I have been posting on Elite for 3.5 years now. This means that I have posted some decent material and some material that could definitely fall under the "pure crap" category. One of my posting regrets is on the topic of "depression". I remember offending many on here with my view of depression, which was "it's all in the mind, all one needs to do is think properly or in a positive fashion, that the mind could solve the depression, without therapy, drugs, or whatever". Truth is that may work for only a few who battle with depression.
There are two people in my life where the grip of depression has them held pretty tight. No matter what, these two ( an ex girlfriend and friend from back in the day) are never happy/satisfied/or see anything positive. They both have tried all the alternatives(drugs, therapy,etc.)
I personally have never been depressed and truly believe I never will because of my relationship with my Faith, sure I have a vice or two but being happy/satisfied/content has never been an issue.
For the last months I have really been giving my all to these two, whether it's my time, advice, money, etc(and I wanted to do these things 100%). They have caused some unneccesary stress but I never let that get to me. I care for both of them a lot and wish I could solve their problems, obviously I can't. I feel defeated and disheartened. Maybe I don't understand depression enough, maybe the only way to fully comprehend it is to go through it or hear from others who have gone through it or been around it.
Anyone, please explain depression, saying that seems kind of generalized, non specific and broad but please attempt, hopefully it will help me understand, thanks!
There are two people in my life where the grip of depression has them held pretty tight. No matter what, these two ( an ex girlfriend and friend from back in the day) are never happy/satisfied/or see anything positive. They both have tried all the alternatives(drugs, therapy,etc.)
I personally have never been depressed and truly believe I never will because of my relationship with my Faith, sure I have a vice or two but being happy/satisfied/content has never been an issue.
For the last months I have really been giving my all to these two, whether it's my time, advice, money, etc(and I wanted to do these things 100%). They have caused some unneccesary stress but I never let that get to me. I care for both of them a lot and wish I could solve their problems, obviously I can't. I feel defeated and disheartened. Maybe I don't understand depression enough, maybe the only way to fully comprehend it is to go through it or hear from others who have gone through it or been around it.
Anyone, please explain depression, saying that seems kind of generalized, non specific and broad but please attempt, hopefully it will help me understand, thanks!

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