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Getting over the ex, im a SWV, etc....

B0ARDIN087

B0ARDIN087

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Yea if you all dont remember i was having some issues with the now ex and we went on a break. I went there at the end of august and we broke up for good basicly. I still have alot of feelings for her and she does for me but things changed this summer when it become long distance. She was really upset when i left her and wondeirng if it was the right decision. She basicly told me when i got home that she just wanted some time to think and she only told me it was over completely because she knew that way i would try to move on instead of waiting for her and stuff. Been doing pretty good about things went out with some other girls at home and stuff but im going back to school tomorrow and worried that alot of feelings will come back when im in the same environment of when i was living with her.

Im pumped as hell to go back to penn state and hook up with some other girls and live wiht my friends finally (first tim eliving with my 3 best friends, lived with one freshman year and a kid i hated last year) and its going ot be sick as hell. But part of me is still kinda sad about the ex.

Its not so much that i give a shit if im with her, just kinda upset/pissed off that she hasn't come running back yet, even if i dont want to say yes if/when she does. Is this normal?

Honestly i think its more hte fact that I dont know why the fuck thigns went sour that bothers me. How do i get completely over this girl? Fuck other ones? I hope that theory works cuz im going to commence testing tomorrow night :) Already got a few lined up. Give me some advice on this shit. And if anyone here goes to psu or is in the area, hit me up.
 
it's as simple as keeping yourself busy, focused on other things, remembering all the bad and why you're in the shitty situation (even if there was no big reason other than she's confused about life) and keep options open

and no, fucking other girls doesn't work...when it's all said and done you are still emotionally empty.
 
lol.

bullshit that fucking other girls will not work.

the easiest way to get your mind off someone else is find 5 others to replace that person. Being single and young is the SHIT if you're mildly attractive and know how to talk to people. Even if you don't want to be a male whore, you still have to meet alot of girls to find ones you like.
When you're on the prowl, you have so many options you can narrow it down to the ones you like.

takes the focus completely off that person(ex). as much as you don't want to hear it, of course she misses you somewhat but coming crawling back? No...she's an attractive girl, it doesn't take them longer to compensate for their insecurity by finding another guy quickly. Does it matter? fuck no. do your own thing. Make sure you focus on YOURSELF though. don't fill your empty void with other girls...better yourself, have fun and the girls will be there.

it's done bro. that chapter of your life is closed.
embrace being single, and in college...because it doesn't last forever, and it's fuckin fun if you don't be stupid and get a serious girlfriend too early in your life. you got plenty of time for that later


like my man biggy said "Fuck the state pen, fuck hoes at penn state"
 
calveless wonder said:
lol.

bullshit that fucking other girls will not work.

the easiest way to get your mind off someone else is find 5 others to replace that person. Being single and young is the SHIT if you're mildly attractive and know how to talk to people. Even if you don't want to be a male whore, you still have to meet alot of girls to find ones you like.
When you're on the prowl, you have so many options you can narrow it down to the ones you like.

takes the focus completely off that person(ex). as much as you don't want to hear it, of course she misses you somewhat but coming crawling back? No...she's an attractive girl, it doesn't take them longer to compensate for their insecurity by finding another guy quickly. Does it matter? fuck no. do your own thing. Make sure you focus on YOURSELF though. don't fill your empty void with other girls...better yourself, have fun and the girls will be there.

it's done bro. that chapter of your life is closed.
embrace being single, and in college...because it doesn't last forever, and it's fuckin fun if you don't be stupid and get a serious girlfriend too early in your life. you got plenty of time for that later


like my man biggy said "Fuck the state pen, fuck hoes at penn state"
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I think the point is that you're just distracting yourself......you might as well say pick up a second job, at least that would give you financial rewards. If you really cared about someone then time is the only thing that helps, as cliche as it sounds.
 
most of the time people think they can't do better, but putting yourself out there opens up alot of doors and you see how good things can be
 
to echo what calveless said, you're going to miss being single and in college once you're out....it was beyond fun

there are times when my boys dragged me out of the house becaues i wasn't in the mood or just being lazy and i ended up meeting amazing girls that night

so just get the fuck out
 
^ Better is relative.

Am I ever gonna be banging 19 y/o hottie models and their g/fs? Prolly not.

Do I want to.... WELL who the fuck doesn't. But in reality I gotta do better for myself in other ways.... avoid that sadistic urge and look for more rewarding qualities. Something I haven't ever been really good at.
 
swole said:
it's as simple as keeping yourself busy, focused on other things, remembering all the bad and why you're in the shitty situation (even if there was no big reason other than she's confused about life) and keep options open

and no, fucking other girls doesn't work...when it's all said and done you are still emotionally empty.
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this is correct rational advice..however some of us are not capable of this (i.e me) i have found the only solution is time and or meeting someone your really into and you'll completely forget about the ex...thank the lord u dont have a kid with her (it makes getting over someone about 10x harder because they are still in your life). time heals all...the one thing I dont suggest is dating just anyone for the hell of it..because you'll will no longer want that person and your going to be hurting someone else ( i have done this a few times and felt like shit after for leading that person on).
 
jh1 said:
^ Better is relative.

Am I ever gonna be banging 19 y/o hottie models and their g/fs? Prolly not.

Do I want to.... WELL who the fuck doesn't. But in reality I gotta do better for myself in other ways.... avoid that sadistic urge and look for more rewarding qualities. Something I haven't ever been really good at.
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The problem is not bangning 19 yr olds and their gfs. The problem is taking knocking them up, marrying them, or falling in loveeeeee with them.

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all the whey said:
The problem is not bangning 19 yr olds and their gfs. The problem is taking knocking them up, marrying them, or falling in loveeeeee with them.

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Yeah I fucked that up too.... see the part where I mentioned I am not good and selecting women for their truely redeeming qualiites.

Banging 19 y/o's prolly isn't good no matter what now that I have a 2 y/o.... geeezuz.. plus I am gonna be 31 next month. :worried:
 
calveless wonder said:
most of the time people think they can't do better, but putting yourself out there opens up alot of doors and you see how good things can be
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That's part of the healing process, hitting a random skank shouldn't make you feel better about yourself. A lot of people equate sexual conquest with self validation.....
 
javaguru said:
I think the point is that you're just distracting yourself......you might as well say pick up a second job, at least that would give you financial rewards. If you really cared about someone then time is the only thing that helps, as cliche as it sounds.
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WTF??? Why don't you just tell him to tape his dick back and put a dress on.


He needs to be fucking college hoes!~~~~@@#~!~!!~!~ This is always the answer.

Even if there isn't a problem.

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javaguru said:
That's part of the healing process, hitting a random skank shouldn't make you feel better about yourself. A lot of people equate sexual conquest with self validation.....
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These "random skanks" have some guy who is trying to heal because they lost a "special girl".

Random Skanks = some pussy's Special Girl
(and vice versa)
 
all the whey said:
These "random skanks" have some guy who is trying to heal because they lost a "special girl".

Random Skanks = some pussy's Special Girl
(and vice versa)
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There are some women that don't embrace their inner whore these days.... :)
 
jh1 said:
Yeah I fucked that up too.... see the part where I mentioned I am not good and selecting women for their truely redeeming qualiites.

Banging 19 y/o's prolly isn't good no matter what now that I have a 2 y/o.... geeezuz.. plus I am gonna be 31 next month. :worried:
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We all have.

I agree! 20 yr olds and above!



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javaguru said:
There are some women that don't embrace their inner whore these days.... :)
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javaguru said:
You've never dated a no sex before marriage Jesus girl.... :)
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Yes, I have.

But, after they have been through the saving self to marriage, living in a dream world, etc.
 
all the whey said:
Yes, I have.

But, after they have been through the saving self to marriage, living in a dream world, etc.
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Mine was divorced, ten years younger and still had her principles.
 
calveless is right, itll work

the difference between men and women when it comes to getting over people is that women will get over someone very quickly as soon as they find a higher value man. the only other thing that comes into play is if their ex gets a higher or lower value girl than they perceive themselves as ie if a girl breaks up and gets a far better bf, and her ex gets a shitty replacement, the girl is quite happy. if she gets a shitty boyfriend and her ex gets a much better replacement, shes going to feel pretty shitty about the whole thing.

guys, on the other hand, are territorial. it doesnt matter if theyre fucking better girls, they still want their old girl too, and it simply takes time to get over as you rip out all these little emotional anchors. the only thing having lots and lots of girls does is keep your self esteem nice and high so you stay mroe attractive/emotionally healthy and dont beat yourself up over the fact that the girl you care about and have all this emotional investment in is basically getting fucked by a bunch of random guys

imo the trick is to develop relationships with the girls youre about to fuck. dont be a one hit wonder - keep the girls around, have multiple fuck buddies, and youll find that youll care about these girls also. it fills an emotional void, because seriously, huge strings of one night stands are pretty unfulfilling and sketch you out
 
GoldenDelicious said:
calveless is right, itll work

the difference between men and women when it comes to getting over people is that women will get over someone very quickly as soon as they find a higher value man. the only other thing that comes into play is if their ex gets a higher or lower value girl than they perceive themselves as ie if a girl breaks up and gets a far better bf, and her ex gets a shitty replacement, the girl is quite happy. if she gets a shitty boyfriend and her ex gets a much better replacement, shes going to feel pretty shitty about the whole thing.

guys, on the other hand, are territorial. it doesnt matter if theyre fucking better girls, they still want their old girl too, and it simply takes time to get over as you rip out all these little emotional anchors. the only thing having lots and lots of girls does is keep your self esteem nice and high so you stay mroe attractive/emotionally healthy and dont beat yourself up over the fact that the girl you care about and have all this emotional investment in is basically getting fucked by a bunch of random guys

imo the trick is to develop relationships with the girls youre about to fuck. dont be a one hit wonder - keep the girls around, have multiple fuck buddies, and youll find that youll care about these girls also. it fills an emotional void, because seriously, huge strings of one night stands are pretty unfulfilling and sketch you out
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LOL @ Australian "Mystery"..... :)
 
there's no magic forumula, but getting out there and getting some pussy helps, hanging with your bros does too, staying active, busy, etc. having some attention from ladies is good for anyone's ego.
 
Living with your buddies should help more than anything else. Hanging out with good friends will dull the sting of a breakup very quickly, if you've chosen your friends well.
 
GoldenDelicious said:
eh?

java theres a whooooole lot more to me than mm :)
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IMO style, david D, and Juggler have a lot more personality than MM... MM seems like he's had a chip on his shoulder for a long time, and reading his history it seems he does.
 
canadianhitman said:
Living with your buddies should help more than anything else. Hanging out with good friends will dull the sting of a breakup very quickly, if you've chosen your friends well.
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yea pretty sure living with my best friends has been the most amazing 2 days of my life
 
so been to college for like a week and a half and...... im definately happier. but it just drives me crazy that i dont talk to her at all :( i really hope time will fix this
 
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