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KillahBee
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Sup eat big
THERE IS NO SECRET to pace. Different girls like it different ways and most girls like it different ways at different times. Some will straight out tell you how to do it. Some will be very vocal about it when you are doing it right. With some you just have to figure it out, pay attention to their bodies and their reactions. Try different things. There are times that call for very slow, deep penetration and there are times that call for animal hard fucking. you'll know when it's time for each one. A girl I dated a few months back, with whom I had AMAZING sex, used to almost always tell me how much she loved it nice and slow, especally when I was behind her. During it she would always whisper to me, "nice and slow, mmmmm....". But whenever I decided that it was time to speed it up, she ALWAYS got into it. it's not just physical fucking - it's 90% in the mind.
Oral? Man, this could get complicated. A whole world of thoughts out there on this. Some peeps will throw out the ol "do the alphabet with ur tongue" theory, some guys have distinct patterns/steps they use. Me? I play it by ear. Some girls respond to lots of clit stimulation - some like it when you push on the clit a bit, some like it soft. Some like slow clockwise circles, some like deep licks up and down. Some like you to suck the lips a bit, some want to to toungue fuck them deep and stiff. Once again, depends on the girl, the night and the situation. Just know this and you'll be fine. ALWAYS work to expand your repertoire (sp?).
THERE IS NO SECRET to pace. Different girls like it different ways and most girls like it different ways at different times. Some will straight out tell you how to do it. Some will be very vocal about it when you are doing it right. With some you just have to figure it out, pay attention to their bodies and their reactions. Try different things. There are times that call for very slow, deep penetration and there are times that call for animal hard fucking. you'll know when it's time for each one. A girl I dated a few months back, with whom I had AMAZING sex, used to almost always tell me how much she loved it nice and slow, especally when I was behind her. During it she would always whisper to me, "nice and slow, mmmmm....". But whenever I decided that it was time to speed it up, she ALWAYS got into it. it's not just physical fucking - it's 90% in the mind.
Oral? Man, this could get complicated. A whole world of thoughts out there on this. Some peeps will throw out the ol "do the alphabet with ur tongue" theory, some guys have distinct patterns/steps they use. Me? I play it by ear. Some girls respond to lots of clit stimulation - some like it when you push on the clit a bit, some like it soft. Some like slow clockwise circles, some like deep licks up and down. Some like you to suck the lips a bit, some want to to toungue fuck them deep and stiff. Once again, depends on the girl, the night and the situation. Just know this and you'll be fine. ALWAYS work to expand your repertoire (sp?).
KillahBee
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Just always be in the moment. I know it's easier said than done, but forget all the memorized routines and methods and stop worrying about what she wants you to do or if you are doing it well. Just be in the moment. For real. 100% in it - most people aren't able to do this with an moment in their day. Be into her and she will be into you. Pay attention to the signals she is giving off. She will moan harder and squirm a bit more when you're doing something right - so keep doin it.
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jenscats5
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It really varies by woman.....
lavarat
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eat big said:
Don't sweat it. Your first time having sex will be over fast so you won't have the option really of going fast or slow or whatever. When you start lasting longer you'll have the option of pace plus. Just do it with someone you trust or someone you don't know and will never see again. I recommend the first one though.
just try everything...then its easy...stay receptive to what she responds to.
and trust me..most women will show u what they like wether they know it or not.
and again..if your a virgin..just stick that fucker in there and get it over with ASAP...im pretty sure i nutted the moment my dick got about 3 inches away from the pussy my first time...lol
and trust me..most women will show u what they like wether they know it or not.
and again..if your a virgin..just stick that fucker in there and get it over with ASAP...im pretty sure i nutted the moment my dick got about 3 inches away from the pussy my first time...lol
mustang_00
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i heard it hurts your first time... Bring a box of tissues incase you cry!
flex229
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when fucking, i usually start off real slow and gradually speed up pace so that im literally pounding that pu%&y by the time she starts to cum.
when giving oral, start off licking her clit with the broad part of your tongue. use constant pressure. some girls like it harder, some like it softer..just pay attention to clues. for example, if she gets more vocal when you lick it harder, do that. make sure when you find their "spot", you stay there...if they start making different sounds, or start breathing differently, or squirming, or clenching their muscles, or if their leg shakes (leg shakes usually indicate that she is about to cum),,you know youre doing something right...once you find their "spot," keep doing what youre doing until they cum...
when giving oral, start off licking her clit with the broad part of your tongue. use constant pressure. some girls like it harder, some like it softer..just pay attention to clues. for example, if she gets more vocal when you lick it harder, do that. make sure when you find their "spot", you stay there...if they start making different sounds, or start breathing differently, or squirming, or clenching their muscles, or if their leg shakes (leg shakes usually indicate that she is about to cum),,you know youre doing something right...once you find their "spot," keep doing what youre doing until they cum...
WhiteCastle
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Ahhh Shit! That nervous excitement of your first 'encounter' with the second kind.... I remember the days clearly 
I was a WRECK the first time.... I thought I was either going to die or kill her...
Just what most of these guys/gals on here have already said... It really depends on the woman. I have found that most women like, more or less, the same things, just at different times. Just pay attention to how SHE is responding to your 'actions'... Don't try to put it in TOO fast.... Give the girl some damn foreplay, it will make EVERYONE happier Kiss her neck, rub her back, caress her body, tell her how hot and beautiful she is (not in the same sentence)..... It will be ON, SON!
I was a WRECK the first time.... I thought I was either going to die or kill her...
Just what most of these guys/gals on here have already said... It really depends on the woman. I have found that most women like, more or less, the same things, just at different times. Just pay attention to how SHE is responding to your 'actions'... Don't try to put it in TOO fast.... Give the girl some damn foreplay, it will make EVERYONE happier
Kiss her neck, rub her back, caress her body, tell her how hot and beautiful she is (not in the same sentence)..... It will be ON, SON!
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immortalis
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You've gotten some good advice in this thread bro. Reading this just brings a huge smile to my face man. I wish i could go back in time to re-live that anticipation...not knowing what to expect or anything. Man that was some good, nervous filled stuff hehe.
Someone mentioned above how they nutted their first time when they got like 3 inches away from the pussy, lol. If you can... if at all possible... if you KNOW when you might get some. Try to sneak away somewhere and rub one out real quick. That way you will be able to last longer, and get more out of your first encounter as far as experience goes. But thats just a suggestion hehe.
This one girl i hooked up with my freshman year in college, was a freak! She talked so much shit to me, how she would wear me out and how i couldnt keep up with her and this and that. I played football in college and there was no way I was gonna let some girl tell ME that I couldnt keep up with HER...simple
So... she called me one night a little tipsy, and started talkin shit... and I was like "Look lil girl, do you want me to come over there and show you once and for all that you need to keep your lil mouth shut when talkin to a grown-ass men?!?!". She was like, I dare you to come over here big boy and ill finally show you whats up.
I swear to you, it was like a flow of evil blood immediately began pumpin through my whole body... i was gonna show this bitch what was up! So i stayed at my place for a little bit and I rubbed TWO...not one, but TWO out. I cooled off, and got my shit together and went over to her place.
To make a long story short...needless to say, 4 hours later she could barely walk
From then on out, anytime she just wanted to be fucked real good she would just call me up. It wasnt a bad arrangment at all
Someone mentioned above how they nutted their first time when they got like 3 inches away from the pussy, lol. If you can... if at all possible... if you KNOW when you might get some. Try to sneak away somewhere and rub one out real quick. That way you will be able to last longer, and get more out of your first encounter as far as experience goes. But thats just a suggestion hehe.
This one girl i hooked up with my freshman year in college, was a freak! She talked so much shit to me, how she would wear me out and how i couldnt keep up with her and this and that. I played football in college and there was no way I was gonna let some girl tell ME that I couldnt keep up with HER...simple
So... she called me one night a little tipsy, and started talkin shit... and I was like "Look lil girl, do you want me to come over there and show you once and for all that you need to keep your lil mouth shut when talkin to a grown-ass men?!?!". She was like, I dare you to come over here big boy and ill finally show you whats up.
I swear to you, it was like a flow of evil blood immediately began pumpin through my whole body... i was gonna show this bitch what was up! So i stayed at my place for a little bit and I rubbed TWO...not one, but TWO out. I cooled off, and got my shit together and went over to her place.
To make a long story short...needless to say, 4 hours later she could barely walk
From then on out, anytime she just wanted to be fucked real good she would just call me up. It wasnt a bad arrangment at all
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heatherrae
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depends on the girl, the mood, etc. =-)
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The Shadow
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