Drunken lovesick asshole thread

[Mandinka2]

Nuthin new I kno...

Met my soul doppelganger a few months ago.... had / has a bf who returned from Australia...

Great chic...wouldnt/didnt cheat and i didnt/wouldnt ask her

But asked her not to contact me anymore now her ol man is back...

Am quite alone on this mudball....

what to do ?

 

[hamstershaver]

she was your girlfriend but had another one in australia and now hes back? im not quite understanding what you are saying

 

[Mandinka2]

Never my gf man... ever meet some person , spend the next 12 hours with them (leave their place at 7am)...nuthin really sexual happen but be intimate with em at the smae time?

 

[hamstershaver]

so you only hung out with her for 12hrs? and no i dont think ive ever hung out with a girl for 12 hrs if i didnt have sex with them

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

I remember you talking about her. She gave you a massege...
Do what you can to move on, bor.

 

[Mandinka2]

thanks bro but nah im the massage (and everythin else) giver in all cases...of course ill move on but fuckin thing is im a week shy of 30 and i never met someone so perfect fer my dumb ass before

 

[Mandinka2]

so you only hung out with her for 12hrs? and no i dont think ive ever hung out with a girl for 12 hrs if i didnt have sex with them

First night , then we did the same thing for like the next 6 nights- crawled inta work

 

[danielson]

shit bro...is she worth being a frind? and does she feel the same way bout you? do you know this guy?

I'd say if its obvious you guys are clicking and her guy just got back, give her a few weeks, then ask to meet her, tell her your feelings and that u guys should know u click and see what she says, if your going to never speak to her again u migt as well

I wouldnt be that guy who constantly follows the girl around waiting for the bf to slip up, it would increase ur chances and all but if she knows u like her it could be awkward.

I would give it the try though, especially since ur not going to see her again if u fail good hunting.......

 

[string_bean00]

Tramps.

 

[Devastation]

you;re a good man bro for not stepping in on the other dud's girl. love will come bro. give it some more time

 

[biteme]

You really do deserve a good woman. From all the times I have talked with you, I don't always agree with you but you are a goom man and I respect you and your strong sense of moral character.

 

[awittyusername]

Forget about her. Unless, you don't mind her being intimate, getting massages, and having some other guy at her house all night if you become her bf. Because, if she did it with her current bf she will do it to you.

 

[Mandinka2]

Thanks to all the peeps for responding - was mashed outta my head last night - anyway it's a pretty good guess that we'll speak in a week at least on the phone. I guess I'll make her ass laugh and stuff and that'll be the way to go - not be serious at all - sympathy never got any man laid/love.

First up - it was ME who requested that we no longer have contact :
1. It would be interfering in her relaitonship with her guy
2. It would screw up anything I had with any other chics
3. It's only when something is gone that you truly appreciate its worth

I know she feels the same way about me - or at least did 4 weeks ago when we last spoke. But she's an extremely intelligent woman - PhD in biochemical engineering and fluent speaker of 4 languages - she's also 28 and is not prepared to throw away an 18 month relationship just cos some other dumbass walks into her life for a few weeks. She's aware that she wants to have children in a few years.

She's only left one guy in her life and he beat her up quite a bit - so i think that she'll not leave this guy unless it becomes extremely bad. She actually told me that her relationship has not come to a natural end and that's why she won't leave...
She also knows that it's my strong intention to be in Argentina from next year on.

awittyusername
- dude I know it's just a few words from an internet username but believe me I have no problem with my chic just talkin to another guy - just about every other woman would have let themselves go completely in her situation - but we both knew that's not what we wanted. I do feel bad for her guy - I would never fuck another man's woman I can promise you that - but the truth is things like this dont come around often (if ever).
Peace.