Elite Ladies, step over here under the misletoe...

[Longhorn85]

- giving everything and expecting nothing.

Sometimes we get just what we expect. Obviously this is your personal decision and you've thought it out, etc. But how would you feel if one of your daughters told you they had decided that there was one man out there whose shit didn't stink, and they would not consider having a relationship with anyone else, even if that love was not reciprocated?

Sorry, I'm not sure why I'm harping on this, I guess I just hate to see beauty wasted.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Your comments are justified and I appreciate your taking up for me. But believe me when I tell you - I KNOW THIS MAN'S SHIT STINKS! hehehehehhehehee He is NOT perfect. Believe me, at my age and with my life experience my eyes are wiiiiiiiiide open. But there comes a time when we have to put sex aside to help a friend. If it works out in the end, then that will be wonderful for us both. If the only good that comes of this is that I have opened his eyes to all that is truly wonderful within himself at the cost of our physical relationship, then it will have been well worth it.

In the end, if he never came to realize all that was so miraculous about himself what good would a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship be? He would not be able to appreciate all that I am if he could not love himself fully, right?

I am not saying that my eyes are closed to the rest of the world. All I am saying is that I am not actively seeking male companionship. I have so much on my plate: my girls, my family, my friends, my training, my work, getting back to school, finalizing my divorce...... I don't NEED to worry about dating. If someone comes along that I am interested in then I may spend some time, but I have such a limited amount of free time and have spent so much of my time caring for the needs of others these past thirteen years that I now I want to do WHAT I WANT TO DO - WHEN I WANT TO DO IT!

See, I am not home alone pining away for this man. I am here if he needs me. But he has to do the work himself. Until we can reconnect I am focusing on getting the rest of my life in order. Yes, admittedly, it is very difficult. But ultimately, for me, it is a win/win situation. So how can it be bad?

PS - He DOES LOVE ME VERY MUCH, but we are both mature enough to know that there are times when love simply is not enough.

 

[Longhorn85]

OK. Merry Christmas

 

[Bikini Mod]

BikiniMom

I have many Warm Wishes and
Very Merry Christmas for you.

Pamela

Pamela - I return your sentiments with warmth and friendship!

Brotha, I thank you for your thought-provoking post. When we question, we learn!

Merry Christmas and best wishes to you and your family for a safe, happy and prosperous New Year!

 

[Longhorn85]

Christmas is over, but the misletoe is still hanging...
(closes eyes and puckers lips)

 

[Austin316]

*waves mitsletoe around head frantically*

Bmom, it sux, but ya gotta just take whatever you can get

 

[Longhorn85]

Time to revive an old thread. Merry Christmas to the beautiful ladies of Elite! Step over here under the misletoe for a kiss!

 

[TxArmyGuy]

HAHA....Well I'm no lady and no sugar for me but wanted to jump in and wish everyone a happy time. Since I'll be spending my 1st Christmas away from the faimly I've always known this will be an interesting time...I have 2 special people that are supposed to come up this Thursday and spend 3 weeks God willing they get here in one piece since the last trip one of them didn't

I just hope everyone else has someone to spend this time with

 

[Puddles]

When I am with a man I want to touch his soul and for him to touch mine.... See once you have had that, nothing else will do.

That's why I've practicly given up on masturbating...alone anyway. It's just doesn't even come close to being with my guy.



Merry Christmas every one!

 

[Longhorn85]

Mrs P bring that booty just a little closer to the misletoe...okay, that's it



oh, wait, forget the kiss,