Unless you have lots experience with larger breed dogs and you have researched what it takes to own an American Bull (which it doesn't sound like you have) I would say do not get one. If you have done all of the above.....then I think you will LOVE the dog. I just think it's sad when someone gives up a dog because it is too much for them to handle. People should be properly prepared when taking on such a responsibility. I wanted to get one, but ended up moving to a place where I couldn't have one. I contacted breeders in the area, went to weekly training sessions with a breeder, etc. I think they are amazing dogs, just a lot to handle.