From friend to.....

[anthrax]

Let's say you're a "male friend" to some chick..... but you want to change your status to "boyfriend"

Is it possible or are you trapped?

 

[Sassy69]

You're never "stuck" - all things being equal, I like when I have a good solid friendship to build from. The challenge is breaking the barriers of "friend" to go to "more than friend" but w/o losing the friendship in the process. So I guess if you want to make it more than it is now, you can test the edges & see if it looks promising, then take a shot. If you have a really good friendship w/ the person, then you can talk fairly openly about your feelings. But again, I guess it depends on all the factors that only you can know and feel you want to take that chance.

 

[mustang_00]

how deep into the "freindzone" are you??

 

[Gymgurl]

LOLOL now that is a great question right there...how deep....if she hasn't made a move on ya after a few months of being friends...you don't do it for her and she is just interested in being friends

 

[anthrax]

Friends enough to talk about our ex and how to score with the opposite sex...

 

[Gymgurl]

well if you like her then ask her out on a date and see what happens......you have to feel her out...not up...out...LOL

 

[Cutiebaby]

It all depends where in the friend zone you are at.

 

[Sanel27]

ohhhh maaaan you got a long journey in front of you........................

still hang out as friends, but do things for her friends wouldnt, buying flowers once in a while, complimenting her more often, giving her those looks, you start dressing up a notch so she notices you are trying..................but whatever you do, dont just run out and tell her how you feel.............that might fuck up your plans, and you might lose a friend.......instead just show her you care......who knows, maybe she notices and starts flirting back with you

 

[needtogetaas]

get drunk with here and give here the friend speech.

if you dont know it then fuck it then.

let me tell you it works grate though.its got a 85% secsess rate.

 

[needtogetaas]

get drunk with here and give here the friend speech.

if you dont know it then fuck it then.

let me tell you it works grate though.its got a 85% secsess rate.

o ya it only works with the dumb ones hence the 85%.lol

 

[immortalis]

ohhhh maaaan you got a long journey in front of you........................

still hang out as friends, but do things for her friends wouldnt, buying flowers once in a while, complimenting her more often, giving her those looks, you start dressing up a notch so she notices you are trying..................but whatever you do, dont just run out and tell her how you feel.............that might fuck up your plans, and you might lose a friend.......instead just show her you care......who knows, maybe she notices and starts flirting back with you

Im with this strategy here. Its probably your safest bet... body language doesnt lie.

 

[chestmaster1]

ohhhh maaaan you got a long journey in front of you........................

still hang out as friends, but do things for her friends wouldnt, buying flowers once in a while, complimenting her more often, giving her those looks, you start dressing up a notch so she notices you are trying..................but whatever you do, dont just run out and tell her how you feel.............that might fuck up your plans, and you might lose a friend.......instead just show her you care......who knows, maybe she notices and starts flirting back with you

I agree, this is definately your best bet, I've actually this exact same thing happen, I was friends with her for around 2 years and then we went out, because your friends already you just have to do it gradually with little hints and see how it goes from there.

 

[MJM79]

No going back to just friends..have triend it and just ended up not talking to each other no more.......bummer because she was kool as sjit

 

[BUBBLES]

LOLOL now that is a great question right there...how deep....if she hasn't made a move on ya after a few months of being friends...you don't do it for her and she is just interested in being friends

i agree with you
a woman knows very quickly if she wants a guy or not, usually when she does want the guy and if she is single she will definately let you know she is interested

 

[mrplunkey]

Friends are typically the nice, well-behaved, "safe" guys.

Do a few bad-boy things and see how she reacts. As much as a woman talks about wanting her BF to be "sensitive" and her "best friend", she'll go for the guy with a bad-boy edge on him every time.