Man, I think so many hetero feel that gay men are an affront to their masculinity because they think the gay dude wants to fuck them in the ass. According to everything I've heard, however, most of those gay guys want you to fuck THEM in the ass, which may be gross to you but it's better than the former. I wouldn't sweat it too much.
Vinylgroover: I hear you- isn't it a bitch that gay guys are actually the ones who seem much more appreciative of a well-trained muscular body?