Depression and then some

[satchboogie]

the way is see it, when the goint gets tough the tough get going.

you should use your juice/training to psychologically and physically elevate above the problems and explore new heights.

women come and go. so do children. so does family and also money.

but the one thing that will always stay with you til the end no matter is your body.

pump hard bro.

p.s: my lawyer once said "this too will be over".

 

[dzuljas]

Use the gym as an outlet for you. Make training your own personal time to relax and focus on your workout. This will help clear your mind of whats going on.

 

[Sinistar]

i still say you should get on the meds bro. some of the newer ones can really start helping in 3 weeks maybe even less. youll still have to get get your shit together with the stuff in life, but it helps to have an ally.

i had some bad assed depression late last year. i didnt turn down meds cause i was sick of the shit. i went on for 2-3 months, which allowed me to think like a more normal person and get my shit together. ill prolly go back on soon just to keep everything peachy. its a viable option.

 

[nuh_mizer]

I feel your pain bro. I just broke up with my ex-gf. She is the same way. Wants to party and be wild. Not quite as bad as you as we were'nt married/had kids. I'd like to here what an attorney says about you situation. I'd think that since you are the more responsible one with the house and all that you would get custody. lean on friends and family. It gets better in time.

 

[HULKSTER]

Most importantly, decrease and eventually stop the ativan. Try having your doc switch to another antidepressant such as effexor or zoloft.

Get a Bahamas bank account now and move money to it.

Change your car to a lease and put other assets in other family member's names.

Church cant hurt. Family support is very important too.

Let the grieveing process happen. Time heals all.

T

The Cayman Islands have much more "liberal" policies regarding their clients privacy. He should take the money there instead of the Bahamas. Also of note, US Customs will allow you to export up to $10,000 of US Cash at a time, so you can make some trips back and forth to the Caymans, all the while securing your financial future and getting some very needed relaxtion and fun. Also, there are plenty of single, wealthy women there, so maybe you can snag yourself a "sugar mamma" while your at it....target the 40ish women with lots of expensive, garish jewelry who sit at the beach's juice bar for 10 hours waiting for someone to hit on them.

 

[HULKSTER]

I have gone thru depression and a divorce in the last year. No child thank God but it still was rough. But there is a positive end to all this your going thru. You cant see it now but by strengthening your self with the right approaches from different angles you can become a Humvee thru the mire. The strength is there inside, just got to tap it. Form a profile of self worth and positive achievements and Faith to work thru the grief. Not a Bible toter but it can help tremendously to recognize the little signs that are telling you something, the small answers to some of the questions you are struggling with. Pm me any time.

No disrespect intended, but I can't seem to fathom why anyone would bother getting married if they don't plan on having children? Did you plan on it, but there wasn't enough time, etc.?

 

[Sinistar]

I know many people may not agree with me on this one but bro, you have to look to God to help you with this situation. You cant do this on your own without his help. Look to him to guide you and I promise you all will turn out well. I promise.

worth repeating.

 

[ManOfArms]

I highly suggest you make an appointment to see a physiologist. That's would be a good first step, and take it from there.

 

[Arias]

Thank all you Bro's helping me, giving advise. I think God has spoken through you to me. I know none of you and the few stepped foreward to help a downed Bro. Thank You! You all have gained a new friend. Thanks for letting me be a part of this board and its many applications. Peace Out! Goin to the GYM!

Arias

 

[marky]

No disrespect intended, but I can't seem to fathom why anyone would bother getting married if they don't plan on having children? Did you plan on it, but there wasn't enough time, etc.?

I think you may have missed my point. I love children and we were both excited about starting a family but my ex has severe emotional problems is bipolar and a living hell to be with. She would have made custody and whatever visitation rights a nightmare. I am thankful that there isnt now some innocent child to go thru what would have been.