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My favorite moment on the few first dates that I've had that were fun, was that last moment when inevitably if there was a connection sparked at the end of the date before the kiss, and maybe its in the car taking her back home, but there has always been this inevitable passing awkward glance or recognition between two people, I dig this... Its like a brief meditative silence from the hoping she digs on me as much as I did her, and fretting about something I said that was out there... but its like all possibility... pure anticipation, nothing has turned out yet, not good, not bad, nothing pre determined, I just really dig that feeling... emotionally, I get some liberating kick from it I guess.
And thats why I think flirting is so required to living a healthy social life, I mean its invigorating... a gesture of affection that can't be defined... it merely hints... if done right it is a subtle whisper of affection... I think the more specific one gets the more one kills the beauty of this act. Just as science is not able to classify, identify, specify, or define the mysterious process, magical process in which emotions are transduced into the sheathe of thoughts, and these thoughts are sublimated into the felicity of language... Flirting at its best are subtle whispers, like chimes on a spring day, playful attempts to communicate how much you dig on her/his being... without being committed to the feelings awakened.
Now that I've fruited off, my question this morning is which are you better at? E flirting through PMs or posting up threads like I wanna f&*^k nef... lol, or is your voice your weapon and rule through actual conversation, moroever, is there some unknown mechanism that turns on when you spontaneously bust into her or him and in that moment when enmeshed with their presence, you are at your best creatively to entrancing them with your verbal or physical capacity to playfully intoxicate.
Or does the screen provide solace for getting happy feet or freezing up when you are attracted to somone...
Just a rumination I'm curious about before I go to work and then school.
Feedback of any kind, I would really dig on...
And thats why I think flirting is so required to living a healthy social life, I mean its invigorating... a gesture of affection that can't be defined... it merely hints... if done right it is a subtle whisper of affection... I think the more specific one gets the more one kills the beauty of this act. Just as science is not able to classify, identify, specify, or define the mysterious process, magical process in which emotions are transduced into the sheathe of thoughts, and these thoughts are sublimated into the felicity of language... Flirting at its best are subtle whispers, like chimes on a spring day, playful attempts to communicate how much you dig on her/his being... without being committed to the feelings awakened.
Now that I've fruited off, my question this morning is which are you better at? E flirting through PMs or posting up threads like I wanna f&*^k nef... lol, or is your voice your weapon and rule through actual conversation, moroever, is there some unknown mechanism that turns on when you spontaneously bust into her or him and in that moment when enmeshed with their presence, you are at your best creatively to entrancing them with your verbal or physical capacity to playfully intoxicate.
Or does the screen provide solace for getting happy feet or freezing up when you are attracted to somone...
Just a rumination I'm curious about before I go to work and then school.
Feedback of any kind, I would really dig on...
