Explain this to me

[hanselthecaretaker]

If sex is supposed to be such an intimate experience to women (which I've heard and read on several ocassions, heres one for example-
http://www.askmen.com/love/love_tip/48b_love_tip.html ), then how come so many of them are screwing for the sake of screwing? One night stands, even boasting openly about threesomes and just random sex. And saying because they're drunk isn't a good excuse. You have to be pretty sloshed to eliminate any traces of a conscience and actually go through with it. This is why I say this is bullshit. I think girls are just as horny as guys, and as long as a guy strikes a certain chord with her, she'll be ready to go no matter how long she's known him. How long it takes to go from "hi, I'm.." to "ooooh that was amazing" only depends on her initial interest level.

 

[b fold the truth]

If sex is supposed to be such an intimate experience to women (which I've heard and read on several ocassions, heres one for example-
http://www.askmen.com/love/love_tip/48b_love_tip.html ), then how come so many of them are screwing for the sake of screwing? One night stands, even boasting openly about threesomes and just random sex. And saying because they're drunk isn't a good excuse. You have to be pretty sloshed to eliminate any traces of a conscience and actually go through with it. This is why I say this is bullshit. I think girls are just as horny as guys, and as long as a guy strikes a certain chord with her, she'll be ready to go no matter how long she's known him. How long it takes to go from "hi, I'm.." to "ooooh that was amazing" only depends on her initial interest level.

I can't understand why ANYONE would have a one-night stand. I've dated people in the past who lived their entire lives like you have described...and they had little left of themselves to give to anyone else...much else to love.

B True

 

[fistfullofsteel]

I can't understand why ANYONE would have a one-night stand. I've dated people in the past who lived their entire lives like you have described...and they had little left of themselves to give to anyone else...much else to love.

B True

ummm, if a superhot chic wants me for one night only then i am hers. i'll probably feel cheap afterwards but i'll get over it by the next day.

 

[PHATchik]

To some women, sex is an intimate experience and not something that should be a one-night-stand. I'm one of them. You can't generalize women into one category, just as you can't generalize men into one catergory. Members of both sexes can enjoy having lots of one-night-stands and simply tallying up their partners. Others think it is a bit more important than that. And yes, women can be just as horny as men. We just have a tendency to handle it better. At least, some of us do.

 

[b fold the truth]

ummm, if a superhot chic wants me for one night only then i am hers. i'll probably feel cheap afterwards but i'll get over it by the next day.

I've been put in that position. Beautiful woman attempting to get naked in my motel room...and I've asked her to leave.

I guess I'm the strange one.

B True

 

[PHATchik]

I've been put in that position. Beautiful woman attempting to get naked in my motel room...and I've asked her to leave.

I guess I'm the strange one.

B True

No, you're just a true gentleman. One of the few left.

 

[hanselthecaretaker]

To some women, sex is an intimate experience and not something that should be a one-night-stand. I'm one of them. You can't generalize women into one category, just as you can't generalize men into one catergory. Members of both sexes can enjoy having lots of one-night-stands and simply tallying up their partners. Others think it is a bit more important than that. And yes, women can be just as horny as men. We just have a tendency to handle it better. At least, some of us do.

I am yet to find a woman I can relate to.

 

[b fold the truth]

No, you're just a true gentleman. One of the few left.

THAT has been debatable. Just ask people from the past...

B True

 

[casualbb]

No, you're just a true gentleman. One of the few left.

BOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

Men want sex. Women want sex. Don't pretend it's somehow better not to have it.

 

[chewyxrage]

Who's to say both aren't good people but just want to experiment for one night with someone they are comfortable with..........


this has happened to me....I don't consider myself a male slut (as in, I won't fuck whatever is available)

but I have had one night stands with good friends (since gradeschool...) and we both had a good time, knowing we were both clean and comfortable with each other from years of knowing each other.......


some girls just get horny....just like guys (gasp) it is possible to have a good time.....

 

[chewyxrage]

BOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

Men want sex. Women want sex. Don't pretend it's somehow better not to have it.

well you summed up what i said before i typed it

 

[HumorMe]

I've been put in that position. Beautiful woman attempting to get naked in my motel room...and I've asked her to leave.

I guess I'm the strange one.

B True

You, my friend, are a cut above the rest. I have been put in the same position and responded the same way. Good for you!

 

[PHATchik]

BOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

Men want sex. Women want sex. Don't pretend it's somehow better not to have it.

Sometimes, it really is better not to have it. It cheapens the experience to have sex just for the hell of it. That's my opinion. You don't have to share it. I've been in positions where it would have been pretty easy to just go ahead and do it, but the experience means more to me than that.

And B Fold, you shouldn't listen to the people of your past. THey are just that. The past. We have to focus on the present and the future. You are what you make yourself. We've all made mistakes in the past, but the truly wise person is the one that learns from mistakes.

 

[jenscats5]

A good book on the subject is "Why do I need you to love me in order to love myself?" It discusses some of the reasons why some women have sex for reasons other than love. Certain psychological issues or abuse can cause women (and men) to "act out" sexually and no, they don't feel good about it & do feel bad about it, but keep doing it....

But, as phatchick said, you can't lump everyone into one category.....Porn stars claim to just be horny & love to screw every guy they can & so do some regular women....others don't treat it as casually...it really does vary from person to person...

 

[Burning_Inside]

If sex is supposed to be such an intimate experience to women (which I've heard and read on several ocassions, heres one for example-
http://www.askmen.com/love/love_tip/48b_love_tip.html ), then how come so many of them are screwing for the sake of screwing? One night stands, even boasting openly about threesomes and just random sex. And saying because they're drunk isn't a good excuse. You have to be pretty sloshed to eliminate any traces of a conscience and actually go through with it. This is why I say this is bullshit. I think girls are just as horny as guys, and as long as a guy strikes a certain chord with her, she'll be ready to go no matter how long she's known him. How long it takes to go from "hi, I'm.." to "ooooh that was amazing" only depends on her initial interest level.

Cool, next you will finally realize that the earth is round too!

 

[string_bean00]

I'm a guy that's actually felt cheap after a one night stand. Probably not the norm, but oh well. Doesn't mean I wouldn't do it again.

 

[sconoscuito]

You, my friend, are a cut above the rest. I have been put in the same position and responded the same way. Good for you!

why you guys have girls up your hotel rooms anyway?

 

[string_bean00]

why you guys have girls up your hotel rooms anyway?

I think it's to talk about poetry.

 

[juiceddreadlocks]

I've been put in that position. Beautiful woman attempting to get naked in my motel room...and I've asked her to leave.

I guess I'm the strange one.

B True

been there too bro.

 

[b fold the truth]

why you guys have girls up your hotel rooms anyway?

It is ok to have friends that you trust.

Strange things happen to me sometimes...pretty crazy. Maybe I trust people too much.

B True

 

[sconoscuito]

do you smoke pot by any chance?

 

[Wazzup?]

I find these to be just excuses ("because I was drunk")...and nothing more...AND I believe these feeling's of women tend to stem from some of us guy's/society's/other-women's ego's... let me explain:

For instance, the only reason I can see that a women resent's having sex with a man, that is nothing more than fuk'n, with no intamacy or "connection" involved, is because the male's/society's use the word "slut" and other "negative" term's, too much for women that want to fuk just for the sake of fuk'n and nothing more...but when a guy want's to do it, then he's a "stud"...

If men/society and even "insecure women" would realize that, and instead of calling a girl a slut everytime she sleep's with a man, AND recognizing a women that like's sex for what it is, because she's comfortable with her sexuality, then more women would not be so hesitant to sleep with you...and we would have more "sexual freedom"... I mean, it's really sad that today's society has such a negative association with sex...an essential natural process/instinct. I also find it ironic that these same men tend to call these same women "prude's" if they decide not to sleep with him. It's simply a cause of today's sociolgical conditioning of the "group norms".

Whenever I sleep with any women, I do not refer to her as a slut EVER, even if she's slept with many men....I simply recognize her as a real women comfortable with her sexuality and a women that enjoy's sex, because it's meant to be enjoyed!

So many men complain about women being "prude's" if they don't sleep with you OR they resent sleeping with you....and these same men that tend to call these same girl's slut's if they've decided to enjoy their sexuality with different partner's... but it's not because that's the way they are born...it's because that's the way society has conditioned men and women to react to sexuality...it's actually pretty sad, if ya ask me... This all stem's from our ego by the "current" sociological conditioning.

Hopefully one day, sex won't have such a negative association connected to it.

Peace

 

[Sub-Zero]

i would only cheat on a girl if she was the type to then become really competative because she is so attatched to me that she either kills the girl, or gives me lots of sex and dinner to entice me not to leave her

 

[b fold the truth]

do you smoke pot by any chance?

lol...

I had a beer once before I was 21...does that count?

B True

 

[KA-BAR]

I feel i am a good person but when hot woman throw themselves at me I am at there mercy married or not! I know i am awful. Lately I dont know what the fuck is going on but its been pretty fucking bad. I love HGH!

 

[fistfullofsteel]

I feel i am a good person but when hot woman throw themselves at me I am at there mercy married or not! I know i am awful. Lately I dont know what the fuck is going on but its been pretty fucking bad. I love HGH!

Did you bang that hot chic that was sweating your cock?

 

[casualbb]

I think girls are just as horny as guys, and as long as a guy strikes a certain chord with her, she'll be ready to go no matter how long she's known him.

You got it bro. Think about it this way: from evolution's perspective, a long long elaborate courtship before sex makes no sense. It's not in the best interests of keeping the species going to make a guy go through months of bullshit before sex, all the while he could get chowed on by a sabre-toothed tiger.

How long it takes to go from "hi, I'm.." to "ooooh that was amazing" only depends on her initial interest level

You've been reading too much askmen bor; it's a little more complicated than that