always a chance she'll read you wrong.
Can you bring a guy friend with you the first time?
Uh, a guy friend that already has a girlfriend. (trust me on that one)
Good Luck.
Good friends of the opposite sex are awesome to have - especially when the motive is really just to be friends.
polarpixie
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I like my suggestion the best. 
Wanna know why? Because by asking her to do something that is very non-date like, you are being sly about it...you are not asking her out on a 'date date'. This way it makes her wonder if you 'like' her or not, without you being completely obvious or too vulnerable to rejection, and you get to spend a little time with her. If she came right out and asked you if you 'liked' her you can always chicken out and say you just thought it'd be fun to be friends.
Wanna know why? Because by asking her to do something that is very non-date like, you are being sly about it...you are not asking her out on a 'date date'. This way it makes her wonder if you 'like' her or not, without you being completely obvious or too vulnerable to rejection, and you get to spend a little time with her. If she came right out and asked you if you 'liked' her you can always chicken out and say you just thought it'd be fun to be friends.
Lao Tzu
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polarpixie said:I like my suggestion the best.
Wanna know why? Because by asking her to do something that is very non-date like, you are being sly about it...you are not asking her out on a 'date date'. This way it makes her wonder if you 'like' her or not, without you being completely obvious or too vulnerable to rejection, and you get to spend a little time with her. If she came right out and asked you if you 'liked' her you can always chicken out and say you just thought it'd be fun to be friends.
i don't want to go out with her though. she has children, and probably a marriage.
yes i know, i'm socially slow.
women respond emotionally to men
im actually fed up with trying to" get" women latlely i been trying this new technic on them and its working better than anything here it is
1. dominate them( they love it)
2.be an asshole
3.be a jerk
and they will love you even more and follow siut
i know your question doesnt fit my answer but i think you can throw some of these tactics in there an see what happends
btw these tactics are not for you to be taking advantage of them or abuse them in any way
im actually fed up with trying to" get" women latlely i been trying this new technic on them and its working better than anything here it is
1. dominate them( they love it)
2.be an asshole
3.be a jerk
and they will love you even more and follow siut
i know your question doesnt fit my answer but i think you can throw some of these tactics in there an see what happends
btw these tactics are not for you to be taking advantage of them or abuse them in any way
Re: Re: Re: Re: girl problem
alright alright.. but that's a lil different..
from what i know right now.. i'd be able to chill with you and not let things go any further than just buds... but who's to say that i would be able to be JUST friends.. who's to say that i'd WANT to stay just friends.. we might start chillin at first.. just on the friend tip.. then you start realizing how perfect i am.. and how smart i am.. and how you'd love to have me as the father of your four children.. would you say to yourself "nope.. i won't let it happen.. my main motive is to be JUST friends with decem.. ".. would you not let it go any further.. would you not take the chance and express your feelings towards me.. even if that meant my saying "nope.. sorry velvett.. i don't wanna be down like that".. would you rather live the rest of your life beside the man who you were meant to be with.. but never letting go any further than just friends because that was your main motive when it started?
BUT... when do you hear someone ever say "i want to meet that girl and be her friend.. and only her friend.. that is my motive".. no.. don't happen like that.. it's more like "that girl is pretty darned cool.. i'd like to be friends with her.. it'd be even better if things went a little further than just friends.. but if we stay just friends.. than that's cool too"..
holy shit am i rambling or what...
anywho...
know whatta mean vern?
velvett said:
I would want to be your friend, I'd hang with ya if you didn't live so damn far away. I enjoy your mind - that doesn't mean I have to get in bed with ya.
I am clearly getting old.
alright alright.. but that's a lil different..
from what i know right now.. i'd be able to chill with you and not let things go any further than just buds... but who's to say that i would be able to be JUST friends.. who's to say that i'd WANT to stay just friends.. we might start chillin at first.. just on the friend tip.. then you start realizing how perfect i am.. and how smart i am.. and how you'd love to have me as the father of your four children.. would you say to yourself "nope.. i won't let it happen.. my main motive is to be JUST friends with decem.. ".. would you not let it go any further.. would you not take the chance and express your feelings towards me.. even if that meant my saying "nope.. sorry velvett.. i don't wanna be down like that".. would you rather live the rest of your life beside the man who you were meant to be with.. but never letting go any further than just friends because that was your main motive when it started?
BUT... when do you hear someone ever say "i want to meet that girl and be her friend.. and only her friend.. that is my motive".. no.. don't happen like that.. it's more like "that girl is pretty darned cool.. i'd like to be friends with her.. it'd be even better if things went a little further than just friends.. but if we stay just friends.. than that's cool too"..
holy shit am i rambling or what...
anywho...
know whatta mean vern?
polarpixie
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nordstrom said:
oh....dammit...i read that all wrong. I'm gonna have to save that advice for some other time then.
I still think my advice applies, add to that, you should ask her advice about women you meet, and if she gets the wrong idea, you won't be lying if you tell her you just want to be friends.
