Drepression settles

[SoreArms]

I've been feeling a bit depressed lately.

I just don't do anything anymore. My life used to be so exciting and wild, and now all I do is work, go to the gym and go to sleep.

I don't even talk to my friends anymore 'cause I just feel we don't have much in common anymore. They all still live with their mom and just want to hang out and drink all the time. I'm 27, my life is way different than when I was 22, but they are all still stuck back there.

For the most part I am fine being a solitary person but once in a while the lonelyness gets to me.

I also ran into my ex GF at the grocery store on Valentines day. She was with some dude buying dinner shit, on valentines. When we broke up, I was actually the one that instigated it and have bee nquite content to be single since, but I guess I wasn't ready to see her with some one else.

Sorry for the dwoner, I just needed tovent a bit before I went insane. For the most part, I don't stress about friends or women 'cause others will come down the line, but I guess sometimes I just wish I had some one to do even simple things with.

Maybe I should become a big brother.

 

[jerkbox]

hey, welcome to my world......are you my alter?

 

[havoc]

Sorry to hear you're in this rut, you seem to be strong enough to get your head right, this will pass for you, props for posting it up, don't let this control you.

 

[Smurfy]

Sorry about your loneliness. I underfstand what youre saying though, you enjoy being single for the most part but there are times when being alone gets to you. This is totally normal. Lots of people feel this way. Even people who arent alone sometimes feel lonely. Try to get out more and do activities that involve your family or friends.

 

[FreeballinDC]

I know exactly how you feel

Which is why I threw Cupids Middle Finger for Valentines day.

Invited a few single people I knew and had a party.

It definately did NOT turn into a pity party, we all had a great time and I'll do it again next year, depending on if I am still single then as well.

 

[hamstershaver]

being on the puter all the time isnt going to help your love life any

 

[SoreArms]

Thanks guys.

I used ot be such a social animal too. My phone was always ringing, people were always inviting me somewhere or asking where I was going, then I just got annoyed with the supeficial aspects that this brought on, so I threw it all out. I am actually quite surprised that I have been able to cope so well with solitude although some times I do have a hard time with who I am now. I'll find myself at home on a Saturday night and I think "what the hell happened? Unless I was throwing a party, there'd be no way you'd find me at home on a weekend night" atleast not alone.

BTW
I'm not on the PC as much as it seems. Internet connection is always on at work and home. I leave EF minimized and check in periodically throughout the day while I do other things.

 

[from zero]

I know how you feel sometimes bro. Keep your head up, and this will all pass.

 

[gonelifting]

Hang in there bro. Nothing wrong with being solitaire AND finding a good girl. You don`t need 25 friends to hang out with like it used to be.

good luck. Find one girl, that`s all you need for a start.

 

[saint808]

peaks and valleys man... just always remember that.

 

[SoreArms]

peaks and valleys man... just always remember that.