seaking420 said:
so if you're haveing unprotected sex and one of you has the virous but its not in its breakout stage can the other person contract it, or can you only contract it when its actually on the surface of the skin?
no dude
shedding of the virus can occur at any time, regardless
you really need to read up some more as opposed to posting on a forum
"Herpes is most easily spread when a sore is present, but, it is also often spread at other times too. Some people notice itching, tingling or other sensations before they see anything on their skin. These are called "Prodromal Symptoms" and they warn that virus may be present on the skin. Herpes is most likely to be spread from the time these first symptoms are noticed until the area is completely healed and the skin looks normal again. Sexual contact (oral, vaginal, or anal) is very risky during this time."
http://www.herpes.com/Transmission.shtml
This part addresses you the most:
Can Herpes Be Transmitted Without Symptoms?
"Yes! Sometimes those who know they are infected spread the virus between outbreaks, when no signs or symptoms are present. This is called "Asymptomatic Transmission."
Research also shows that herpes simplex infections are often spread by people who don't know they are infected. These people may have symptoms so mild they don't notice them at all or else don't recognize them as herpes."
I got skerred in the past and did my research, do yours....