THe use of steroids is a personal decision that each individual must make. I feel that although one cycle can be beneficial it is rare that a person stops using steroids after one cycle. I myself and the majority of the people I know started off thinking it would be just one cycle, then maybe one cycle per year, now I cycle on and off on a regular basis. I started off taking a 3 week winstrol cycle, I was so impressed with the immediate gains of muscle that I wondered what would happen if I stacked it with Equipoise. I got even better results and have been at it ever sense. I feel that I do it smart though. I always cycle off a couple times per year and bring my natural test levels back up before I start again. Buddy another thing to remember is that steroids don't make you huge you still have to bust ass in the gym and diet, but they assist you and give you a more immediate sense of gratification. As for answering your question, yes you can lose some hair from one cycle but there are now DHT blockers such as Propecia and Proscar. Gyno or as you refer to it as soft tits is still an issue but it can be prevented by Arimidex or Liquidex and as for getting fat it's all about how you diet and exercise. If I were you I would research steroids quite a bit more till you have a better understanding of what they do to your body (positive and negative).