Does everyone have an ex they can't forget??

[vinylgroover]

ex-what?

No. I have the ability to move on quite quickly

 

[brian747478`]

Does everyone????
I just got down tonight thinking bout my ex. I am better now, but this hits me all the time.
brian

 

[bds20002002]

I hear u pal. iv been there. and every now and than something will make her pop into my mind again.

Not to be harsh. But remember when she is riding some guys rod. She is not thinking about u.

Sry, but i hd to help.

 

[hardrock]

I do. I dated he for 3 years in and after high school. We broke up on 1/1/97 after I had hit on many women in front of her the night before(don't remember). Add that to the fact that she had caught me cheating on her 2 times before that, and that was the end. I still think about her from time to time.

 

[AAP]

I have one that I wish I could forget.



Or rather, wish he would forget me.

 

[anabolicmd]

Yes, they do,.

 

[Imakarum_Mirabilis]

lol Actually, when my ex-girlfreiends are with other guys, I know they are thinking of me.

I used to think about the ex who had the biggest impact on me...until I met the person who has, is, and will continue to make the biggest impact on me.

 

[brian747478`]

u r lucky imakarum, cherish what u have

 

[anabolicmd]

I`ve broken up with almost 100% of my girlfriends. I`ve never really been dumped. If a relationship ended it was from me.

Did you break up with all of them or not? What the hell does almost 100% mean?

 

[gonelifting]

I`ve broken up with almost 100% of my girlfriends. I`ve never really been dumped. If a relationship ended it was from me, so It`s harder to have that "unforgettabl one" in that situation.

It`s a sad thing though. But I`m married now and I`m happy.

 

[Tarheel]

I have.

I ended it but I still think about her pretty often. If I see her around or something she's the only thing I think about for about 3 days.

Maybe we'll get back together? Its been over 3 years now I think, and I'm still not over her I think if in 3 or 4 years from now she came up to me and wanted to get back together, it would be hard to say no and walk away. Of course at the same time I promised to myself I wouldn't have anything else to do with her like 3 years ago.

Who knows. Time will tell I guess.

 

[Imakarum_Mirabilis]

I cherish her everytime I blink or breathe.

 

[PBR]

every situation, properly perceived, becomes an opportunity to heal. All healing is essentially the release from fear. All healing is a release from the past.....and she will be in my thoughts forever.

 

[gonelifting]

Did you break up with all of them or not? What the hell does almost 100% mean?

As I was typing 100%. I was thinking I`m making a mistake... lol

Well I did`nt want to get into great detail but, I`m talking about ALL relationships, not just boyfriend/ girlfriend. I used to see alot of people for very short amount of time and none of them except for 2 DID NOT WANT TO BE WITH ME. One was Married, The other said she was very busy at college... I took that as a dump. I never called her back and neither did she. That`s it. 97% lol

 

[anabolicmd]

As I was typing 100%. I was thinking I`m making a mistake... lol

Well I did`nt want to get into great detail but, I`m talking about ALL relationships, not just boyfriend/ girlfriend. I used to see alot of people for very short amount of time and none of them except for 2 DID NOT WANT TO BE WITH ME. One was Married, The other said she was very busy at college... I took that as a dump. I never called her back and neither did she. That`s it. 97% lol

Please allow me to play junior psychologist here, but I would have to conclude that this did not come about spontabneously. I would suggest that maybe you picked your partners carefully so as not to end up getting dumped? Because normally in life you run the gamut, you dump, you get dumped etc, so Im guessing you never went for a girl a little out of your league or challenging like that. Am I right?

 

[-SD-]

LOL, thats what I was thinking bro.

 

[AAP]

I have.

I ended it but I still think about her pretty often. If I see her around or something she's the only thing I think about for about 3 days.

Maybe we'll get back together? Its been over 3 years now I think, and I'm still not over her I think if in 3 or 4 years from now she came up to me and wanted to get back together, it would be hard to say no and walk away. Of course at the same time I promised to myself I wouldn't have anything else to do with her like 3 years ago.

Who knows. Time will tell I guess.

True love doesn't go away easy.

 

[gonelifting]

Please allow me to play junior psychologist here, but I would have to conclude that this did not come about spontabneously. I would suggest that maybe you picked your partners carefully so as not to end up getting dumped? Because normally in life you run the gamut, you dump, you get dumped etc, so Im guessing you never went for a girl a little out of your league or challenging like that. Am I right?

Who knows, there`s no way anyone can answer that question, I`ve been with all types. I`m 6ft 3 so I liked the taller women, attractive some model types, college educated, They all had to be smart though. Can`t stand a dumb chick. AND NO DRAMA. LOL About the challenge part, I swear it got so easy after a while that I would do crazy shit and TRY to get turned down or just enough to squeak by with whatever shit I could get away with. It was a game, and I knew how to play real well. lol Not saying I was a BS er or something like that, but I just knew what women wanted at the time. It was TOO easy.

Having said that, I DEFINATELY got turned down (too much to list) lol when approaching women. No big deal. It happens. But when I started talking to them or went on a date. It was OVER.

 

[Night Fly]

Yeah, I think they do...and I think it's perfectly normal. Some people just have an effect on your life and no matter what you try to do about it...they'll always be in your thoughts somewhere.

 

[velvett]

I cherish her everytime I blink or breathe.

I have one of thoses - but he's not an ex, he's just gone.

 

[AAP]

I have one of thoses - but he's not an ex, he's just gone.

Even worse...... to have one of those you've never met before.

 

[sk*]

I sometimes think about my GF I had before my wife.She was a terrific lover.Unfortunately,not just with me.

I do miss that type of passion and affection though.If she wasn't a ho,I would have been with her to this day.

Huck,

What do you have against sharing the love?

-sk

 

[HUCKLEBERRY FINNaplex]

I sometimes think about my GF I had before my wife.She was a terrific lover.Unfortunately,not just with me.

I do miss that type of passion and affection though.If she wasn't a ho,I would have been with her to this day.

 

[velvett]

Even worse...... to have one of those you've never met before.

So I've been told.

 

[fistfullofsteel]

Yeah, I think they do...and I think it's perfectly normal. Some people just have an effect on your life and no matter what you try to do about it...they'll always be in your thoughts somewhere.

O baby, O baby, I know what you mean. I hope you don't mind having another stalker.

 

[plornive]

Yes. 1. I met her at a time of adjustment in my life, and at a stressful moment I told her I never wanted to even glimpse her ever again. I wouldn't say my actions were wrong, but is a painful thing I can't forget. She was someone that evoked passion in me.

 

[ZKaudio]

i have 2 of em... and i'm only 21!

 

[biteme]

Yes. It was nearly 20 years ago when we broke up. I have never forgotten her. I am definitely over her and she doesn't affect my life. but true love lasts forever. I can never forget the tender moments that we shared.

 

[Monkey Pox]

Had two exes and they are both like that for me. When you go for the big love, it stays with you for years afterward, at least it did for me.

 

[DcupSheepNipples]

I sometimes think about my GF I had before my wife.She was a terrific lover.Unfortunately,not just with me.

I do miss that type of passion and affection though.If she wasn't a ho,I would have been with her to this day.

Huck you so need to be abducted by Female Greys and they need to give you a anal prob with their sugical implements!

 

[buttplug]

I still think about killing him - so if that counts : yeah.

 

[HUCKLEBERRY FINNaplex]

Huck you so need to be abducted by Female Greys and they need to give you a anal prob with their sugical implements!

I'm so hard up I'd probably bang a female grey right about now.

 

[DcupSheepNipples]

I'm so hard up I'd probably bang a female grey right about now.

I don't have a supply of Fem Greys right now but I could send you some hot Illegal Aliens! Besides they will not anal prob you with surgical implements, just big black dildos! But of course that would cost you an extra 10,000 pesos!

Pimp Daddy Dcup!

 

[HUCKLEBERRY FINNaplex]

Exit only for the kid DCup.

 

[b fold the truth]

You KNOW I understand you bro...we have had this talk many times (even semi-recently if I do recall). I guess it is hard to really love and let die. I haven't mastered it yet. Part of you wants to hate her...and another part just can't.

B True

 

[anabolicmd]

Yes. It was nearly 20 years ago when we broke up. I have never forgotten her. I am definitely over her and she doesn't affect my life. but true love lasts forever. I can never forget the tender moments that we shared.

She was that good with a strap-on?

 

[Anarchist]

i have one. i think about what shes doing and how she is. what we couldve had.

i guess wat keeps the memory alive is te mistaken thought that were both just like we were. were not. im not anyway.

 

[liftsiron]

Yes I have one who is still giving me greif and its been over a years. Fucking dogs keep trying to dig the bitch up.

 

[presguy]

no i dont have an ex like that. theres just so much more out there.

 

[PHATchik]

Depends on which day you ask me, lol. He still has a way of getting to me, and unfortunately, he knows it. But I can't and won't blame him for every time I go down memory lane. That's my own fault.

 

[from zero]

Yes.

 

[Lift Chief]

Me too... been on and off for like 3 years now...

Everyone who's been in a serious relationship has excess baggage after the breakup... sad but true.

 

[rnch]

yes................................dammit!

 

[MattTheSkywalker]

if you are thinking of them, they are thinking of you.

 

[AAP]

if you are thinking of them, they are thinking of you.

not necessarily.

 

[from zero]

not necessarily.

Word.

 

[MattTheSkywalker]

not necessarily.

you don't think so?

i've almost ALWAYS heard from ex's after the relationship was over...maybe I've been forgotten too...who knows?

 

[bds20002002]

no way. half the time they are gone before the breakup happens. lol

The chicks i hv met, do not waste time in that reguard.

 

[AAP]

you don't think so?

i've almost ALWAYS heard from ex's after the relationship was over...maybe I've been forgotten too...who knows?

I don't think of my ex at all. But apparently he can not get me out of his mind.

 

[rnch]

I don't think of my ex at all. But apparently he can not get me out of his mind.

i also have one like that.......can't move on, can't go forward, i won't go back.......

 

[Machiavellian Muscle]

Everyday when I look at my daughter I see my ex. This is the only thing that is wierd.

 

[Night Fly]

if you are thinking of them, they are thinking of you.

If that's true...then that's definitely not what I need to be hoping for. I do better with it when I think that he's just moved on with his life and he's involved with other things now. That generally works.

Actually, I do well not thinking about it and I've done a good job with it. Usually, he'll wait about a month or so and then call me to 'catch' up. That starts the cycle over again each time. I'm convinced he does it on purpose.

 

[the nature boy]

I hear u pal. iv been there. and every now and than something will make her pop into my mind again.

Not to be harsh. But remember when she is riding some guys rod. She is not thinking about u.

Sry, but i hd to help.

lol, meanest help ever.

 

[MarthaStewart]

I had picked up this hitchhiker that was sweatin' gallons through a pair of Daisy Duke cut-offs and one of those Fruit Of The Loom tank-tops. Well, that night I lost myself to ruby red lips, milky white skin, and baby blue eyes.
Name was Russell.

 

[MattTheSkywalker]

If that's true...then that's definitely not what I need to be hoping for. I do better with it when I think that he's just moved on with his life and he's involved with other things now. That generally works.

Actually, I do well not thinking about it and I've done a good job with it. Usually, he'll wait about a month or so and then call me to 'catch' up. That starts the cycle over again each time. I'm convinced he does it on purpose.

Ok i won;t call anymore.

 

[Night Fly]

Ok i won;t call anymore.

LOL! You are crazy, Matt!

 

[the nature boy]

I had picked up this hitchhiker that was sweatin' gallons through a pair of Daisy Duke cut-offs and one of those Fruit Of The Loom tank-tops. Well, that night I lost myself to ruby red lips, milky white skin, and baby blue eyes.
Name was Russell.

Nipsy Russell.

 

[hellboy]

Awww man. I was doing FINE until I saw this thread. Haven't thought of her in... a few minutes anyway.

We dated for a year and broke up in March. I've dated 2 others since then but can't stop thinking about her. Man it sucks.

Man it sucks.

 

[white boy]

my eighth grade gf, mostly because she was a moaner (multiple orgasms) and always wet, I should have kept her but at the time I thought all chicks were like that

And her dad had a full bar

 

[MarthaStewart]

my eighth grade gf, mostly because she was a moaner (multiple orgasms) and always wet, I should have kept her but at the time I thought all chicks were like that

And her dad had a full bar

do you have any pics of her?

 

[FreeballinDC]

you don't think so?

i've almost ALWAYS heard from ex's after the relationship was over...maybe I've been forgotten too...who knows?

'

Ex sex is the best!!!

 

[white boy]

'

Ex sex is the best!!!

I hear that brother

 

[white boy]

do you have any pics of her?

I might, I'll have to look it's been a while

no nudes of course (eighth grade)

 

[AAP]

Ok i won;t call anymore.

Give me her number, I will call twice a week until she snaps.

 

[brian747478`]

i guess i am not alone in this feeling. getting e-mails this morning about how i have "forgot her completely" don't help. haha

 

[white boy]

Give me her number, I will call twice a week until she snaps.

or starts screening out your calls, lol

 

[PolishHammer1977]

Be honest in your approach. She will not like it but she will know exactly where you stand.

Repeat yourself if necessary.

Move on.



That is if you are ready to move on. If not than communicate as best you can. No bullshit. Keep it straight facts and there will be total understanding.

 

[b fold the truth]

i guess i am not alone in this feeling. getting e-mails this morning about how i have "forgot her completely" don't help. haha

You don't want to really forget them. Sometimes I really do wish my ex would email me...or call me. Strange feeling I know...but a feeling none the less. I know that she isn't though..

B True

 

[sk*]

You don't want to really forget them. Sometimes I really do wish my ex would email me...or call me. Strange feeling I know...but a feeling none the less. I know that she isn't though..

B True

Sadly some people don't like to remain friends after a breakup.

-sk

 

[b fold the truth]

Sadly some people don't like to remain friends after a breakup.

-sk

I don't think that I could remain friends with one of my ex's...but I do have one or two that I talk to on a regular basis.

B True

 

[sk*]

I don't think that I could remain friends with one of my ex's...but I do have one or two that I talk to on a regular basis.

B True

I still talk to 4 of my 6 previous girlfriends. Well, and ofcourse my current one.

I kinda wish I was still talking to my first one though. At least once a month, just to see how she was doing. Oh well.

-sk

 

[b fold the truth]

I still talk to 4 of my 6 previous girlfriends. Well, and ofcourse my current one.

I kinda wish I was still talking to my first one though. At least once a month, just to see how she was doing. Oh well.

-sk

Yeah...I would still just like to know that she is ok. I catch things about her life (like who she is dating now) on the internet message boards...but sometimes I just like to know that she is alive, ok, and didn't need anything. I sent her an email a while back but I guess she has blocked me...lol

B True

 

[sk*]

Yeah...I would still just like to know that she is ok. I catch things about her life (like who she is dating now) on the internet message boards...but sometimes I just like to know that she is alive, ok, and didn't need anything. I sent her an email a while back but I guess she has blocked me...lol

B True

I tried calling my first one last summer, and apparently she thought I was stalking her. I just don't get some people, I just wanted to see how she was doing. Never called her since ...

-sk

 

[louden_swain]

I tried to call an ex a couple of years ago. . .I called her residence and some dude answered and I heard kids screaming in the background.

Funny thing was that he couldn't hear me due to a connection. . . lets just say I am glad the call went bad lol.

 

[from zero]

I tried calling my first one last summer, and apparently she thought I was stalking her.

WTF?

God, girls are so goddamned stupid.

 

[sk*]

WTF?

God, girls are so goddamned stupid.

Yea, seriously ... lol

It was a bad break up, so I guess she didn't think I would call her. First time I called her and it went allright but she cut it short cause she had to go somewhere. Second time I called her, her brother picked up and is like "dude, you're freaking out my sister."

Whatever.

-sk

 

[SV2]

no way man... once its over.. its over... its better to be sad and pissed and drink a lot then to create a fantasy in your mind about fixing things up....