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GoldenDelicious

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honestly, ever been in love with someone? whether they returned it or not?

im glad (and sad) to say that i have. who ever said it is better to have found love and lost is better than never having found it at all was a stoner. bastard.

interested to see what the macho's are going to say...
 
I am right now. He and I celebrated our 1 year on the 31st.



Oh and I forgot to add that he spent $93 on dinner and bought me two dozens roses and good booze. I gave him myself in my green "Sparky!" midi and thong.
 
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Seashell said:
Yep, twice.

Not returned either time mind you, but it'll happen eventually. :D
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I gotta say I am shocked, your time will come.

Come west and I can help you out with that ;)
 
Seashell said:
Yep, twice.

Not returned either time mind you, but it'll happen eventually. :D
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wow they breed em dumb over there ;)

on the bright side, they clearly werent worthy :D

Originally posted by Bigdawg1468
Been in love 3 times and have had it returned 3 times. Best feeling in the world and even though none of them worked out I would do it all over again.
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tough in and out of the gym...good stuff! :)
 
I was in love once, she didn't return back though. It became very taxing all in all. I don't regret it in any way. I still love her, and always will.
 
Yep twice. First girl (first love) lasted 2 years, second although short was one of the most amazing experiences I've had with someone.
 
I honestly don't know how to answer the question.

I am only qualified to honestly say that I KNOW I am loved, but this is from my children and family.

I honestly don't believe that any man has loved me. If I loved them, than shouldn't that love have been returned?

I mean, how do you know (in a sexual type of love) how to distinguish love from lust?

I THOUGHT I was in love 3 times in my life. All three times it was a sham on THE MAN'S part. No one has ever professed to love me that I did not return affection for.

Now I don't even search for love, but only basic human kindness.
 
This is a question that has plagued me for longer than I like to admit. Is it truly better to have loved and lost than to have never experienced the love of someone at all?I used to have a totally different concept of this whole idea of love. But I realized that I hadn't truly experienced the kind of love that shakes you to your core. So I was sure that whoever thought it was better to have a lost love needed to be shot.

That was a long time ago it seems. I found that core shaking love since then. But I lost it too. I just now came to the realization though that even though I don't have that love in my life anymore, I can't regret it. Despite the pain and everything else, it was all worth it to me for reasons that I can't really explain. Hell, I'm not even sure I know.

But this is a long answer to your question. So I'll simply say yes.
 
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Beached Whale said:

I mean, how do you know (in a sexual type of love) how to distinguish love from lust?

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Beyond sexual, You know it`s love when after you`ve had sex and know you WILL STILL have sex with that person, you keep doing stuff like waking up at 6:00 AM to clean the snow and ice off of her car so she does`nt have to do it, because you know her hands turn blue from the extreme cold.

I`m still in love, 7 years of marriage and counting. Don`t be complacent people! Thats the secret.
 
gonelifting said:


you keep doing stuff like waking up at 6:00 AM to clean the snow and ice off of her car so she does`nt have to do it, because you know her hands turn blue from the extreme cold.
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It's little things like this that can make a relationship even more special. :)
 
Seashell said:
Yep, twice.

Not returned either time mind you, but it'll happen eventually. :D
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Man, could I tell you a story about unrequited loved.....



:bawling:
 
PHATchik said:



It's little things like this that can make a relationship even more special. :)
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True. Little things like that , foot massages, small notes, surprise picnic (made by you) on the living room floor... Are worth more than any expensive resaurant or Dozen roses. I have all the secrets. ahhhh.
 
gonelifting said:


True. Little things like that , foot massages, small notes, surprise picnic (made by you) on the living room floor... Are worth more than any expensive resaurant or Dozen roses. I have all the secrets. ahhhh.
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I agree. I hear a lot of men say that women all want things like roses or jewelry or an expensive dinner all the time. And I'll admit that a lot of women do. I'm not one of them though. To me, little things like a phone call out of the blue, an e-mail to say good morning, a card, maybe just a comment that just showed that he actually listened and cared about what I had to say; things like that have always meant more to me than the most expensive present money could buy. I think that people take these things for granted far too often and don't appreciate what they have when they have it.
 
Ive never been in love. Im too cool for that. I do have whole rows of women fall in love with me but im too good for all of them
 
Robert Jan said:
Ive never been in love. Im too cool for that. I do have whole rows of women fall in love with me but im too good for all of them
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Dude, I was`nt looking for it when I found it. When I met her I remember it like it was yesterday...I had 7 voicemails from different girls and just blew them off one by one because I knew this was the one. It just happened...

It will bite you in the ass when you least expect it and IT IS POWERFULL!!! trust me.
 
gonelifting said:


Beyond sexual, You know it`s love when after you`ve had sex and know you WILL STILL have sex with that person, you keep doing stuff like waking up at 6:00 AM to clean the snow and ice off of her car so she does`nt have to do it, because you know her hands turn blue from the extreme cold.

I`m still in love, 7 years of marriage and counting. Don`t be complacent people! Thats the secret.
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I have had men who professed to love me go to tremendous lengths to "show me"... then, it would all change, with no warning and no reason.

Found out, that it was all a lie in the end.

So what does this mean? Did they really love me? And why couldn't I see sooner that they didn't truly love me? Was I really in love with them or was it just hormonal?... or just stubborness to live up to the commitment of my word?

I don't care for love anymore... I honestly think that it wasn't meant for me to have in this lifetime.

Honestly, I would die happy if I could just find a man who would be kind to me until the day I died. My kids and my family, that is enough for me.
 
lucidBlue said:
Yep, I'm in love now and have been for a long time. I'm not with the guy anymore, but hopefully that will change soon.
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Don't wait too long. You have far too much to offer to someone who actually realizes what he's got.


I would have bet the farm Seashell would've had countless broken hearts in her trail.
 
Of course.

Not that many people get to experience that and that person can be gone out of nowhere. So I've come to not take things for grantide anymore.

I've found someone that I'm very compadible and we both feel for each other rather quickly. Both of us dealing with long and painful past relationships we cherish that we both feel for each other so quickly.

I tell her I Love her as much as I can.
 
flex123 said:


I tell her I Love her as much as I can.
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My girl is the female Al Bundy. If I said that when we weren't in bed she'd probably say "You're blocking the football game".
 
Dial_tone said:



My girl is the female Al Bundy. If I said that when we weren't in bed she'd probably say "You're blocking the football game".
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HAHA! thats funny.

My girl has her sweet and caring side but she certainly has her "don't even think of screwing with me" side also.
 
I'm trying to fight the emotion right now.......is love enough to overcome so many other obstacles that may get in the way of a relationship?

it's killing me.
 
VG, ask me in 5 years.
 
The sex is too good to give up now. LOL
 
Dial_tone said:

...I would have bet the farm Seashell would've had countless broken hearts in her trail.
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:) Definatley not countless, but there's been one or two that were in love with me, that I didn't fall in love with.. even though I tried.....

It doesn't seem to work that way though, you don't get to choose you who you love ..it just happens.
 
you could say im a pretty cold macho guy and still..

yes it has happened to me.... and i learned my lesson, love is a chemical nothing more.... just like testosterone it can be minipulated and triggered by enviorment.

i do care for lost of people but the feeling you are talking about is a dangerouse chemical that you MUST regulate or you will loose control and do things you shouldnt and regret and pain always follow.

the only people i can LOVE and it stays healthy is my family

i have fun now with women even the girls i take seriously i keep at an emotion distance and understand how fragil a loving relationship with a women can be.

i have a very sexualy active life and have good relationships with women but ill never LOVE them. it to much at risk.. after all is said and done people want to be happy not in pain... thats what i offer in relationships all the +'s none of the -'s

im not lonely or bitter... just aware of the only thing that can strip me of my control

(love)

BO-DEN
 
Seashell said:

It doesn't seem to work that way though, you don't get to choose you who you love ..it just happens.
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There are definitely easier roads than the one i'm on now. It won't get me there the fastest but here's hoping there's something wonderful wherever it leads to.
 
I definately am. My husband is my workout partner, motivation, and my best friend. To all those out there who don't think they will ever find it, be patient. To all those who thiink they've found it but is not returned, be patient. Everything you deserve and then some will come to you.
 
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