Does Your Wife/Girlfriend Get MAD when You Check out Other Chicks?

[luv2workout]

Ogling other women in sight of your wife is a serious sign of disrespect. Looking briefly is another thing. If you're staring in such a manner as to piss your SO off, you're probably ogling.

When I'm out with my wife, I don't harldly notice other women. I'm there with her and I'll make it a point not to stare at other women by purposely turning my back to hotties, etc... Not saying I don't notice a beautiful woman, that's obviously not true, but I'm in it for the long haul, so I will show her, and our relationship, respect.

Yet another reason why I LOVE this man! What a sweetie!

 

[pauly]

I just appreciate beauty. If a girl looks good, I point it out to her, same goes for guys.

 

[rudedawg]

Ogling other women in sight of your wife is a serious sign of disrespect. Looking briefly is another thing. If you're staring in such a manner as to piss your SO off, you're probably ogling.

When I'm out with my wife, I don't harldly notice other women. I'm there with her and I'll make it a point not to stare at other women by purposely turning my back to hotties, etc... Not saying I don't notice a beautiful woman, that's obviously not true, but I'm in it for the long haul, so I will show her, and our relationship, respect.

Ditto..... altho I might still look.... I try not to get caught and if I do I will make some lame ass remark about her, shirt, shorts, pants, fake tits/nose/eyes/lips etc...

 

[THeMaCHinE]

Yet another reason why I LOVE this man! What a sweetie!

Luvs, you make me smile

I'm getting a little upset over your post though. I hate to be the one to break it to you, but it sounds like your H might be playing around on you... letters in the mail (and his secretive behavior in general) IS NOT a good sign. Have you opened any of the letters and read them? Can you check his e-mail? Normally, I wouldn't advocate these type of things, but it sounds like you have suspicions already. And I absolutely believe in finding out the truth -- even if it is a bad truth.

BTW, a person CAN change, IF they're willing. Just because things aren't as good as they once were, doesn't mean it has to stay that way. Have you spent any time on www.marriagebuilders.com -- check it out, starting with the basic needs. It is POWERFUL, LIFE-CHANGING stuff. But it isn't easy. EM me if you want to talk.

I hope I'm wrong about your H.

MACHINE

 

[curling]

Ogling other women in sight of your wife is a serious sign of disrespect. Looking briefly is another thing. If you're staring in such a manner as to piss your SO off, you're probably ogling.

Well, I try not to ogle to often.(if I do that is when she gets mad). Try to be inconpicuous as possible. Looking at chicks is just a weakness of mine. I don't do em or nothing I just like to look. They are like looking at a pretty flower to some green thumb nut to me. Should I get help? Because I think chicks are the prettiest thing on our planet.

Luv2,

I'm really sorry to hear about your problems. I hope they work out. Maybe just sit down and have a heart to heart with him.

 

[THeMaCHinE]

Well, I try not to ogle to often.(if I do that is when she gets mad). Try to be inconpicuous as possible. Looking at chicks is just a weakness of mine. I don't do em or nothing I just like to look. They are like looking at a pretty flower to some green thumb nut to me. Should I get help? Because I think chicks are the prettiest thing on our planet.

If it's to the point where it is impacting your relationship with your wife in a negative way, and you are unable to change the behavior that is causing the negative impact, then yes, you should get help.

 

[WombRaider]

luv2,
your husband has something on the side, trust me. i'll put $100 on it no prob. you need to get out of it b4 he brings home an unexpected 'gift' (STD, crabs, etc..). i feel bad for your situation, there's too much of this kind of shit going on today. it's like no one gives a shit about anyone else anymore. anyhoo, press the eject button ASAP and clear yourself of this.

 

[curling]

No its not that bad. I am pretty discreet most of the time. But it never fails when you see the prettiest chicks your ole dady is with you.

 

[THeMaCHinE]

luv2,
your husband has something on the side, trust me. i'll put $100 on it no prob. you need to get out of it b4 he brings home an unexpected 'gift' (STD, crabs, etc..). i feel bad for your situation, there's too much of this kind of shit going on today. it's like no one gives a shit about anyone else anymore. anyhoo, press the eject button ASAP and clear yourself of this.

Don't start advocating an end to the relationship yet. It's not always (or even the most often) way these things end up once exposed. It can be worked through. Marriages should not be ended until all other options, no matter how caustic, are exhausted.

There's not even any proof that the guy is doing anything in the first place. Or an acknowledgement that it MIGHT be happening.

I for one, hope I am totally off base with this one. Just don't get a good feeling, and don't like to see somebody in the 'dark'.

 

[luv2workout]

I have thought about it and it hurts He owns a big truck (Peterbuilt) and drives for himself...He is usually home every night ,out of town occasionally but the business he is in there is NO way to check on him...He is all over the place..He could be screwin half the state of Louisiana and I would never know....
I recently bought a voice activated tape recorder...I was going to hide it in his truck, but I cant seem to get the guts to put it in there...I feel guilty almost for even suspecting....I did open and read the letter he received in the mail and I tried like hell to find out all I could but it led no where...
My brother got drunk and confessed to me that when he rode w/my H and few mts. ago - he was all over girls (just flirting though) of course he denied it all...so I dont know anything else to do - I havent CAUGHT him so far, I never know if he is lying or telling the truth...Im just at a standstill...Im just trying to stay strong (dont know if its working though) and be the best person I can be...

Machine - I did look at that website..I really need to spend more time there..I just feel like I cant do it all by myself..you know...You are an awesome guy and your wife is one lucky lady!! I love your heart