Effective lying to your partner

[HansNZ]

How do you keep your steroid use a secret from your partner?

I have the extra problem in that mine's a doctor. I have managed to get away with it so far but the suspicion is greeping in. So far I am recieveing the benefit of the doubt. It's not like lying to your mother - I have a medically educated person exploring my body on a regular basis.

 

[Mike P.T.]

I don't. My girl knows even though she would rather I not do it. Everyone knows. Even my parents.

 

[frorider6]

My girl knows and is cool with it. She trusts me to research and be safe. I don't think I would have it any other way.

If this is something that is part of your life, then you need to decide if this girl is also going to be a part of your life. If so, she needs to know.

 

[HansNZ]

I've already had the anti-steroid lecture. My partner would NOT be sympathetic. The pressure would really come on me. I even got the "your dick will shrink" myth just to scare me. I said (innocent look) "really - wouldn't that be terrible. Drugs are bad!"

 

[Mike P.T.]

My girl knows and is cool with it. She trusts me to research and be safe. I don't think I would have it any other way.

If this is something that is part of your life, then you need to decide if this girl is also going to be a part of your life. If so, she needs to know.

Agreed. Wish she was cool with it though. Well, I guess she is because she doesn't give me shit about it. But she would rather I not.

 

[HugeWannabe]

My girlfriend and parents know. My gf found out when she noticed my balls were the size of peas, she doesn't mind because she knows I research it but she doesn't understand the logic because she is not into physical attributes very much. Thats why i like her.

 

[frorider6]

HansNZ - stick with Anavar for a while. No pins, decent gains, etc.

 

[nautica]

Well, if she is a doctor she should be smart enough to educate herself in hormonal treatment. Even though most docs on have about 3 hours in the subject.

Nautica

 

[Evik]

Easy. Get a new partner who won't give you crap, or is into bodybuilding herself. Otherwise you will be living a life of lies. And is it really worth it to have a relationship based on lies?

 

[HugeWannabe]

Easy. Get a new partner who won't give you crap, or is into bodybuilding herself. Otherwise you will be living a life of lies. And is it really worth it to have a relationship based on lies?

well said!

 

[karde]

I don't understand the logic of being with somebody you have to hide this from.

You could just tell her it's creatine.

I had a doc tell me once that creatine causes roid rage.

 

[rotorobot]

I know what you're going through. Unfortunately once your partner has made up their mind about AS, there's no changing it. Interestingly enough, doctors seem to be the LEAST knowledgeable regarding the effects of juice and mainly try to deter people from using by citing myth and half-truths.

By the way, I think it's funny everyone so far has assumed your "partner" is a woman. LOL...

 

[AUcowboy]

Ive always told every girl that ive dated for an extended peroid of time. Most are like " you better not get mad all the time", but they accept it. Then again i'm in college and the girls in college are more open to drugs and such more than some of the older females.

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[supertech69]

Easy. Get a new partner who won't give you crap, or is into bodybuilding herself. Otherwise you will be living a life of lies. And is it really worth it to have a relationship based on lies?

Bump!

Like already said, she being in the medical field should know the facts if not she needs to learn them! I would not be with anyone that I have to hide anything from.

 

[THeMaCHinE]

Why don't you dig up some medical/scientific research and abstracts that show the positive effects of roids and that cite references. If you can put medical "proof" in front of her, and lots of it, she just may come around.

Also, there is a huge surge in the medical field in longevity clinics. These are medical folks that routinely prescribe hormonal therapies. Ask her how her view of steroids fits with what these legitimate doctors do. Obviously someone is misinformed somewhere eh? These same longevity clincs would likely be very good sources of support/reference materials that you could show her. Hell, have one of the doctors get in touch with her and let them talk about it.

I agree with the others though, it's not something you should hide from your partner. I've never been happier since I told my wife. She even ended up doing a cycle with me! Besides, chances are that you'll get busted eventually if you do hide it.

 

[Axe]

Easy. Get a new partner who won't give you crap, or is into bodybuilding herself. Otherwise you will be living a life of lies. And is it really worth it to have a relationship based on lies?

Well said my man. I am married and I tell my wike exactly what I am up to with regards to juice. She knows how much I am taking and why. If you have to keep it a secret then she aint the one.

 

[flex123]

My girlfriend and parents know. My gf found out when she noticed my balls were the size of peas, she doesn't mind because she knows I research it but she doesn't understand the logic because she is not into physical attributes very much. Thats why i like her.

and she was almost happy when she thought your penis was larger, but the small nuts just fooled her, your still a short man

 

[TrueCowboy]

I tell my girlfriend everything. I have even got her sticking me now.

I have a friend who has had the same problem though. His girlfriend figured it out when she saw bruise marks on his arm and ass. They had an argument and he told her he would stop. The problem is that he is on fina and t400 and has no intention of stopping. He is now injecting in the lower part of his ass underneath where the ass cheek hangs. He says it hurts like hell, but he continues to do it. I think he has a screw loose, personally. He even put vegetable oil in an empty bottle and told her it was his fina and he then tore off the top and very dramatically poured it in the toilet in front of her!

If you don't want to get into that kind of bullshit, tell her the truth. If you truelly love each other, you should be able to come to an agreement.

 

[BigBluto]

Easy. Get a new partner who won't give you crap, or is into bodybuilding herself. Otherwise you will be living a life of lies. And is it really worth it to have a relationship based on lies?

Very very good point. But at the same time wouldn't you question how much a girl really cares about you if she didn't mind at all? My girlfriend found out twice cried, begged, and pleaded with me to stop. She wants us to spend the rest of our lives together and have a family, she's not educated on it at all. She only know's the TV propaganda, so she better be worried based on that. It's one of those lies that's almost innocent, considering we all know the truth about AS. It's not like lying about a Cocaine addiction, or a kitty porn fetish, or cheating. Those are horrible lies to be living. You can still treat your girlfriend with the highest respect and love and still have a meaningfull relationship, all the while keeping your AS use to yourself. What's that have to do with just enjoying each others company, and having alot of fun together. But, I do see where you're coming from though.

 

[HansNZ]

You can still treat your girlfriend with the highest respect and love and still have a meaningfull relationship, all the while keeping your AS use to yourself. What's that have to do with just enjoying each others company, and having alot of fun together. But, I do see where you're coming from though.

Exactly BigBluto. We've only been together for 4 months so I don't think I need to share everything in my life yet. Sometimes I think it's prudent to keep some things quiet. Its not like we've made a lfe long copmmittment to eachother.


And Rotorbobot - your post is very perceptive, LOL!!!

 

[Jess]

I have more problems lying to my mom than to any girl, unless it was my wife or a very serious gf.