Divorse

[seaking420]

Who here is divorsed or is going throught a divorse? What happened to lead to that and how did it end up?(financially and emotionally) I know this is a touchy subject but a good friend of mine is thinking of getting divorsed, he has 2 young kids and thats whats holding him back right now.

 

[stilleto]

divorced

 

[jnevin]

It's the worst thing I ever went through, and the only thing I felt somewhat thankful about was the fact that I didn't have any kids. Just be there to listen to your friend, and don't be the guy that takes him out to get shitty every night to "help him get over it". Sorry dood.

 

[Arabian]

Who here is divorsed or is going throught a divorse? What happened to lead to that and how did it end up?(financially and emotionally) I know this is a touchy subject but a good friend of mine is thinking of getting divorsed, he has 2 young kids and thats whats holding him back right now.

Speaking420, check my post about how much it cost me in this forum and also my lying vile x has kept my childeren from me for 3 years. I pay every month and I stll cannot see them. that s%$ will come back on her..

 

[seaking420]

I havent been on in a few days, thought more people would have reponded.

Arabian, I did read your post - that's some f up I hope you can get that situation straightened out with your kids at least.

It seems like there are very few couples that when they do get divorsed that they can keep some kind of friendship, at least for the kids.

I only know of one couple that can still talk nicely to each other after they got divorsed.

 

[Arabian]

I havent been on in a few days, thought more people would have reponded.

Arabian, I did read your post - that's some f up I hope you can get that situation straightened out with your kids at least.

It seems like there are very few couples that when they do get divorsed that they can keep some kind of friendship, at least for the kids.

I only know of one couple that can still talk nicely to each other after they got divorsed.

She keeps me in court for more money 3 times so far this year and they have increased child support each time. I am looking at going to Canada or New Mexico where they dont extradite for non payment.

 

[Subzeero]

divorced

.........

 

[Lao Tzu]

I got divorsed because my slary was too low.

 

[The Shadow]

I got divorsed because my slary was too low.

LOL @ slary......


I get it

 

[stilleto]

I got divorsed because my slary was too low.

LOL, this was good.

 

[Smurfy]

Speaking420, check my post about how much it cost me in this forum and also my lying vile x has kept my childeren from me for 3 years. I pay every month and I stll cannot see them. that s%$ will come back on her..

is she keeping the kids from you, or is the court keeping the kids from you? if its a court order, well then......but if it's her, why not take that bitch to court and tell the judge she's infringing on your legal rights to visitation as a parent. shoot, even drug addicts whose children have been (practically) ripped out of their wombs are entitled to monthly if not weekly contact with their children. even when a parent gives up guardianship, they retain residual parental right to reasonable visitation.

Im divorced. My ex, in 6 years, has paid basically NO child support, I couldnt tolerate him for more than 5 minutes, but when we lived in the same state, he had my son every weekend.

 

[seaking420]

I heard that you pay 17% of your salary to child support for 1 kid and something like 25% for 2, is that true?

 

[ortiz34]

It depends on the state buddy on what you pay, they all have different guidlines. In Mass they rake you over the coals.

 

[Gymgurl]

Kids are my problem.....not sure what is the right thing to do when it comes to them

 

[seaking420]

It depends on the state buddy on what you pay, they all have different guidlines. In Mass they rake you over the coals.

It seems like thats the case everywhere. I think people should get prenups if they get married, too much problems if they dont' at least if you are the bread winner. I feel for my buddy, it seems like money and his kids are the reason why he's unsure to file for d. It sucks because like him many people stay together even though they dont want to because of these 2 reasons

 

[AAP]

divorced

seeking

 

[Turd Ferguson]

separated right now. Welcome to the suck.